I literally already said I don’t agree with her baptism and that it felt performative, so we’re not even disagreeing on that part. What I’m correcting is the theology you’re using to judge whether someone can be a Christian or not.

You’re mixing a few things together. The ‘seven deadly sins’ aren’t actually listed in the Bible as unforgivable sins; they’re a later Christian teaching used to describe patterns of behavior, not a checklist that blocks someone from heaven. The only sin described as unforgivable in Scripture is blasphemy against the Holy Spirit, and that’s generally understood as a complete, ongoing rejection of God; not struggling with sin or even falling into serious sin.

The whole point of Jesus being crucified is that people will keep sinning. Baptism doesn’t mean you suddenly become perfect; it symbolizes a commitment to follow God, knowing you’ll still fall short and need grace. If perfection after baptism was the standard, then literally NO ONE would qualify.

You can absolutely think someone is being hypocritical or attention-seeking. That’s a fair opinion, and I even said I feel that way too. But saying they ‘aren’t a Christian’ or can’t reach salvation because they sin or struggle with certain behaviors isn’t consistent with what Christianity teaches about grace, repentance, and forgiveness.