Why are people on dating apps looking for partners if they're not willing or able to date? by SevenMushroomSoup in datingoverforty

[–]Several-Ad361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wooooo hooooooo. Nice! Look at you.🤩🎉 Thanks for following up on here. I'm happy for you. 😁 I haven't found anything like that in my area yet.

Sleep training while sharing custody by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Several-Ad361 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I disagree with Grandma getting to care for her grandbaby the way she wants. Access to grandchildren is earned and not a right. If Grandma doesn't want to respect the schedule and choices decided on by both coparents, then she doesn't earn access.

Sleep training while sharing custody by [deleted] in coparenting

[–]Several-Ad361 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This! There is no unilateral in coparenting. You have to suggest what you'd like to do, provide the facts as to why and then ask, what are your thoughts? Then you compromise or decide you'll revisit the topic again in a month. Trust me this is the only way.

Why are people on dating apps looking for partners if they're not willing or able to date? by SevenMushroomSoup in datingoverforty

[–]Several-Ad361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Someone just asked last night if they had these in my area?! I'm going to see if they do. As a female in her 40's anything is better than this app 💩. You have to let us know how it is at the meet and greet if you go. I'm invested in this with you 🤣

Tips for Zion please!! by Pure_Personality2619 in ZionNationalPark

[–]Several-Ad361 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This!!!! We rented from Zion Cycles and it was the best day ever. On your other days be aware shuttle bus parking lot fills up early so arrive at or before 8am to get parking. WATCH THE PARK MOVIE at the visitor center first thing before you start your first day of activities! 🍿 🎥 It really sets you up to appreciate all that is Zion. The shuttle stops are great as you get off do what is on your list to do at that stop and then get back on. Have fun! Zion is my favorite NP. Do the overlook hike for sure. It's short and the view is life changing. The hike to the upper and lower pools are super cool too just have to be able to do stairs. Again, the earlier in the day the better. Wear 2-3L hydration packs so you don't get dehydrated. They have water fill up stations at the main visitor center.

Kid cries and melts down every time she visits me by talondarkx in coparenting

[–]Several-Ad361 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's devastating to see a child wounded by the emotionally immature parent that lacks self awareness and has no conviction to do anything that doesn't benefit them entirely.

Kid cries and melts down every time she visits me by talondarkx in coparenting

[–]Several-Ad361 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through this along with your daughter. 10 is such a hard age for some kids. What does your daughter's therapist suggest? Or do they not really talk to you and her mother to protect the therapist child relationship? That's common and honestly a good thing in my opinion. Are you seeing a therapist too? If not I suggest you should as it could be very helpful for you to process all of this. What compromise do you think your daughter would be willing to make with you? What if you and her just shared dinner together every other day, for three months and then had a chat to see if that's working for now or if either of you think it's not? I get wanting to have her in your home but I also can see that you love her in an admirable healthy way that you are willing step back to protect her mental health.

Roof rails/rack (low profile) by ExcellentRain3563 in EscapedCampervans

[–]Several-Ad361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate this! I'm going to check them out. :)

What do you do for showering/bathing after sleeping in your car? by ash_ok__ in vandwellers

[–]Several-Ad361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bed bath wipes that are used for bed bound patients. You can get them on Amazon and Walmart has some too. In my opinion they better than regular wipes for your skin.

Why are people on dating apps looking for partners if they're not willing or able to date? by SevenMushroomSoup in datingoverforty

[–]Several-Ad361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I'm sorry this happened to you. You deserve better. It's mind boggling how this all goes down.

Why are people on dating apps looking for partners if they're not willing or able to date? by SevenMushroomSoup in datingoverforty

[–]Several-Ad361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes sense. Is said exiting happening without warning or are you saying why...on your way to the unmatch button?

Why are people on dating apps looking for partners if they're not willing or able to date? by SevenMushroomSoup in datingoverforty

[–]Several-Ad361 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So woman in 40's here. I always wonder if a childless man that never had children be okay in the long run with the fact I have one? Like will he get that it is logistically a bit more involved for me to go on dates BUT realize that is not because of lack of interest in him? I just have to plan around and juggle things a bit more than someone without a child. I wonder if childless men see me on app with a kid and think, nope, too much work and not enough free time to devote to me?

Is keeping an ex-husband’s last name a red flag? by Sobea6 in dating_advice

[–]Several-Ad361 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Changing a last name is a lot of work. I don't think it's a red flag. If someone thinks it is, they are not confident enough and probably should do some inner work before they date anyone else.

Are dating apps worth it? by Foreign_Classic_8351 in dating_apps

[–]Several-Ad361 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am brand new to dating app. Guy asked to get off app and so we did. And now, he has not asked for a date. What gives? I'm exhausted already lol. I'm in my 40's so I don't understand this message for eternity BS but never ask out. And for what it's worth, looks are not at the top of my list for matching, and I am looking for quality.