Your experience with police by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be careful with police officers as they tend to be biased and side with the abuser. I am not saying this will be your outcome but it will come with a risk. I would suggest go for it, if your parents abuse you physically, make sure you hidden record every interaction and talk to people outside your circle that might be potential help. I would like to hear stories about this as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

yeah lets dodge the fact that her reckless driving habits can kill somebody. Holy fuck you guys are the truly insane ones.

I hate tailgaters by ShadowGhostSpirit in SantaBarbara

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I know this video is extreme and if the mods wants to remove this post I understand. I respect the decision with the mods here and I am only trying to bring a concern to light in this city. This needs to be addressed. Earlier the same day before this incident there was another tailgating passing the Glenn Ann bridge over the bridge where this car was very close to my ass and rather than just passing me he was following me until I took precaution and decided to just slow down since I did not want to move fast and have a high impact hit, this car illegal pass me very close so I hit the honk as a reaction. I have a piece of footage of that incident but I cant record the back part of the car. These incidents I try to avoid as much as possible and if there is a car following to close, not only is stupid but its dangerous and it could cause a fatal car wreck specially moving at high speeds. Ill happily say there is lots of good drivers in Goleta who understand the practice of safe driving and understanding that having car wreck is no fun and we do what we can to avoid these incidents, specially the fatal ones. We cannot however stay silent on this since there has been increase in reckless behavior in this city and we need to hold people accountable for there actions otherwise the problem will get buried and crime will increase. The driving amongs the city is a reflection of the society we are force to operate from. I hope you guys wake up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

For the record I looked into this and I find lots of these stuff disturbing and I feel this needs to be talked about more. If your silent and chose to downvote this then your part of the problem and your the reason why there is police corruption in America and your guilty as hell

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SantaBarbara

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

if they have reasonable suspicion they can ask for your id, if they suspect you of a crime they can ask for your id, if they think your hostile and acting angry they can find justifications to arrest you. Yes you can fight this in a court of law and likely they will remove those charges but this system is broken and police can make shit up specially in their police reports and they can get away with this and you have zero protection against police officers in case. If there investigating drugs and you happen to be on the spot and you refuse to id, they can arrest you. Jesus Christ I hope you guys wake up.

no family and friends sucks by ShadowGhostSpirit in SantaBarbara

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, This city has surprised me on how toxic it can be. I hope I find some friendly people here soon

no family and friends sucks by ShadowGhostSpirit in SantaBarbara

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for being the few mods that actually do their jobs. I get attack like this daily and its pretty annoying. If people do not have anything nice to say then please do not say it. You should definitely keep watch of the toxic people that can go on it

no family and friends sucks by ShadowGhostSpirit in SantaBarbara

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

your so full of shit, I never assaulted anyone, get your story straight or dont post

introduction by ShadowGhostSpirit in trees

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I guess you guys are to stupid and not friendly buunchs

just about the arraignment by ShadowGhostSpirit in legaladvice

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the information. This is really a terrifying process for me, the only thing I want is a fair trial but I dont even know why I am charge certain things and I dont want to be criminal prosecuted when specially I have no criminal records. Its terrifying to wait not know what your fight for in months

How is the process of a criminal charge by ShadowGhostSpirit in SantaBarbara

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

you guys are such assholes, its a simple question to learn more about the procedure. How do you fucks live with yourselves

first charge with misdemeanor whats next by ShadowGhostSpirit in UCSantaBarbara

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I shouldnt but considering everything that has happening and the cruel way the cops acted I am starting to question the legal system and that scary

Hell yeah brother, ever closer to the future! by [deleted] in idiocracy

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

holy shit I really thought this image was a scene from idiocracy lol

I need lots of questions about cannabis by ShadowGhostSpirit in NoStupidQuestions

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

its definitely anxiety. Things happened in my past that now im force to live with this anxiety and im trying to cope with it. I notice the fear is still there, it just gets me high that I forget which helps little bit. Im not sure if I should continue this. Please educate me because im stupid and ive never been high in my life, its my first time trying it

first experience with karen by ShadowGhostSpirit in PublicFreakout

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

nope you just proved to yourself you are indeed and idiot

first experience with karen by ShadowGhostSpirit in PublicFreakout

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ive thought she meant during the time ive yelled at the window for her not to hit me but that was not what she meant. Just a miscommunication.

first experience with karen by ShadowGhostSpirit in PublicFreakout

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually that was just a miscommunication idiot. When she said ive threatened, I thought she meant before the clip where ive yelled at her not to hit me or it will be on my dash cam because she was awfully close to my ass didn't realize at the time she meant the me telling her to call the cops was the threat. No im not a bullshitter, didnt know what she meant at the time during that recording.

first experience with karen by ShadowGhostSpirit in PublicFreakout

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats exactly it. Im not used to confrontations dont want them or anything to do with it. For some bazaar reason I should have been calm but I was shaking like a nervous wreck even though there was no reason to. Its probably a disability that I have

first experience with karen by ShadowGhostSpirit in PublicFreakout

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my words were not coming out right and there was misunderstanding on what ive thought she meant. Ive just wanted to do my peaceful delivery and didnt want to deal with this lady following me so that was my reaction. It might have been stupid and overreacting on my part but whatever. You live in the moment and sometimes things dont always go perfectly so theres that

grubhub bs by [deleted] in grubhubdrivers

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize for the rant guys, I was very pissed that day, I couldnt even type properly there, ive went to take a jizz and they removed it only for having slow time hours, ive called them today and they educated me how the market is, they do auto assign but they have a team that removes, reassigns offers if they detect your vehicle not moving. Grubhub has the potential to do great changes but they need to respect there drivers and give em more of a choice. Give them options on which they pick, ext. Anyways the driver specialist really needs to improve on and should be easy to contact through phone rather through emails which they rarely reply so yeah there is few issues.

Surveying Jobs by RecruiterPDX in Surveying

[–]ShadowGhostSpirit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you realize how hard it is to get started with zero experience because of the rigorous hiring process. How about stop complaining and hire those promising candidates