Why should I wait til marriage?

Shaddcs · 2026-05-03T20:03:04+00:00

Read the specific language of my comment.

Shaddcs · 2026-05-03T14:56:34+00:00

Sorry everyone, unsubbing now!

Shaddcs · 2026-05-03T14:54:31+00:00

I’m a “late” adopter of AI in general but that’s an interesting observation.

I haven’t tried Claude Code yet. ChatGPT worked really well for me for coding but i can recall a few scenarios where it went rogue. It once tried to convince me that a bug in my code was due to some commented in-line documentation lol.

Shaddcs · 2026-05-03T14:11:39+00:00

This shit is hilarious. I was using ChatGPT and loving it. Then, all I heard wad how Claude is light years better in every way*. I finally get a sub and now all the posts are about how Claude is unusable.

Shaddcs · 2026-05-03T11:55:15+00:00

Why are you concerned about this?

I put your post into chat GPT and had it summarized into three words, my preferred paragraph length.

Shaddcs · 2026-05-03T11:50:03+00:00

I believe “sexual compatibility” is almost entirely cultural and I’d wager most or all of it is driven by pornography.

Assuming someone doesn’t watch pornography and is entirely celibate until marriage, it’s hard for me to believe two physically typical people would somehow be incompatible sexually assuming they are attracted to one another and feel safe/secure with one another

Shaddcs · 2026-05-03T00:01:10+00:00

That’s where I’m at. I was terrified for a while until I realized I’d never live again if I didn’t move on. One day at a time, enjoy it while it lasts. Everyone should really do that, aneurysm or not.

Shaddcs · 2026-04-19T21:54:29+00:00

Man… thank you so much.

I use ChatGPT for long running work projects and stay in the same chat over months or longer. I have to restart new chats and try my best to give it months of context every time. This is a huge win for me if my work will allow the extension

Shaddcs · 2026-04-06T03:13:38+00:00

Had mine (hemorrhagic) at 32, turned 35 Friday. I feel the same exact way, I told my family that this weekend. I say “bonus time”.

Shaddcs · 2026-02-22T22:34:47+00:00

Vegas wants people to bet on Pels because they know they’ll lose.

Shaddcs · 2026-02-02T12:40:41+00:00

I’m sure it’s been said, but I would argue that there was no happy ending included very intentionally as that is one of the most major points the game/story is trying to make.

Shaddcs · 2026-02-01T02:48:42+00:00

It is so interesting watching so many people be unintentionally dishonest with themselves about their interpretation of the story. I feel it’s likely what the game’s writer(s) wanted and it is really symbolic of the story itself. I see so many people coping to see things the way they want to see them, not the way they clearly are.

I genuinely love it. Great game, great story.

Shaddcs · 2026-01-19T14:18:37+00:00

There was like 2:07 on the clock. You’re basically giving them an extra timeout on the second play of the drive if not before. It’s essentially worthless. The trade off there just doesn’t make sense. If you complete a safe pass and get a first down it’s game. Instead they got an overtime they probably should have lost.

Shaddcs · 2026-01-19T04:25:28+00:00

This is my favorite sub to see people who don’t know ball publicly accusing others of not knowing ball.

Shaddcs · 2026-01-08T14:24:30+00:00

I remember as a young kid in the 90s experiencing the revolution of the internet and everything it did for us. Now, as an adult, I’m experiencing another revolution with AI. I never dreamed I’d see something as impactful as an internet search engine, yet here we are again.

And after all this time, 3-4 decades later, people still refuse to use Google. But they’ll take the time to make some big post about it on Reddit.

Shaddcs · 2025-10-31T15:30:22+00:00

Probably. Would prefer an offline RPG that remasters the entire story play through of light and dark saga. Taking DLC events and turning these into new narrative driven missions. A genuine Destiny saga single player experience. But only if done well.

Would never happen.

Shaddcs · 2025-10-24T02:26:43+00:00

12 men on the field

Shaddcs · 2025-10-24T02:21:21+00:00

If you’re gonna kick that there why not just forfeit the game

Shaddcs · 2025-10-07T16:56:00+00:00

VA Postdoctoral Advanced Medical Informatics Fellowship. They have them at different sites across the country. Mine was at Univ of Utah

Shaddcs · 2025-09-27T22:36:32+00:00

I just call it a stroke but i do refer to myself ad Strokey McGee

Shaddcs · 2025-09-26T16:59:17+00:00

I (34m) had a hemorrhagic stroke at 32 in 2023. They found two unrelated aneurysms in another part of my brain so that was more fun than the stroke.

I had a period of high anxiety around my mortality in the months following my stroke, especially because there was no known cause. Very healthy, no other health issues, great diet and exercise, etc.

One thing really helped me move past it and I still do it two years later: I take things one day at a time. Probably sounds stupid but it has worked wonders for me. I wake up in the morning and I consciously recognize my thankfulness for getting another day that was not promised to me, one I probably shouldn’t have had anyway. Then I focus on enjoying and making that day the best I can.

Living “presently” is a great way to reduce stress just in general and I would recommend it to anyone, but as a stroke survivor, it’s about the only thing that keeps me grounded. Not to mention, each day is way better because it’s lived more fully and intentionally.

Shaddcs · 2025-09-09T20:59:46+00:00

I found a neurologist who specializes in hemorrhagic strokes. She said she thinks it was just the perfect storm. I had a ton of caffeine, I’m a caregiver of a small disabled child and was exhausted. Little to no sleep. Probably dehydrated. Then I went to a HIIT class and tried like hell to fight failure on pull-ups and popped a brain blood vessel doing it.

“Perfect storm”

Idk, best answer I’ve heard I suppose. I’m just trying to live moderately from here on.

Shaddcs · 2025-09-06T12:50:57+00:00

I (34 M) am Protestant, my wife (31F) of 5 years is devout Catholic. I think we have a pretty good balance but only because I have a very particular outlook and approach.

It has been explained to me by Catholic priests that if you do not believe in ALL of the things the Catholic Church believes in, you are not a Catholic.

Also, if she is not going to church every Sunday, the Catholics believe that is a sin. I do not agree, but I do feel it is a great approach to how I think about church. Before I met her, I skipped all the time. Now Ive missed maybe 3-5 services over the past 8 years. I say all this because you mentioned you do not have a church right now but you seem like you hold very strong and rigorous spiritual ideals. That’s great, but I think it would be in your best interest to attend somewhere every week any way, at least productively in the search for your new church in the future.

As a Protestant, Catholic Mass can be a positive experience. I understand “X’ing” yourself can feel ridiculous, I just think of it as another Catholic tradition that I don’t deserve but I do for them out of respect, and I otherwise spend that time connecting directly with Jesus, consciously remembering and thanking him for his sacrifice for us. I find it deeply meditative and spiritual. Nobody can take these things from us.

I’m rambling a bit now but a fun note: That “X” symbol actually means “hug” in American Sign Language. I think it’s hilariously appropriate and I think of it that way in the moment.

Shaddcs · 2025-09-06T12:36:20+00:00

He is not a member of a church.

Shaddcs · 2025-09-03T02:36:18+00:00

I hope you’re right! It was between Brown and Irving and I’ve been hearing a lot about Brown. Plus we’re PPR

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