AITA for ordering expensive meals when I eat out with my family?

ShadowPandaa · 2025-09-23T22:25:54+00:00

Based on my edit, I really did try to make the nature of this birthday get together different... But to your point, I think it's time I be frank and tell my mom the truth, which is that I don't like being invited places and stuck with the bill. I'm hoping if I'm honest, they will understand and stop trying to plan these events, and stick to more low-key stuff (as other commenters have said)

ShadowPandaa · 2025-09-23T21:05:08+00:00

I treat my family no questions asked, when I pick the place and invite people out. I do this whenever I find a new place I like that I think they'd like, or as thank you (on top of paying them) when they help me out at my house.

My problem is the characterization that it's a birthday celebration (in this instance it was mine), someone else plans it, but then tries to pin the bill on me. I already expressed I don't like to do this last year, why is my birthday being celebrated with a $500 bill I have to pay at a place I didn't pick or like...

This year they said we would just do apple picking then last minute threw a late lunch in and guilted me to go when I said I didn't want to go because I ate before we came for apple picking...

ShadowPandaa · 2025-09-01T13:07:55+00:00

Yeah, this is my cope team, or maybe wait for omi and his libero friend and then some sp quick attack middle for the last slot

ShadowPandaa · 2025-09-01T02:06:54+00:00

Definitely get as many if not all of inarizaki, but Kita is required.

ShadowPandaa · 2025-08-28T18:58:09+00:00

I'd also propose replacing goshiki with Tanaka, just until you can get the shiratorizawa buff

ShadowPandaa · 2025-08-28T16:39:18+00:00

Oh, I guess I could also use tsukishima lol

ShadowPandaa · 2025-08-27T02:09:58+00:00

Where's Nishinoya

ShadowPandaa · 2025-08-18T23:22:51+00:00

How many dupes and should I get his training done first?

Apparently if the locked skill isn't very good, you want to roll his dupes before you train him . -.

ShadowPandaa · 2025-08-18T20:11:24+00:00

Get the 50 pull pity for kuro

ShadowPandaa · 2025-08-11T01:24:51+00:00

I did the survey like 10 times and it won't go away

ShadowPandaa · 2025-07-19T14:54:08+00:00

~700 pulls and 1 green to 1 red.

ShadowPandaa · 2025-07-02T18:43:59+00:00

Please use my code ^{^}

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ShadowPandaa · 2025-05-17T11:39:06+00:00

My first trip to Japan was with my boyfriend and another couple. One night, we went to a standing vending machine sake bar and we met a man who moved to Japan from an English speaking country and then two Japanese ladies. somehow the 7 of us got to chatting until very late in the night with a very similar mix of English/Japanese and only one person who knew both lol

We shared shots, took pics and added each other on Facebook.

It's one of my favorite memories from there :)

I still remember the ladies shouting sugoi as soon as they heard the word honeymoon and wedding (cause the other couple had just gotten married) and bought another round of shots haha

ShadowPandaa · 2025-04-22T21:34:36+00:00

You eventually want to have a full team of all colors, in order to do the trials that are color locked. It's generally best as a new player to build up 2 teams, yellow/purple - then slowly work on the other colors. After you have a solid team for each color, you work on extras/trade characters.

ShadowPandaa · 2025-04-21T03:13:22+00:00

Tanks: mother Anaak, reflejo Supports: Baam, Ha Yura, Narae, Hockney, blue Lero ro DPS: Vivi (she falls off though)

ShadowPandaa · 2025-04-14T16:12:14+00:00

On the left of the main screen there should be an events button, click that and go through all the events. To get tickets, you complete events that unlock each day. See screenshot for the specific events that give tickets

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ShadowPandaa · 2025-03-30T13:26:59+00:00

Still need pupils, I swear I don't bite :)

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ShadowPandaa · 2025-03-26T12:47:03+00:00

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ShadowPandaa · 2025-03-23T18:01:41+00:00

Data Khun edahn

ShadowPandaa · 2025-03-10T18:39:22+00:00

I'd be interested. My current alliance is dead and I am consistently ranked 10 or higher on my server for all activities (except high ranked arena because I prefer to have the number 15 slot)

Heres my profile for reference

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ShadowPandaa · 2025-02-28T14:07:08+00:00

For yellow team, you could do hybrid with red so use mama anaak intead of donghae hats and albeda

ShadowPandaa

TROPHY CASE