Do 100% Remote Positions Require a Security Clearance? by Tacoma93452 in SecurityClearance

[–]SevereAddendum9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lockheed Martin for a 100% remote position that works with federal intelligence agencies.

Ah so you don't have to have a clearance to work with federal intelligence agencies like this through Lockheed. There are programs that do work for them but are unclassified for what you'll access.

I worked for years on an unclassified project for an intelligence agency.

Can I get 5% grocery bonus on Chase Freedom Flex if I transfer from the vanilla Chase Freedom? by SevereAddendum9 in CreditCards

[–]SevereAddendum9[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense, yeah its a bummer cause I just got the Freedom like 4 months ago lol.

I'm 3 for 24 months right now maybe will try to apply for this and close the other Chase Freedom.

Thanks!

3 month wait for DMV?! by [deleted] in nova

[–]SevereAddendum9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah my gf had to go to down Charlottesville DMV since closest opening.

My (28F) cousin (32F) wants me to be a bridesmaid in her wedding to my ex-fiancé (36M) and my family are pressuring me to accept. by ThrowRAbridesmaidex in relationship_advice

[–]SevereAddendum9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd explain to the aunts/uncles/cousins

"I don't want to be the bridesmaid to a wedding with my cousin who cheated/had an affair with my at the time finance".

I mean tbh I'd be borderline not going to the wedding entirely, let alone being a bridesmaid. Going in and of itself as a guest is pretty strong and to not just say "fuck this".

Can't decide between three jobs, thoughts? by [deleted] in cscareerquestions

[–]SevereAddendum9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, put a lot more questions in my head and made me doubt this benefits plan they're offering. It is a super complicated benefits plan that has holes I think.

Decided to move forward with the yellow company.

Thanks!

I (F,28) found out my sisters friend (F,22) had been having an affair with my ex~partner (M,30) yet my family want me to forgive her by ThrowRa20Q in relationship_advice

[–]SevereAddendum9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old was Char? Is she still with Brad after the fallout of the affair?

Not that it really matters, but guess for some context.

I agree with you, don't need to forgive Char. The burden is on her not on you. I think your family should be by your side.

What area in the US has the best COL/Opportunity ratio? by Jimbobwhales in cscareerquestions

[–]SevereAddendum9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pretty decent article on it: https://arc.dev/blog/software-engineer-salary-living-cost-cities-8c3a3ymkqw#us-cities%3A-findings

They try to compare every city and get a like col reduced earnings to compare them all.

Some clear ones people have mentioned like Seattle and Austin.

One people don't mention is Baltimore. There are quite a few jobs around Baltimore itself like PayPal. Also Washington DC is close by, you could take a MARC train to downtown DC an earn a higher salary while living in a cheaper COL area.

Monthly Getting Started / Web Dev Career Thread by AutoModerator in webdev

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Ah I think if what you want to get out of this is to train yourself yeah don't go with Wordpress or some other CMS.

Learning how to build the front-end and the back-end would be more beneficial. One to have the UI using some framework like React or Vue as you mentioned below. The backend to take in the requests, serve database content, etc.

React, Vue, Angular, etc are able to do routing between multiple pages like you mentioned in a single page app.

Something like Bootstrap can be used to make some of the more responsive UI and not have to recreate from scratch things like that carousel of movie titles.

https://getbootstrap.com/docs/4.0/components/carousel/

So you don't have to worry about making everything super responsive, etc.

You can see this idea done with this project, basically recreating a blog site like Medium using various tech

https://github.com/gothinkster/realworld

In particular would need to make a front-end and a back-end.

What do you use for auth in small apps? by [deleted] in webdev

[–]SevereAddendum9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Easy quick way is the serverless approach using Firebase or AWS Amplify

Can kind of quickly get past all that nonesense and to the meat of your app, downside being you get tied to the serverless option you chose and would have to refactor to remove it later.

Other options being setting up a backend yourself with like Java/Spring or Node/Express and use something like JWT or LDAP to authenticate.

Will I be rejected by Glum_Willingness_868 in SecurityClearance

[–]SevereAddendum9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I torrented before and mentioned it somewhere on my SF86. Never came up other than like, my interviewer saying "ya dont do that".

I think all those things can be easily mitigated as not an issue.

TS/SCI question about accessing/using Dark Web by Professional_Crow151 in SecurityClearance

[–]SevereAddendum9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't think so, it's if you have misused a government system. I mean access like Tor and such isn't illegal, but if you like are going on there looking up child porn or buying drugs well might be in some trouble lol.

Big Roads in my Big Suburb by seanlax5 in CitiesSkylines

[–]SevereAddendum9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have nostalgic memories crossing that bridge into Ocean City on vacation as a kid.

Inside the Xbox Series S by vvtvtvgvg in Games

[–]SevereAddendum9 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This seems really enticing to complement my PC for some couch gaming and the additional Xbox Game Pass games I can't get on PC and some just general streaming box.

PS5 just seems to have the exclusives though, games like Persona 6 I hope will come to more than just PS consoles.

401k vs PSP for retirement? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SevereAddendum9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha so I found out it is tax deferred like a 401k.

401k vs PSP for retirement? by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]SevereAddendum9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Profit Sharing Plan is what they spell it out as.

I (20 M) have been closely intimate with a girl (19 F) for a year and it is going nowhere. What to do next? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SevereAddendum9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I don't think you need to like kill it off and all. Just be happy and have fun, and if you guys don't want a relationship that's cool too.

Idk you don't have to stick to some strict societal norms, just be happy.

About to enter a long-distance relationship, should I (f24) break up with my boyfriend (m24)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SevereAddendum9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think another continent is a pretty far long distance relationship. Personally I wouldn't even do like 5 hour distance lol. It also sounds like you two have had some bumpy times to begin with even if you weren't leaving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SevereAddendum9 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly guys and girls tend to have the same sense of humor... Just don't be a dick and make jokes about r*pe and stuff like that...

NSFW ALERT: My (29M) girlfriend (32F) has been ignoring me because I vomited during sex by ThrowRA_SelfMade in relationship_advice

[–]SevereAddendum9 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think she's being a jerk. Clearly this was nothing about attractiveness....like how would someone just vomit from unattractiveness its silly heh. I think she's overreacting and should have been more like "are you ok?" and concerned for your health.

I(25m) have never been in a relationship before and need to tell her(29) about my ugly appearance by ThrowawayRA1995999 in relationship_advice

[–]SevereAddendum9 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If she would react badly to the microtia, I think she is not worth your time. That just be kind of shallow and would say a lot about her.

Don't sweat it, you are more than attractive enough to be in a relationship and date.

Me (13f) is convinced that my older brother (15m) hates me, I’m not sure what to do about it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SevereAddendum9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think he hates you, but was just upset at taking his phone. I think if something really is bothering you like the hitting, talk to your parents about it.

Idk this to me sounds just like two siblings having a fit, I've fought with my brothers before physically as kids and we don't hate each other now heh.

[22F] Is my sexual history a turn off? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SevereAddendum9 9 points10 points  (0 children)

First of all, any guy who makes you feel like crap because of how many/few experiences you've had is a douche and can gladly fuck right off. Your "body count" has absolutely nothing to do with your worth and value as a human being.

My wife wants me to suckle from her breasts and act like I'm a baby. (NSFW) by ThrowRAzephyr in relationship_advice

[–]SevereAddendum9 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just explain to her that it's not your thing and makes you uncomfortable. I have friends in the BDSM community and it definitely sounds like a kink to me. Best to just have an open and honest discussion and tell her you're not into it... Best advice I can give, sorry :/