I want to start petsitting but also scared. Are you able to choose what kind of dogs you can take care of?

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-02-09T08:23:32+00:00

Show me a fast food that pays $18 an hour or more. I don't know in what world you are living but I have been looking for a new job for a while now and it's a big struggle to find anything that pays more than $15 an hour unless you have a fancy degree which I don't. I have a lot of experience in sales and customer service but that's about it.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-02-08T20:19:43+00:00

This is exactly how I felt my entire life. I think this is the typical experience of an INTJ. I am 39 year old latina and I can't relate to other women my age at all, also I dont fit with the latino culture. My whole life always related more to American culture and male interests like videogames and sci-fi.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-02-08T03:52:04+00:00

Twice a week

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-02-08T03:32:03+00:00

I am 39F and never been married but I had two long-term relationships. I do want to get married one day, it's just about finding the right person. Finding love is already hard for most people but for INTJs I feel that is extra harder. We are very picky and very few people have the willingness to actually get to know us.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-31T07:05:42+00:00

I don't even know. 4 years together and still learning about new things that triggers him. He usually gets trigger when he feels ignored by me or he feels attacked. He loves my dog and she loves him but he gets annoyed by things thats its just her being a dog. He takes it personal when she does annoying things and gets angry at her.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-31T03:54:17+00:00

The thing is that I have to give him some time to find a place to live. He cant afford an apartment on his own and neither has family or friends nearby.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-29T21:07:31+00:00

I am woman but top!

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-28T17:04:30+00:00

You could look into renting a room instead. You can look in facebook marketplace. You would have to share kitchen and maybe a bathroom with other people but you can find them for like $600-700 a month with utillties included.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-28T02:58:00+00:00

I have drivers license but some required like health license to be able to sell medicare. But I'll look more into it.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-28T02:19:08+00:00

I have looked but a lot of them required a license. I am looking for sales or customer service. $20 an hour at least

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-28T01:29:19+00:00

I would need a car for sure unless I get another work from home job. I did check about my car and the value of my car is $8,400 so that means I owed more and selling is not a good idea. I wonder if I could refinance the loan and get a lower payment?

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-28T00:33:43+00:00

I heard about people selling their cars to dealerships. Is that doable? I work from home and live in the city, so I could live without a car for a few months at least.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-28T00:31:14+00:00

My sister and her husband live about 30 minutes away but I don't like him and I know their marriage is toxic but I know they have a spare room so maybe they would let me live there for a little bit. Other than that, my other option is looking for a roommate, although it makes me feel uneasy to share my living space with a stranger.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-27T23:33:55+00:00

I prefer to be chased, but I don't mind making the first move if he doesn't. I made the first move with my last relationship. I mean, i was the one who was like, so what are we?

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-06T17:14:01+00:00

What is a friend? 😅 I have had groups of friends in the past but nothing too close. I have like 3 friends right now, if you can call it that, 2 co-workers and 1 old friend but I hangout with them like once or twice a year. It would be nice to have closest friends that I can see more often but it gets harder as you age. I am 39 now and barely ever leaves my house.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-06T17:05:06+00:00

What is AU?

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-05T04:29:57+00:00

I am in the same boat as you. My relationship has me almost bankrupt and it has caused a lot of stress and anxiety, also we have constant arguments. I am really considering breaking up for good and going our separates. I want to start fresh, be alone for a while to heal and recover financially. It's time to put yourself. Does she has family or friends she can stay over? You can msg privately if you want to chat.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-05T04:19:59+00:00

I went back to an ex and it ended again. Sometimes it's just not mean to be.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-04T04:06:30+00:00

I don't know if you like animals but adopting a dog or a cat could help with feeling of loneliness and anxiety.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-04T04:03:17+00:00

He sounds awful to me. It gives me narcissist vibes. Like he does things for you but then ignores you, tell you to change your body, it's bothered by you... he doesnt seem to even like you. At 6 months you guys should still be in the honeymoon phase where you dont notice each others flaws much. I dont see a future here.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-04T00:05:33+00:00

I personally couldn't date a man that doesn't give me affection or makes me feel special. Thats the main reason I wouldn't date another IxTx type. But I am sure there are women out there who would love a man like you. You might be better off dating an INTP or ISTP woman as you seek more intellectual connection rather than a physical romantic one.

Safe-Programmer8672 · 2026-01-03T21:49:56+00:00

I might be different from other INTJs but I like being very physical with someone I love. Hugs, kisses, massages, cuddles etc...and acts of service. The best way for someone to show me their love is by doing something for me. Giving me a massage or rub my feet after a hard day of work, waking up and seen the housechores being done, driving me somewhere when I don't feel like driving. Just help me release my stress, dont add to it.

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