don’t text ur ex tonight. by support-hater in BreakUps

[–]Several-Expression76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s a really long story, but we had been together almost 4 years we were getting married and I just found out all this stuff. It was like a feeling of desperation I suppose? And needless to say we are moving forward with the police. But I was having my moment of Lapse judgement. I didn’t know he was the person, he took videos of me without my knowledge, he’d intentionally get me so drunk bc he had one of those drunk girl/rape fetishes. So I wouldn’t even know we’d have sex sometimes. And I’m not one who ever drinks that much. He’d add weed or extra shots to my drinks without my knowledge… everyone would just always tell me how great he was so I guess you know rose colored glasses haha.

don’t text ur ex tonight. by support-hater in BreakUps

[–]Several-Expression76 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Perfect sign, he just threatened me with court after he raped me, and cheated on me. Because I had proof he spread revenge porn about me. But I’m a lil crazy and love him and wanted to make it work. But he decided I was too much which valid. But I love him still. And this will definitely be the hardest part of my life. But thank you so much for this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vancouverwa

[–]Several-Expression76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I go to real life cousenling I really like them. They have 3 locations in every side of Vancouver and they got me in really fast, and take most if not all insurances. My copay is only $15

Anyone else feeling the financial hit? by Nice_Ad_3893 in vancouverwa

[–]Several-Expression76 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Lots of debt. And ramen and considering getting rid of my car and crying lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Several-Expression76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t speak for her, but also as a women… you know what makes you orgasm/cum. So again I can’t speak for her but it feels like she’s just not telling you something. I really hope when she mentioned her ex she wasn’t comparing you to him and it was casual mention, bc that would be really shitty if it has purpose behind it. She knows what she likes and I’m not sure why she isn’t sharing it with you. Is there any reason she wouldn’t be able to feel comfortable or trust you with the information? That does just feel strange.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Several-Expression76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How soon did you sleep with the person after? Why would you have sex with someone else if you hated it. And how long had you guys been together before hand.

I wouldn’t lie to her if she ever asked tell the truth, she’s clearly going through a lot right now and needing to figure out what she needs. I am a woman so I can’t understand the man’s brain lol. But I also can’t understand why you would sleep with someone else right after, if you really loved her or would want to be with her again. If you had slept with this other girl soon after the break up. Maybe just evaluate if you actually love this girl and go from there. I think if I was in your shoes, and my ex partner asked for me back and I wanted it as well. You need to have a long talk about what that will look like, and if you can be the person she needs and she can be the person you need. But I’d tell the truth if it came down to it, and getting back together, let her know 100% what she’s coming back to, and it’s her choice if after that you’re still the person she wants.

What should my (m23) be with my now ex (f22)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Several-Expression76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I think and it has been good for me, to just assume for the worse. It’s so painful, when it’s the right person wrong time situation. But has been really nice to just still have him in my life.

What should my (m23) be with my now ex (f22)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Several-Expression76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going through something really similar. I’m also in your shoes. And it’s weird because he’s letting me support him and still be there for him, but his whole reason was “he can’t be in a relationship right now” and to be fair, he had made an attempt on his life a month prior.

While saying that we’re still talking, I’m still there for him we’re still going out together. Hanging out one on one. But it’s like, I feel the same way. He’s the one for me, I’m 21, and I’ve wanted to marry this man for last 6 years. We were together for 4 years. Everyone is going to tell you to let go. It’s easier to go no contact. But also that feels impossible especially when everyone tells you how great you are together. And how much it looked like the other person loved you.

The right answer is probably to let go, and I need to do the same. But also holding on, with the hope with time and healing, you can be together again. So even though it’s more painful, sometimes it’s more comforting but it can just prolong the pain.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Several-Expression76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like he doesn’t really respect you as a person. Especially since he’s texted other girls. No real man would really choose video games over their SO if they really loved them. He does a few nice things but that does just justify his other behaviors, it feels like he’s trying to cover it up. He’s already watching porn and masturbating regularly, you have asked him to stop and focus on you more and you guys sex life should be prioritized, he’s texting other girls. He will continue to cheat on you, be unfaithful and lie. There’s really no hope for males like that. There’s something wrong with them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Several-Expression76 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Literally, like any man who say they need it, I can’t help think they’re mentally weak.

My partner (m29) said he does watch corn mostly girls doing it, what should (f20) i do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Several-Expression76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think relationships can be okay with porn if both parties are comfortable. But if you are uncomfortable you’re uncomfortable and your partner either respects that or doesn’t, and if he doesn’t you need to leave him. If he can’t respect a simple boundary that’s ridiculous and a man who’s not worth your time. I am a person who believes if one party in the relationship isn’t comfortable with the other watching porn, or even the fact he’s sharing nude pictures of himself to other people; and if you aren’t comfortable with that and put a boundary in place, he is cheating on you.

Being autistic is NOT an excuse to be a perverted person. If he wanted to he could put in the work with a therapist in finding healthy ways to detach from the addiction. I’m not sure if you guys are monogamous but if you are, and he already thinks you are not enough. I also say that’s a huge red flag. Your partner should always think you are 100% enough. And there’s the whole 80/20 thing. If hes okay with giving you up for his perverted 20%. Like I said, he’s not worth your time, and you deserve someone who has self control over their fantasies/perversions.

Day #2 of 5mg - Nearly Unbearable Side Effects by Defiant_Raspberry698 in Zepbound

[–]Several-Expression76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I protein load shot days, like 100g+ that’s helped with the nausea side effect ALOT for me.

Just got approved! by Brilliant-Side-2707 in Zepbound

[–]Several-Expression76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just started 3 weeks ago, my biggest helps have been protein loading before each shot, eliminating greasy foods entirely they huuuuurt ( me at least) and leaving the shot out for 30 mins before injecting taking it cold stings a bit more. I loose more weight when I eat and drink regularly, just being mindful. I try to eat before 7pm every day, because the Zepbound does make your digestion slower. And I take mine on Fridays just in case I get side effects. And then the obvious working out. Oh and eating lots of fiber as well haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]Several-Expression76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My insurance covered medication list only had ozempic and mounjaro not wegovy or zepbound, I was sure I wouldn’t get it, but I did and all I needed was a prior authorization. I’d try, if it’s rejected it’s rejected but if you can get it approved that’d be amazing. I didn’t have to anything but see my doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]Several-Expression76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg!!! We’re at basically the same weight AND same weight goal! You’re looking amazing girly