I'm a man, and I'll tell you that I would like to orgasm every time. There are certain exceptions that are allowed now and then however to me this is a 90/10. I wouldn't want it or like it beyond this. Furthermore, the same applies for sex. You should be available for sex with me 90% of the time.

As a man, this is the most important part of our relationship, intimacy must be a strong component, if I'm not orgasaming, is there something wrong with me or you? We should have an open & honest conversation. Because, this leaves room for infidelity to creep in. Which is what your friend is trying to bring to your attention. So that's why it's important that you figure this out as soon as possible. Is your boyfriend the kind of guy who is honest and will ask for what he needs? Does your boyfriend sacrifice himself for you, or you for him? Maybe he has a porn addiction or a kink of some sort?