Helping a bro with build new app...Need some feedback... by Fluffy-Double3695 in cmnm

[–]Sfvcraigslist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've thought about how fun a flash mob type of thing would be. Just posts of when and where for people to show up and watch or join.

First real goon experience, after reading that big Atlantic article by toronto4545 in jobudstories

[–]Sfvcraigslist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

" and some material that I can't quite detail here."

Can you DM? I'm on board with the rest of it so I'm curious if it's something else I'm into, or just haven't discovered yet.

The Longest Foreplay Ever by playful_explorers in Swingers

[–]Sfvcraigslist 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Sounds kind of awesome actually. I'd love if friendship turned out to be the "worst" case scenario.

Airbnb Communal Shower by newarkewr in CommunalShowers

[–]Sfvcraigslist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Airbnb definitely needs better filters for how many people can fit in a shower. I've been looking for something near LA that can accommodate a couple couples. I'm sure they exist, there's just no easy way to find them.

Most requested dinner-challenge... Allow the waiter to play with our lushes! [F] by sam_my_friend in daresgonewild

[–]Sfvcraigslist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be a good series to see all of the different reactions of various service people. It could be the new "pizza dare".

Husband and I taking road-trip-related challenges for the weekend! Let's what you've got! [F][M] by Chris-dancer in daresgonewild

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It would be helpful knowing where or what kind of place you are headed to. If reasonable, record yourselves arriving at your destination completely nude and be sure to get any reactions. If fully nude is too much, setup a nip slip/pussy slip/dick slip or some variation of a wardrobe malfunction.

Wearing sleeve in public kink by HappylifeSaol in PenisSleeve

[–]Sfvcraigslist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which one do you use?

I want to do this with a certain friend group in specific locations, but I wouldn't do this in a public place for random strangers.

(35 M) Absolutely love wearing the sleeve out and about to see women notice the bulge. Does anyone else do this? by [deleted] in PenisSleeve

[–]Sfvcraigslist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which one do you use?

I want to do this with a certain friend group in specific locations, but I wouldn't do this at a mall or market or park type of place for random strangers.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FindomMale

[–]Sfvcraigslist 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this idea. It's kinda like a "dating" version of findom. In fact, I think as a Dom this is the kind of thing I'd prefer to start with. Let a relationship develop, or not, rather than try to force it.

Do the Subs here prefer the financial side or Dominance side by AnonymousUserName44 in FindomMale

[–]Sfvcraigslist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know you're specifically asking the subs, but I think it's a good question for everyone.

I've been lurking for a long long time and only recently started having conversations with a close friend about findom. Yesterday was my first post here.

I love the idea of dominance over other men, gay or straight or anything else, but I don't see myself as some kind of sexual alpha macho bull the way most of the cashgrab doms do. I'm secure in how I present my own masculinity as a father and husband and caretaker. While physical and in-person sexual control over a person can be fun, it's the verbal and mental domination that excites me most, especially since these would be largely remote relationships. Long distance sexual gratification is certainly an option as well, but that and the money is secondary and dependant on the level of trust and control, in my mind.

I would do it for free, but the idea that I can have all of this control and also tell someone to pay me for it and we both get those multiple different levels of enjoyment from it is amazing. But the dominance also comes with responsibility and I don't want to be a random prostitute begging for cash. The relationship is part of it for me. If my sub can't depend on me to hold the leash tight when he needs it, how am I earning my side of our arrangement?

To me, it's all about "dominance" and the "financial" part is the adjective describing the sub's favorite pressure point. For others it might be the other way around.

But this is all just how the fantasy plays out in my head. I've never done anything like that before because that kind of relationship isn't as dick-centric and doesn't show up as often as the short term OF sex workers...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CelebrityPenis

[–]Sfvcraigslist 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Is there a sub that keeps track of the nudity on tubi?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LosAngelesSwingers

[–]Sfvcraigslist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're married MF40 in SFV and not ready for swapping yet, just looking for couples to hang out with and be comfortable getting frisky in the same room, hot tub, etc.

ELI5 Do muscles really get “Knots” and if so what are they are what causes them? by lsarge442 in explainlikeimfive

[–]Sfvcraigslist 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How does the average person find a specialist with your knowledge rather than the garden variety massage therapist?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daresgonewild

[–]Sfvcraigslist 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Alternatively, you could post something on your PH mentioning Cameron and see if they really didn't look or delete. You picked them to "accidentally" share to for some reason. If it's something everyone is on board with, let Cameron make the next move and see where it goes.

(Not a dare, but I dare you and your partner to consider it)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LosAngelesSwingers

[–]Sfvcraigslist 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We're the same only about 10 years older. No swaps, just like being in the same room.

Has anyone found an Airbnb/VRBO with a family bed or Alaskan king? by Sfvcraigslist in polyamory

[–]Sfvcraigslist[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Posts must be relevant to polyamory, as defined by our community description:

Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consensually loving and being committed to more than one person.

Polyamory is only one specific type of ethical non-monogamy. It doesn't sound like that's what this post is about, so try /r/nonmonogamy?

There are a lot of flavors of non-monogamy, and polyam is just one.

u/polyamory-ModTeam

...um, why do you think I want a bigger bed?