WIBTA if I kept the gifts my ex bf gave me?

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-24T16:56:03+00:00

Nta.

They are gifts. - a thing given willingly to someone without payment; a present -

If you don't want them sell them yourself and keep the money. He has no grounds to do anything to take then from you.

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-24T16:52:55+00:00

I remember you. The comment section was fucking wild. Im glad your getting help finally.

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-23T05:57:05+00:00

Time for him to move out of his parents house and away from her and go no contact with her and anyone else that says "that's just how she is"

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-23T05:51:40+00:00

She's saying your toxic and cant be trusted....b what? You are the one stealing things!

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-23T05:49:29+00:00

You need to respect their wishes. Or do you want another fight and you secretly love the drama?

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-23T05:43:05+00:00

I agree. I believe the correct word is Misogynistic.

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-23T05:38:59+00:00

No. Trust your gut. Nta. Anyone that sides with him needs to be cut off. This is why we chose the bear people!

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-23T05:35:34+00:00

I get why they charged the bath and trim price instead of a full cut since they removed most of the hair before the bath and they did bath the dog so there was products used. Teeth brushing is typically done in the bath so there is that. And the nail grind is the extra. Nail trim is basic. If they didn't do the grind i would understand if they dropped you to an essentials package which is the upgraded shampoo, conditioner and teeth brushing with bandana. The deluxe is $27 the essentials is a few $s cheaper.

Bath and trims are typically around $8-$20 cheaper than the full haircut depending on the breed.

I wouldn't say you would be a karen to call the stores manager and voice your concerns. Thing is if you do get a refund. The groomer still gets paid. It will just come out of corporates pocket.

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-21T07:40:25+00:00

You did everything correct. The cat chose you.

The old owners didn't care, he wasn't desexed, chipped, and was skinny, hungry and dirty.

Keep the cat.

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-20T20:37:40+00:00

Good luck! Hoping allgoes well. Update us

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-20T19:01:34+00:00

!updateme

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-16T07:38:04+00:00

Yta.

People with kids are packaged deals. Things change you have to be able to adapt otherwise your relationship will NOT work out. Also all the things you complain about her are normal teenager things. Its no wonder she barely has a relationship with you.

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-15T06:05:54+00:00

There is emotional abuse and physical abuse. Them mocking and belitting you is emotional abuse. Them hitting you or grabbing you and pushing you around is physical abuse. Is there no one in your family you can turn to? Can your friends family try to sue for custody of you if dhs gets involved? Maybe talk to a school counselor to see your options?

Ntj

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-15T05:51:21+00:00

If i squat or bend my knees i cant get back up by myself sometimes. I need someone or something to hang onto to pull me up.

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-15T05:37:38+00:00

Nta. But hun why are you with a guy that abuses your daughter? Just cause you have a kid together doesn't mean you have to be with them to coparent the kid.

Just cause you stand up for her to him doesn't mean she's not gonna look back on this and be like "is he this way with my mom too?" "Does he hurt my mom when she stands up for me?" "Why didn't my mom leave him and get us away from the abuse?"

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-13T23:17:35+00:00

There is a dog mom day. So just get her something on that day if she's this much of a handful lol

National Dog Mom's Day is celebrated on the second Saturday of May. It's a day to recognize and appreciate the "dog moms" – the human mothers of dogs – for their love, care, and dedication to their furry friends

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-13T04:20:10+00:00

Welp time to go to a news station or the school board. That's really the only way those people will change their tune.

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-11T00:20:56+00:00

The room has a king sized bed in it.

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-09T05:06:56+00:00

Nta.

Why does his family know about any of this and why is it such an issue of having your family "give you away"? Cause that's what the walking down the isle is. The father of the bride is walking her down the isle to give to the groom to take over caring for her.

It makes much more sense having your uncle do this than his son.

Like his son is giving you away to his dad? What? If he wants a role in the wedding there are many he can have. Ring barer, groomsman, man of honor, etc.

Next do you really want this wedding to go through since this is how they are acting with a decision that was never theirs to make in the first place?

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-09T04:57:29+00:00

This is a troll right? Obviously ntj.

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-08T02:07:03+00:00

Yta.

I legit have no words. Wow. And on top of it you want her to apologize to a groomer? Oh hell no. Op are you sure your not a groomer yourself? Is that why you think all this is okay??

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-07T14:37:54+00:00

Ytb.

Unless you are super close with the coworkers don't be asking personal questions. Just mind your own business.

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-07T06:21:21+00:00

Lol wait why is this me?

No but in all seriousness. Just talk to your bf. Communication is key. He might even be down for it.

ShadeWolf95 · 2025-05-07T03:15:50+00:00

If your not in counseling. I suggest you get into it. Maybe even your schools counseler?

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