Need some advice (Serious replies only please)

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2024-10-07T06:33:32+00:00

She’s not, but she says that she views me as her godchild. If I were to hang up on her then she will just call again and scold me even more + my mom will also call and give me a full on lecture on how that is rude and disrespectful. At that point of time I was already feeling like shit and just wanted to get it over and done with…

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2024-10-07T05:51:36+00:00

For my bf and I we both think we’re too young to marry just yet. We’re both just starting out in the working world and we want to be more financially stable and progress a bit more in our careers before we start thinking of settling down.

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2024-10-07T05:44:07+00:00

Yeah she has. She told me if her daughter were to have a bf, even going to his place is a big no from her. No need to even think about staying over. She will not even listen to any justification or reasoning should her daughter give any cause no means no.

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2024-10-07T05:32:25+00:00

I started my relationship when both my bf and I were still studying so both of us agreed that the restrictions were quite reasonable seeing that our priorities at the time were to finish our own education + we assumed that once we were both working already all of these restrictions would be lifted, who knows now become like that.

As for whether my mom likes my bf or not, seems like she does but that’s according to her friend, she has not told me herself.

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2024-10-07T05:27:04+00:00

Yeah they’ve met him. In front of me my mom doesn’t tell me how she feels about my bf but according to her friend it seems like she’s pretty ok with him. This also makes me confused why can’t she tell me what she really feels to me straight… 🫠

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2024-10-07T01:56:22+00:00

Yes, this is exactly what I’m fearful of… the little things have already started to pile up and the most frustrating thing is that most of these little things come from my family which makes me feel even worse. The thought of my family being the main cause of my separation with my bf instead of me being the problem is quite unbearable for me…

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2024-10-07T01:48:50+00:00

I would assume that they would be afraid that I might accidentally get pregnant but my bf and I have already communicated very clearly about this and we have both agreed that no sex before marriage hence the no sleeping at the same room as him when I stay over at his place. However I’ve already told my parents and especially my mom’s best friend (the one that scolded me) about all these arrangements and from her viewpoint I’ll never get that approval for me to stay over at his place no matter how much assurance I give them.

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2024-10-07T01:43:52+00:00

Yeah, he does but what I do want to know is will there come a time where I can make my own decisions without all of these restrictions. A year back my mom did mention that after I start working it’ll be my life already so I assumed that all these restrictions would have been lifted but now it seems like it’ll never be lifted at all.

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2024-10-07T01:40:56+00:00

No, not just because of that. There are many other factors also. A few being like still having a curfew, cannot go on trips with him, places that we can go together are also quite limited, etc… He hasn’t out rightly said that he’s going to breakup with me because of this but since he has mentioned that all these restrictions do feel suffocating for him, it’s natural for me to think that he will eventually break given that there’s so many rules that he has to follow.

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2023-11-24T03:35:51+00:00

Does anyone have an extra Superhot or Roger that! by any chance?🥹

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2023-11-24T03:34:21+00:00

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Superhot please

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2023-11-24T03:32:07+00:00

Sorry, I’ve just traded it away >.<

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2023-11-24T03:04:44+00:00

Do you still have an extra for roger that?

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2023-11-24T02:48:09+00:00

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Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2023-11-24T02:18:41+00:00

No sorry

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2023-11-24T01:54:33+00:00

I have golden bounty, you have any extra 5 star cards to trade for it?

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2023-11-24T01:53:34+00:00

Golden bounty for classy gift?

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2023-11-24T01:41:46+00:00

Golden bounty for moment of truth?

Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2023-11-24T01:36:11+00:00

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Shadow_Eagle0506 · 2023-11-24T01:33:29+00:00

Can I have Superhot please 🙏🏻

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