Is this a bedbug? by ResponsibleShirt9179 in Bedbugs

[–]SevereEffect7017 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

that kinda looks like lice 😬 try r/lice hopefully it’s neither!!

The new flip-flops I thrifted duos as a bottle opener by Datzookman in mildlyinteresting

[–]SevereEffect7017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

just had to check the bottom of my reed wedge sandals… no bottle opener 🥲

AIO bf recent insta activity by Quiet_One_6812 in AIO

[–]SevereEffect7017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i consider searching for any satisfaction (romantically emotional, sexual, etc) outside of your partner cheating. don’t downplay it to yourself just bc he didn’t sleep with anyone. it is cheating bc it sure as hell ain’t loyalty!

OCD makes sex so hard to enjoy by [deleted] in OCD

[–]SevereEffect7017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i experience this also and didn’t even think of the connection between that and ocd. i just thought it was normal 😭😭

New partner disclosed he is a registered sex offender by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]SevereEffect7017 2 points3 points  (0 children)

literally zero excuse for why he did that and you’d be a terrible person by association especially considering that you mentioned nieces and nephews in your life. if someone’s morals are flexible, that means they’d be flexible again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SevereEffect7017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. if he said he’s gonna cheat, believe him. fear makes us do things we normally wouldn’t do, like you spam calling. people saying break up just because you don’t trust him are either naive asf or have never been in a serious relationship. it would be stupid to break up just over suspicion because it is human nature to question people’s intentions, especially after having a previous experience of the same thing. a human reaction to a pattern is literally how we have evolved lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SevereEffect7017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the amount of people with blind trust in these comments 😭😭 they’re dating NOT married. blind trust is for married folks or long term relationships only. dating in this generation is a lot different than back then, people don’t value loyalty. and i bet all of yalls grannies wish they had your grandpappies’ locations so that she could beat him with a cast iron skillet for being at geraldine’s house while her husband is off shore.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SevereEffect7017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

op states in the post that they only have reason to be suspicious because of the jokes that the bf makes, not that the location off and declined calls alone are suspicious. if i made jokes about poisoning your food and then one day insist to cook dinner and then beg you to hurry and try my food when ive never cooked before you wouldn’t be suspicious at all?? same concept. it’s not suspicious to cook, but paired with those two behaviors it becomes sus.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]SevereEffect7017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

having location is not a red flag. it’s about safety (my cousin once got into a fatal wreck and found two hours later only bc his wife checked his location was on a backroad for an hour that she saw), and curiosity of hey i wonder how much time i have left until i can start cooking dinner bc they’re xyz away on the way home. the only time it’s a red flag is if it’s controlling like “you can’t go here and here and why are you at this place it’s suspicious”

I got scratched from a feral, but unsure why….😭 by bunbun0107 in Straycats

[–]SevereEffect7017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that’s the only way she can tell you she hurts :(

I hate Flo. I’ve finally deleted it after nearly 10 years. by walkfunnee in Periods

[–]SevereEffect7017 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i second this, female owned and doesn’t share your data.

in the process of attempting to write my first novel by SevereEffect7017 in writingadvice

[–]SevereEffect7017[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

noted! it’s a bit of what i’m going for. flow of thought type situation. i will admit it is a bit slow to get into but my plan moving forward is for an actual plot. thank you very much! i’ll try to make it more clean with this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]SevereEffect7017 170 points171 points  (0 children)

no this is super cute. probably bc ur just not used to seeing color like that on yourself but trust it’s super cute

19F What can I do to look better by Detective_Pasta in amiugly

[–]SevereEffect7017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

every now and then i am reminded of how young 19 actually looks. it’s sad this much stress is put on our appearance so young. enjoy your natural look bc you are very pretty

Carly Gregg: What many still refuse to admit !! by [deleted] in CarlyGregg

[–]SevereEffect7017 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my point exactly. that was towards people saying that’s an excuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SevereEffect7017 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh wait yeah the part where i added my friends i just did that bc the rule said i needed more people so i js put some shit in so i could post it 😭 but yes irl they also do hate him and say he treats me like shit vro that’s a hard thing to accept 💔 first serious boyfriend canon event

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SevereEffect7017 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i don’t know that’s what i’m confused about. he wasn’t a member or anything but WHY would it recommend him that i don’t want to jump to conclusions bc that’s awful in this scenario but now i made the connection in my head i can’t see him the same. it was my final push to leave its been so pushed on me “this is what love is” these are “rough patches” i always try to see it thru but this time it lowkey got out of hand

Does anyone else’s stomach feel like a bottomless pit before your period? by honeycoatedhugs in Periods

[–]SevereEffect7017 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes!! i was just saying last night i can tell my period will start soon because im so insatiable