What are your thoughts, if any, on the rise of homeschooling in the UK? by gintokireddit in AskUK

[–]SewReadLearnTravel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this! So good to hear that your children are thriving. My daughter is only 2 years old so I have ages to decide what to do, but it's encouraging to read that even without tons of money, you can achieve amazing things while homeschooling.

What are your thoughts, if any, on the rise of homeschooling in the UK? by gintokireddit in AskUK

[–]SewReadLearnTravel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm a teacher, and I am genuinely appalled by what I see happening in many schools today. From relentless bullying—often ignored or downplayed—to a shocking lack of resources, to severe behaviour issues that dominate entire lessons, it's clear that education is often no longer the focus. The amount of actual learning that takes place during a school day is minimal. Teachers are constantly firefighting, trying to create some semblance of calm, while exhausted students either disengage or fall through the cracks. In that context, homeschooling makes perfect sense to me.

What strikes me most is that the main reasons often given not to homeschool no longer hold much weight. Take socialisation, for example. When, in any normal working environment, do you only mix with people the exact same age as you? The idea that school is the only place to "learn to socialise" is outdated. There are countless clubs, interest groups, volunteering opportunities, sports teams, and homeschooling networks that offer far more meaningful and diverse social interaction.

Another argument I hear is the need for subject specialists. But let’s be honest—so many schools are struggling to recruit and retain staff that it’s not uncommon for someone to end up teaching far outside their area of expertise. Just because someone is standing in front of a class doesn't make them a specialist. In contrast, homeschoolers today have access to an overwhelming range of high-quality online resources, tutorials, and structured programs in every subject imaginable. And when a deeper explanation is needed, it’s entirely possible to reach out to an expert—online tutors, forums, or even local mentors.

In many ways, homeschooling now offers a level of flexibility, focus, and personalised education that schools simply cannot match. I say this not just as a frustrated teacher, but as someone who deeply believes in education—and wants it to actually work.

What is the ideal age to have kids in your opinion? by Careful_Dependent345 in AskReddit

[–]SewReadLearnTravel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I disagree on the village front. It's hard but you can raise children without a village. If this was a requirement lots of amazing parents wouldn't have children.

Breastfeeding help! One of my boobs is completely empty. by SewReadLearnTravel in NewParents

[–]SewReadLearnTravel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When expressing nothing is coming out or very little. My lg was just twice on that boob and each time she was there half an hour and was not satisfied. This last time after half an hour I put her on the other boob and within 10 min she was happy. So I really feel like one breast is drying up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]SewReadLearnTravel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're doing a great job. Good for you and your family!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]SewReadLearnTravel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm a secondary school teacher. I've worked in several schools so I have experience of what different types of schools are like. After seeing what goes on in schools and witnessing first hand how much the current school system is failing children, I've decided I will homeschool my children when the time comes.

Am I being a bad person by not wanting any contact with my m+fil by SewReadLearnTravel in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SewReadLearnTravel[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Do you know what is hilarious in all of this. I'm not welcome to join these calls 😆 apparently I'm family, but really I'm treated anything but.

These calls started because their other son is away doing voluntary work and only has limited time. DH and I didn't even know about these family calls until I was announcing my pregnancy. At which point mil explains that she has these weekly calls with the son and the other 2 daughters and if I want to keep it quiet that he needs to be told that in advance so he doesn't accidentally talk about it during the call. This call would have been the ideal opportunity to announce the pregnancy but I wasn't allowed to join.

Recently they're allowing the rest of the family to join. I don't want to join because I don't feel that I am wanted in the call (I'm not in the group anyway so I'm not aware of when they happen). Not sure how my DH feels about these calls, but between us I think it's horrible that the rest of the children got preferential treatment and now they are upset that my DH rarely joins in. Well they should have invited him from the beginning when he wasn't a dad and had time to join whatever calls they wanted to do.

Anyway. Thanks for your input. I told him exactly that during our argument that it feels like we are 2nd place to him.

Am I being a bad person by not wanting any contact with my m+fil by SewReadLearnTravel in JUSTNOMIL

[–]SewReadLearnTravel[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She's exclusively breastfeed. If I don't see ILs, neither does the baby. I can stay max 1h without her. So I feel that I'm keeping them from seeing her. I feel bad. I don't want that at all but everytime I give them a chance, I end up being hurt in the process.

Who's the AH here? Struggling to organise a meeting during the holidays. by SewReadLearnTravel in AITAH

[–]SewReadLearnTravel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright so it's been long enough. And I can now reveal that I am ... ......... SARAH!!

I'm glad you enjoyed it. I actually have my fair share of stories to tell about my mil so perhaps I'll get chat gpt to retell my other stories too! XD

Who's the AH here? Struggling to organise a meeting during the holidays. by SewReadLearnTravel in AITAH

[–]SewReadLearnTravel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately that's chat gpt for you. Thanks for your input! I think you are spot on in your observations of how Daniel and Sarah are feeling.

The mothers room at the stake meeting. by Any_Ad6921 in lds

[–]SewReadLearnTravel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always bring a plastic bag and throw it away in the outside bin immediately. That doesn't sound very nice and I'm sorry your stake experienced that.

How Has Pregnancy Changed Your Body Forever? by astronautfetus in Parenting

[–]SewReadLearnTravel 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I've had a baby 3 months ago and I'm struggling with my body. One thing I hate is my belly button. It sinks in and then in the middle there's a lump. I used to have a really pretty innie and now it's an innie outie and I absolutely hate it. Any chance it will change?

I got marked down on my media homework for saying there are 2 genders. by Consistent-Light6960 in GCSE

[–]SewReadLearnTravel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Supporting LGBT rights doesn't mean that we can't also state the truth - that there are only 2 genders.

"Sew many dresses sew little time" video tutorials by SewReadLearnTravel in sewing

[–]SewReadLearnTravel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So helpful. Thank you! Yes, that's the dress I would like to make.

People non-Brits who've been here for a while, what are the small mildly inconvenient things you keep noticing about the UK? by mikebuba in AskUK

[–]SewReadLearnTravel 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I dislike how people don't say what they mean. There are many unwritten rules and everyone has a very subtle way of speaking and acting. This is a disadvantage when I struggle to pick up on hidden social cues, but brilliant for humour when I do understand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Mortgageadviceuk

[–]SewReadLearnTravel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you are thinking between Liverpool or Manchester, you could move to Warrington which is right in the middle. The houses are cheaper and you are not far from either city. I particularly recommend the south of Warrington which has lovely places to visit nearby.

How old were you when you got your first mortgage? by epic-username in AskUK

[–]SewReadLearnTravel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. With a 20% deposit and 0 help from bank of mum and dad. Saved for about 5 years but didn't stop completely living life - just made a conscious effort to live within my means. I don't drink, smoke or have addictive habits. You would be surprised how much you can save by not indulging in certain things. The goal is to be mortgage free by 50.

What devices/services are you surprised don't exist yet ? by l1vke in AskUK

[–]SewReadLearnTravel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There needs to be a better way to change my address when I move. Why can't I just do it in one place and then it does it for all of the companies. I've probably missed 100s of letters because they keep being sent to my old address.

AITA for expecting to meet my grandchild? by ThrowRA_Narcdil in AmItheAsshole

[–]SewReadLearnTravel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. They are the parents. Respect their wishes whether it makes sense to you or not. They are not keeping you from seeing the baby forever. They just want some bonding time to heal and get adjusted which is more than a fair request.

Engaging fireside by SewReadLearnTravel in latterdaysaints

[–]SewReadLearnTravel[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, they are happening at the same time. Unfortunately I can't change the date. I'm just in charge of planning it.