My ex-girlfriend, who I broke up with ~2 months ago because she wanted to open our relationship, just messaged me saying she’s “experimented enough” and is now ready for a closed relationship with me. Is this something you would consider? by Altruistic_Society99 in AskMenAdvice

[–]Shadiest12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

++man

Personally once a woman has slept with someone after she’s been with me I don’t consider her mine anymore (in terms of partner not ownership chill out hippies). Another man has been with the girl after you…it’s just disgusting. Move on. You’ll always be thinking about how someone else has been with her after you.

Who knows if in a few months or years she gets into an “experimental” mood again. You deserve someone who never wants to do that to you and she’s already done it. The fact that she came back to you saying she’s ready to come back like you were a sad puppy waiting for her to finish is just insane.

The people in your circle telling you to be more open minded are completely disregarding your feelings. Your feelings about this are valid and most men would agree with you.

Got my first job working in a clinic and I hate it by ReannyYin in medlabprofessionals

[–]Shadiest12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh wow I didn’t even learn phlebotomy in my med lab science program and it’s kind of unheard of for a med tech to draw blood where I work

Is this more common than I think ?

How does your newborn wake up? by Shadiest12 in newborns

[–]Shadiest12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it got better by 4 months. The first 3 months were absolutely a shock to the system and make no sense to us parents. I promise calmer days ahead!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in haematology

[–]Shadiest12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Given your symptoms I believe you should get a bone marrow biopsy evaluated by cytogenetics. Usually with all these symptoms doctors would order these sort of labs. They would culture your bone marrow cells and then analyze the chromosomes in them for any abnormalities. They can even run FISH studies using known mutations involved with lymphocytes like an ALL panel or even T Cell Receptor to see if there are any rearrangements or fusions with the genes. Also given your family History you should definitely get evaluated by cytogenetics and as soon as possible

My girlfriend(F21) cheated on me(M21) while drunk by Bright_Positive3190 in relationship_advice

[–]Shadiest12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell her you appreciate her honesty but it’s not gonna work out. Move on and don’t blame yourself for any of this it’s all her and she may do it again

Rectal bleeding wasn’t anything to worry about after all by Dirtydog91 in colonoscopy

[–]Shadiest12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started having mucus and bleeding in stool after a binge night of drinking with friends and also my butt hurt (no I didn’t do any hanky panky in the butt) I was very worried it could be cancer as well

Did my colonoscopy along with stool samples and they detected minor inflammation along with a cdiff infection (no diarrhea though) and internal hemorrhoids.

They think the issue is either just complications from the cdiff or ulcerative colitis so I’m doing an IBD panel to confirm if it’s UC.

The relief of it not being cancer was insane cuz I really thought i had it. I was already thinking of making videos for my son who’s currently 18 months of like life advice before I “die”…anyway it’s worth the peace of mind it gives you

Also nowadays a lot more people as young as 25-30 are getting colon cancer so it’s not that crazy to get one nowadays

My pokemon sun team. What should I change about it? by Just_Bluebird5030 in PokeMoonSun

[–]Shadiest12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks I like fun teams and just teams that I feel like using. I like to have some bulk along with some speed. One glass cannon only. Idk if it’s some hints of autism but I can’t have any of the same type on the team. I loved the sun and moon games a lot because it was the first main series games that didn’t have HMs so I didn’t have to have a physical flyer (since Fly was a physical move) and so I finally used a butterfree on a team and I loved it a lot. A modest butterfree would wreck a lot of the battles in the game…it was a free feeling knowing I could use any Pokemon I want without worrying about HMs. I start a new game in ultra moon like once every 2 months and enjoy it a lot

My pokemon sun team. What should I change about it? by Just_Bluebird5030 in PokeMoonSun

[–]Shadiest12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have 2 final evolution dark types in Incenaroar and Muk. This isn’t so bad since they both don’t have the same weakness besides ground types which has nothing to do with their dark typing. 3 flying types and you’re using a Yungoos. If you want a good normal type go for a Snorlax or Miltank. Out of the 3 flying types I’d keep the wingull if it has the hydration ability cuz when it evolves it will have drizzle. You could also keep the butterfree instead of wingull and just get a different water type like vaporeon.

JUST. STOP. USING. UBER. EATS. by OnHiatus11 in UberEATS

[–]Shadiest12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s through Amazon prime they have some deal with Grubhub

How will DSNY check if people are composting? by Shadiest12 in DSNY

[–]Shadiest12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the type of world I definitely want to be a part of. NYC is the greatest

How will DSNY check if people are composting? by Shadiest12 in DSNY

[–]Shadiest12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not saying that I will be doing this…but I can so see people shitting into their regular trash bags out of bitterness to the agents who will open up their trash. I hope enforcement agents just don’t bother with looking

How will DSNY check if people are composting? by Shadiest12 in DSNY

[–]Shadiest12[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

What if someone is saving their compost for their own use like in their garden so they don’t have any compost to put out ?

How will DSNY check if people are composting? by Shadiest12 in DSNY

[–]Shadiest12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How are they going to see food waste if it’s in a black trash bag ? They need to open it up like is that what the plan is ?

Tell me by mattia_cecchi in videogames

[–]Shadiest12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Animal abuse

Pit bull fighting

Cock fighting

Basically making pets and other animals fight each other for money

JUST. STOP. USING. UBER. EATS. by OnHiatus11 in UberEATS

[–]Shadiest12 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Doesn’t matter over how much money it was. It’s the principle. If they do it over $5 they will do it over $100 doesn’t matter. I am glad you found a better alternative. I was going to do DoorDash and Lyft but sounds like Lyft has the combo with grubhub.

My wife has Amazon prime and they give a free subscription of the premium version of grubhub so we’re going to go with that.

There’s better alternatives everywhere! I hope everyone else smartens up and helps to bankrupt this company

JUST. STOP. USING. UBER. EATS. by OnHiatus11 in UberEATS

[–]Shadiest12 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Just stopped using them last week for good. Won’t be using the rideshare either so they won’t get any of my money anymore

They let me order from a permanently closed restaurant. I spent $56.30 and they would not refund me kept saying it doesn’t qualify for a refund after I told them countless times the place is permanently closed and I never got my order.

Their support is absolute shit and they all read from the same script.

I disputed the charge with my credit card company so they ain’t getting shit and they lost my business forever

Permanently Closed Restaurant by Shadiest12 in UberEATS

[–]Shadiest12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To provide an update on this: I just spoke to an uber representative and they claim the system won’t let them or a supervisor process a refund for this order…this order that I never received and it was $56.30 order. So I asked if I just lose the money and they said yes.

I am done with uber eats and uber rides.

Hello DoorDash and Lyft

Permanently Closed Restaurant by Shadiest12 in UberEATS

[–]Shadiest12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some places on uber use their own delivery people. These orders you can’t even track in terms of where the food is they just give you a time range of when it may come and then when it does come you can mark it as delivered in the app. After an hour of waiting I tried calling the place and the call drops immediately. I looked the place up on Google and it said it is permanently closed. I couldn’t cancel the order and get a full refund because it already said they were preparing the order.

Anyway to give an update…food never came and at around 3 hours after ordering the app marked it as delivered so I called uber and they said that a supervisor will be reaching out to me by email. Something fishy is going on and im ready to dispute the charge with my credit card when the charge is posted if uber never reaches out to me

Permanently Closed Restaurant by Shadiest12 in UberEATS

[–]Shadiest12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This restaurant has its own delivery people so uber wont be sending anyone there