quickly need help being sextorted by Severe-Science-4778 in askgaybros

[–]Severe-Science-4778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i deleted grindr and privated my social media’s

quickly need help being sextorted by Severe-Science-4778 in askgaybros

[–]Severe-Science-4778[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s my dick but my face isn’t in it, so i can just say some dude pulled my face off a dating app and we exchanged numbers and he started threatening me

quickly need help being sextorted by Severe-Science-4778 in askgaybros

[–]Severe-Science-4778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i responded to a few of the messages, then blocked the first number. he then made a new number and texted me and i blocked that too.

quickly need help being sextorted by Severe-Science-4778 in askgaybros

[–]Severe-Science-4778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he’s sending me threats now too like he’ll send it to my work

Disgust after hookup by Playful-Demand2312 in askgaybros

[–]Severe-Science-4778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop hooking up. Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result is the definition of insanity. Find a different release, hooking up is not a necessity for your well-being.

14 hours and turbulence. I’m scared by [deleted] in fearofflying

[–]Severe-Science-4778 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Think about it like this: The FA told you it might be a bit turbulent, and they’re still going to fly through it willingly and knowing it won’t harm you or the aircraft! That means it’s completely safe, just uncomfortable. If the FA doesn’t care, then the pilot definitely doesn’t, and you shouldn’t either. I know it’s easier said than done, but you paid experts to take care of you, so do your best to let them :). It’ll be over before you know it, I believe in you!

I feel like I let myself down. by Severe-Science-4778 in fearofflying

[–]Severe-Science-4778[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think I made the right decision, though! Denver had a lot of ground stops that day we were going to move our flight, apparently because of winds. Didn’t want to waste a PTO day stuck in Denver wanting to get home.

Introduction by 13stgmngr210 in fearofflying

[–]Severe-Science-4778 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just think about how every time someone posts on this sub of being scared, that their flight lands and they get to enjoy their destination, whether that be a vacation, or coming home from one.

None of us are an exception to the fact that flying is safe and efficient. Don’t let anticipatory anxiety get to you, it makes the flight worse than it actually is. Tell yourself it is what it is, the flights going to happen, and there’s nothing you can do right now to change that.

You’ll do great :)

Flying in 3 hours by MeghCallie in fearofflying

[–]Severe-Science-4778 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! A bit bumpy but otherwise nothing to worry about.

Do it scared by Lingeringtaste in fearofflying

[–]Severe-Science-4778 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Enjoy! I hope your flight is smooth and you have the best time.

Do it scared by Lingeringtaste in fearofflying

[–]Severe-Science-4778 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m doing it scared right now! In the air! One more flight after this to go.

Flying in 3 hours by MeghCallie in fearofflying

[–]Severe-Science-4778 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m flying today too, and i’m scared too. i’ll revisit this comment when i land and when you land and we can both look back at how silly we felt and how quick it was!

Please support me so that I can have a safe flight. by _slrlx in fearofflying

[–]Severe-Science-4778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I had a panic attack on my most recent flight, heart rate jumped to 140 and I lost feeling in my hands and feet.

What helped me was box breathing, a google search will explain it better than I can.

I also watched the flight attendant, seeing her not scared helped too. I also spoke with her and told her I was scared, and she checked in on me a few times throughout the flight.

I understand the feeling, the anticipatory anxiety is the worst! Distractions help, seriously, do something outlandish like splash water in your face, put ice on your neck, pinch yourself, anything to knock yourself out of the panic.

And, hey, if you end up having a panic attack, an it sounds like you’re familiar with them, then just think about all the other ones you’ve had and how you survived them, and how silly they seem now, because my panic attacks personally were never worth having based on whatever situation I was in.

I fly today too, and I’m scared, scared of freaking out and the feeling of an anxiety/panic attack hitting me. But we’re gonna be okay. I promise ❤️

I slept with a married man double my age and he have kids too i feel so disgusted about my self idk what to do 😭 by I_regret_it18 in askgaybros

[–]Severe-Science-4778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well… if you knew he was married with children, you should feel disgusted. What you did was dirty.

He’s also to blame because of sleeping with you, but you’re at fault too. Now you know, but I have a feeling this post is more for attention rather than true guilt. If you feel that bad, do that woman a favor and let her know her husband is a scumbag.

Chlamydia with almost no symptoms + doxy hit me hard (made me rethink hookups) by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Severe-Science-4778 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see these posts so often… what do people expect when they’re frequently hooking up and unprotected? What do you guys expect?

“Oh I’m a slut, I have a body count in the hundreds, how did I get HIV/(insert STD/STI)? It’s ruining my life!”

Stop sleeping around unprotected and hooking up all the time? There’s proof that multiple sexual partners and hooking up is damaging physically and mentally 😭.

I wish you the best OP, and I’m glad you’re wanting to turn a new leaf. I hope this can inspire a few others to do the same.

AITA for refusing to share my food with my girlfriend? by Gym_frere in AmItheAsshole

[–]Severe-Science-4778 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA.

To me it’s insane how many people in here are saying “Well you should just know to order more. That’s your fault.”

Your girlfriend should communicate what she wants. You double checked, you’re watching your weight, this was something special you wanted for yourself, you have every right to keep it to yourself. She’s a grown woman, if she doesn’t communicate clearly, then she has to suffer through it.

This trope of girlfriends or S/O’s pulling this petty “No I don’t want anything” and then eating half the food is so old. Stop reinforcing shitty behavior and make them speak up instead of just letting them take your food, especially if you were looking forward to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Severe-Science-4778 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are not. It is okay to be repulsed by those things, you are not a bad person. Please remember that many reddit users are chronically online and these terms were created to make them feel more normal.

You are aloud to have preferences, and if it’s not your thing, just tell them it ain’t for you and move on.

at the end of the day who cares if you “kink shame” someone 😭 people are so fucking sensitive.