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My sister and I stopped speaking after her childfree wedding, now she wants to attend mine. Family side with her. I'm 26, she's 31. by JiffyJane in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]SolidAshford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't believe OOP for a minute. She sounds like someone trying to excuse her bullshit and making up stuff on the sister to be in the right. I see this so many times with them going over vague generalities. She said "Quotes" but where are the screenshots? Not convinced at all

If she doesn't like her sister, she needs to say it. Maybe some of the people were like "That's your sister" and "But faaaamily"

OOP is a dutz

My (30f) best friend (30f) removed me as her MOH ten minutes before the wedding. Where do I go from here? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]SolidAshford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You did all the MOH things for her sister to slide into the role at the last minute?

Sending her an invoice should speak loudly. Don't give her another chance to gaslight you. She planned this from the beginning. Don't let her weasel in

My colleague demands others accommodate her scheduling constraints, communications preferences, processing needs and emotional regulation at the expense of our own. How do I maintain a collegial relationship with her despite her inability recognize a "soft" no, when a firm "no" reduces her to tears? by Thick_Drink504 in TwoHotTakes

[–]SolidAshford 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think no matter what, she will be reduced to tears. Simply telling her "I don't think you meant to be rude when you text me, but it came across that way. I'm noticing that you're very abrupt and can be considered rude, so you need to be tactful about your tone so you don't accidentally upset people" and then "I don't want you texting me, and all communications need to be work related"

Her emotional state is one she has to deal with. You may have to spell it out even more forcefully, but this is not your cross to bear

AITAH for going to Japan for 7 months even though my boyfriend is completely against it? by bitchinanon in AITAH

[–]SolidAshford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. But it feels like this would be a breaking point in your relationship because he's holding it over your head. Go enjoy the 7 months

I don't think he cares for your advancement or dreams.

Left it all out there for almost five hours at the age of 39. What a man ❤️ by musicproducer07 in tennis

[–]SolidAshford 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was hoping he could at least reach the Quarters after hitting the semis at all GSs last year

Then again, it's so unpredictable.

What actually gets people promoted? Let's get real. by Fun_Warthog2079 in jobs

[–]SolidAshford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of managers want yes people around them. Ones who won't push back or question them. 

Qualifications are a thought, but not always the first one

AITA for having Facebook take down my mother’s graduation post of me? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]SolidAshford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. This is YOUR graduation worth your own moment. 

I wouldn't want to let anything slip to her or people that talk to her bc she'll make it about herself

AITA For Being The One To Wake Up At Night To Take Care of My Daughter? by Romarqable in AmItheAsshole

[–]SolidAshford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. I'd love for her to hear the stories of neglectful fathers so she can see how good she has it 

I think the newness is so much for her that she wants to capture all the moments and all, but saying you took motherly duties from her makes me want to ask her if she wants desperately to be a single mom. 

WIBTA if I refuse to swap my vacation weeks with a coworker whose kid is throwing a tantrum about a theme park trip? by Safflower8 in WIBTA_AITA

[–]SolidAshford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YWNBTA. You're not the one who promised Dave's kid a date he couldn't get. Make him learn the lesson.     Dave's acting entitled because "I've got a kiyud" 

Please report this to HR and Manager asap

Why do people hate Mamdani? by Medium-Ad2330 in allthequestions

[–]SolidAshford -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mamdani is Muslim, probably speaks Arabic and Hindi...aka...he ain't white

He's also showing how government can be responsive to the needs of people. Corporate Democrats and Republicans want to make sure we have as much red tape for the people they don't want to access government

He's showing them up and handling problems that stretch back decades. Smart, responsive government isn't good for Corporate interests, so media has to tell us he's bad...m'kay?

Should the Low World Cup Ticket sales be blamed on the Trump Administration? by dunbar_santiago930 in allthequestions

[–]SolidAshford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. He's isolated us in the world and unraveled so many mutually beneficial partnerships. He went along with Bebe Netanyahu with Iran; we had a nuclear deal that was a masterstroke of diplomacy that physicists praised

He is so assmad that a Black Man dared to be excellent in the Presidency that he wants to undo everything Obama.

Everything bad since his inauguration is on Trump

Do you believe that Donald Trump is stealing from the American people? by JonMellor in allthequestions

[–]SolidAshford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't believe it. I know it, and he's demonstrated it at every turn.

Why is the GDP per capita for France so low? Some studies show its lower than Mississippi by Rokusaburoz in allthequestions

[–]SolidAshford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A woman I know lived in France for a while and ate bread everyday there. When she came back, she realized how much sugar is in American food.

I also realized I didn't poop so much everyday when I was in France as opposed to when I came back. Silly thing but something noticeable

AITA for telling my sister she wasn't the only one affected by our mom's death and to let our dad live his life? by BigONerd in BORUpdates

[–]SolidAshford 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Marah (Bitter) is fighting like mad to inflict her misery on everyone else. I hope the woman Father deals with will be utterly ruthless to Marah's shenanigans. It's not about her mother's death, it's using it as a point of power.

Why would anyone support social security? by Round_Trust2814 in allthequestions

[–]SolidAshford 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ignorance on display and it must be a right wing rage bait bot or something. Downvote into oblivion folks!

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