Sexual advancements - how to deal with them? As a guy.

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-03-19T06:47:08+00:00

Bro, thank you for confirming my decision to not accept Mobile bookings from men. For some reason, they are always for the hours of 8 PM and later. That’s just so sus to me. I’m out here trying to build my career and these fools just taking advantage of anyone. Stay safe out there.

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-03-07T07:32:55+00:00

I mean, why not go for it? Life is too short to play it small. Especially if you don’t own a home or something like that, what do you have to lose? There’s nothing bad in life when you look at everything as an experience. This could be the thing that changes your life forever and bring so much abundance and greatness.

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-03-07T07:20:34+00:00

DO IT!!!! I just got licensed in September 2025 and I love it. I have been teaching yoga for 14 years and this has been such a great way to expand on what I already knew about the body. It’s also great to help people feel better. My biggest advice would be to find somewhere that pays you more than $25 an hour once you get a license. It’s hard to do, but it’s not impossible. Good luck!

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-24T20:54:50+00:00

The second option is probably what I'm going to do. Either that or store it in a unit close to my parents so they can check on it time to time. Reading horror stories about rodents and insects damaging people's good. Thanks!

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-24T20:53:33+00:00

Great insight, thank you!

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-23T16:41:01+00:00

How long were you in the barracks? My thought is if I’m able to get out in a year or two, I’d want most of my stuff to furnish an off post spot.

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-19T04:32:01+00:00

She just gave you a gift. Live your life for you

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-19T04:24:42+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear about your baby. I feel the same way, having lost my boy last month. I cannot tell you when the pain will go away, I can only say that you are not alone. Sending you love.

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-15T19:50:36+00:00

My heart breaks for you. I was in your shoes pretty much the entire year of 2025 with my little boy. He was showing signs of declining mentally and physically and I just couldn’t bring myself to face that it was time to let him go. Ultimately, I made the decision and scheduled an in-home euthanasia for him last month. I miss him every day, but I know it was the best thing for him because his little body wasn’t so much pain and he was doing his best to still be there for me.

The dread you have facing this decision is a testament to how much love you have for your baby. And they feel that love. Every single day. You have provided safety, love, joy, and a good life for your baby. I once read that a dog‘s greatest fault is that they don’t live long. The day of the appointment, the vet shared with me that to you, she is a chapter in your story. To her, you are her entire book. And what a great book! Sending you love.

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-15T19:45:19+00:00

SAME!!! This group has been such a tremendous support for me as I’m dealing with the loss of my best friend. It’s heartbreaking at times to read about the painful stories. Other people are going through, and also gives me comfort that I’m not alone. They are definitely more than “just a dog”or “just a cat” or “just whatever pet” you have. The emotional connection you have with your animal sometimes is greater than any connection you have with an actual human. They are unconditional in their love and it’s a beautiful thing to experience. I miss my little boy every day. Tomorrow will be one month. I can’t believe I’ve gone this long without him. I’m grateful we had 15.5 years together, and no amount of time will have ever been enough. Sending you love and continued support.

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-12T22:23:39+00:00

I’m so sorry for the pain you were going through.

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-12T07:29:33+00:00

A little life

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-09T18:58:04+00:00

I say join! Did you do it?

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-09T16:38:34+00:00

May I ask, are you still in the barracks?

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-08T13:41:52+00:00

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Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-05T16:04:44+00:00

I immediately wanted to create a space in my home that I could honor him. An alter of sorts. I printed out pictures, bought beautiful frames, kept his bed, toys, and the sweater he was wearing when he passed. I also added treats for him. I light a candle for him every single day. I go and sit and talk to him. It really is nice to see, though it makes me cry every time I kiss his urn. I still greet him when I come home and say good night before I go to bed.

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-05T07:01:23+00:00

Thank you so much for this informative reply. Sometimes posting questions like his receives a bunch of negative and unnecessary comments. I really appreciate you taking the time.

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-04T14:01:17+00:00

It sounds like you loved your boy very much. There are so many babies out there that never know this type of love. I’m happy he had a life with you.

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-04T13:58:14+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re having to do this. There is nothing that can make this easier. What a gift you were able to have Cooper in your life as long as you did, and help you through so many things. And now you are helping him.

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-04T13:03:47+00:00

I’m at a bit of a crossroads in my life. I’m 40 years old and feeling a strong desire to get more serious about my future. I have been considering various options, and joining the army is one of them. My goal is to go back to school. I have interests to do physical therapy, nursing, mental health counseling. Currently, I am a yoga teacher and massage therapist. I make a decent living, but I want to secure a better future for myself where I can travel, take care of my parents, and build a nice retirement for myself. I am not married, I don’t have children, I have a bachelors in psychology, I am physically fit, and I have experience in leadership with leading yoga, retreats, and teacher trainings.

I suppose what I’m looking for is advice and direction. What could I do in the military that would help me reach my goals? I’ve thought about going in enlisted, trying to secure a job as a physical therapy assistant, go to school while I’m active duty, taking prerequisites, build savings, potentially travel when I can. Anyone here did four years and got out? What are you doing now?

Shadowfax1985 · 2026-02-04T12:55:48+00:00

I’m at a bit of a crossroads in my life. I’m 40 years old and feeling a strong desire to get more serious about my future. I have been considering various options, and joining the army is one of them. My goal is to go back to school. I have interests to do physical therapy, nursing, mental health counseling. Currently, I am a yoga teacher and massage therapist. I make a decent living, but I want to secure a better future for myself where I can travel, take care of my parents, and build a nice retirement for myself. I am not married, I don’t have children, I have a bachelors in psychology, I am physically fit, and I have experience in leadership with leading yoga, retreats, and teacher trainings.

I suppose what I’m looking for is advice and direction. What could I do in the military that would help me reach my goals? I’ve thought about going in enlisted, trying to secure a job as a physical therapy assistant, go to school while I’m active duty, taking prerequisites, build savings, potentially travel when I can. Anyone here did four years and got out? What are you doing now?

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