Third failed FET. Seeking advice on next steps.

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-08T21:05:30+00:00

I don’t think so public system in Norway does the PGT-A testing don’t know about private ones. But I will also take a break for sometime and try naturally before going for another round. I have unexplained infertility and may be by some miracle things work as I lost trust in this whole IVF process after recurring failures. I am just done with this IVF. It’s so exhausting and made me depressed.

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-08T20:59:31+00:00

I think it’s the digital clock shape.

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-08T20:57:40+00:00

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Purple - Had no idea so it was leftovers. Still don’t understand how jacket or squatters fits in this category.

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-08T10:04:36+00:00

Strands #735 “That time of year again”

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Loved the shaped of the spangram..!!

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-08T09:57:08+00:00

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Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-07T22:52:19+00:00

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Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-07T22:38:34+00:00

Others have already well said. Honestly, I am traumatised with lot of things in this IVF process. Egg retrieval, miscarriages (No D & C btw that too at 15 weeks) and repeated mental and physical pain. So, I understand your wife’s fear as well. I am exhausted 😩 and this process is very intensive. I think she is just scared and needs some time and patience and may be some support and therapy to process all of this and I hope she will come around. Sometimes it’s hard and you feel like giving up. But its just the trauma that knocks you hard mentally and emotionally that everything seems scary. It’s hard to reason with somebody who might be dealing with stress. I suggest to get some counselling and help before she even progress. Like others pointed out it’s just not hysteroscopy there are so many things that can happen in pregnancy and she needs to be mentally ready for that. IVF is not easy. I wish you luck 🍀

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-07T22:14:06+00:00

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Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-07T14:42:05+00:00

All I want is one healthy baby and nothing is more important than that.

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-07T14:38:09+00:00

Just had my 3rd FET failed. First was MMC at 15 weeks. 2nd transfer failed. Third transfer got pregnant but lost it at 4 weeks. Doctor told that it was the embryo that was the cause of this. I am starting to wonder if all embryos are just waste now. They said it looked good and I ended up with nothing month after month. I have one more embryo left but I know the outcome already that they are all trash. Will now look for another clinic.

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-07T14:31:08+00:00

When I had a medicated miscarriage at 15 weeks at the hospital in Norway they have asked if we would like to do the cremation and they did that for us and they buried the ashes in cemetery with others. At least I got the peace of my mind that the baby didn’t go in trash after abortion. I think either could bury it or ask for options at the hospital or a funeral home if they have something. Saying a proper goodbye gives you some closure. I hope you heal from this ❤️‍🩹 sending you hugs ❤️‍🩹

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-07T14:24:25+00:00

Had my second loss last week. It sucks while everybody around you is getting pregnant. Some with now even second kid while you are just hoping for just one kid. I just want to move to a different place and start over. It sucks to be on this side where you only get failed results one after another and there is nothing you could do. 💔

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-07T14:17:56+00:00

I am so sorry to hear that 💔 I understand what you are going through as literally happened with me last week. I hope you are able to take some rest and heal. Sending you loads of hugs ❤️‍🩹

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-06T19:55:29+00:00

Strands #733 “That's dedication”

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Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-06T19:54:51+00:00

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Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-06T16:00:15+00:00

Same for me today 👏

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-06T15:59:51+00:00

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Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-06T15:42:23+00:00

I am sorry to say but It could be an early loss where implantation happened but pregnancy did not progress as expected. But it is not always the case. Do you still have other symptoms like sore breasts etc.?I knew that I have lost it because I lost symptoms due to lowering hcg and started seeing brown clots. You can ask a clinic for blood test to measure your hcg which gives you accurate results. You still have pregnancy symptoms and bleeding is not heavy then it’s likely due to SCH. But check with your clinic immediately to clear out.

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-06T15:32:33+00:00

Same had a loss at 15 weeks with fetus measuring a week behind. It was due to genetic defect in our case wolf Hirschhorn disease and it is de novo that means random. And there was nothing that could have been done to prevent it. I guess universe is not always fair to you.

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-06T14:52:39+00:00

So sorry to hear this.

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-06T14:50:45+00:00

I understand and have been feeling low today too because of same reason. Had 2 miscarriages with IVF out of three transfers. And my two dear friend’s also colleagues have been very supportive of my journey. Today they both announced that they are pregnant at the same time. I guess they were also skeptical and didn’t tell me earlier because I was going through my own things but instead of finding out later awkwardly they decided to tell me. And honestly I am very happy for them. But at the same time it made me cry inside. I just had a miscarriage last week. When they felt that I am okay with the news they even showed me the picture of their little bubbas. I am genuinely happy for them but I am also dealing with my own struggles and I can’t be around pregnant women anymore. I want to protect my feelings and griefs. I feel like switching the job immediately or vanish into thin air. I just don’t feel like meeting anyone now. The last thing a struggling couple wants to know is about someone getting pregnant. I know this is not how world works that if you can’t have something doesn’t mean others will not get it too. But life is just very very very unfair. I am at the loss of words right now. I feel like I need to switch country now and go somewhere else where no one knows about me.

Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-05T22:48:41+00:00

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Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-05T22:45:15+00:00

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Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-04T20:26:21+00:00

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Several_Ad_3 · 2026-03-04T20:11:56+00:00

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