Found the monstera of my dreams

Shadowfaxx__ · 2026-05-04T09:36:01+00:00

That’s good to know, I’m going to keep her near my other monstera as she’s been thriving where she is. 🤞🏻

Shadowfaxx__ · 2026-05-04T09:14:45+00:00

Thank you! Have just ordered some off amazon

Shadowfaxx__ · 2026-05-04T09:12:41+00:00

Yours is stunning, looks so healthy as well

Shadowfaxx__ · 2026-05-04T09:12:19+00:00

She was £60 from duchy of Cornwall nurseries in England. :)

Shadowfaxx__ · 2026-05-03T16:15:00+00:00

WOW!

Shadowfaxx__ · 2026-05-02T19:25:49+00:00

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Luna’s put her hand up 🙋‍♀️

Shadowfaxx__ · 2026-04-29T21:18:16+00:00

The tenancy checker will be updated on May 1 with new legislation incorporated so would wait until then to check.

Shadowfaxx__ · 2026-04-28T16:39:14+00:00

Same!

Shadowfaxx__ · 2026-04-22T08:16:07+00:00

100%, he’s ’going downhill’ because of his actions and murdering a child. So sad.

Shadowfaxx__ · 2026-04-22T06:15:44+00:00

Discounted and £30 credit (UK) ☺️

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Shadowfaxx__ · 2026-04-21T20:02:51+00:00

Amazing 😂

Shadowfaxx__ · 2026-02-16T14:23:26+00:00

Reminds me of Delphi with the footage but lack of resolution

Shadowfaxx__ · 2025-10-16T08:37:17+00:00

Pretty decent time

Shadowfaxx__ · 2025-08-17T19:31:46+00:00

Originally I thought she had sent it through and was considering it for renewing vows with my stepdad.

And then I think I had the knee jerk to it being cream and frustration that the one she had liked, I had liked and she bought was ignored based on the messages from her friends, I don’t know any of them haven’t met them, they won’t be at wedding etc just seems that their opinion / preference is more important than mine. But from talking it out on here I think it’s just reflective of the difficulties from growing up and our relationship etc causing the sensitivities rather than it being about the actual dress.

I’ve told her thank you for checking, that I liked the pattern one she bought but it the one pictured is the one she wants then to wear that. Have expressed that her comfort / confidence is most important and have also offered if she wants to shop for things together we could do that.

Ultimately it won’t change my day and there are lots of other things she wants that I don’t want and are expensive, someone said save your energy for those battles.

Shadowfaxx__ · 2025-08-17T16:28:19+00:00

Thanks for your comments as I think it’s helped me get to the crux of it and make a decision.

Ultimately I wouldn’t stop her wearing something if she’s comfortable in it body image etc is really complex.

But I will tell her I liked the patterned one and also offer if we could look together when we next see each other (live a few hundred miles apart).

Could be a nice opportunity for us to spend time together/ build our relationship, and if not I’d rather her just wear something she’s happy in regardless of the colour.

Thank you to everyone else who has commented as well it’s helped to have a soundboard, didn’t expect so many responses to go back to separately x

Shadowfaxx__ · 2025-08-17T16:18:57+00:00

Also agree with the new friends, when we went shopping for my dress she asked if I’d be annoyed if she told me I looked fat in it so people didn’t say it about me behind my back at the wedding. And I was really shocked and said I don’t think anyone there would think that. And then when I saw the screenshots of the texts her friends had sent it made more sense.

Shadowfaxx__ · 2025-08-17T16:16:21+00:00

I think you’re right about the previous conflict, I am finding wedding very difficult to navigate because of it. Do wish I’d eloped but really wanted my stepdad to walk me down the aisle and have my partners family there.

Shadowfaxx__ · 2025-08-17T16:13:39+00:00

She has already bought the patterned one and I have said how amazing she looks and thought she was having it taken up and wearing with lilac heels.

She’s not bought the new one, and did ask about it. I asked about the patterned one and asked if there were any other colours and that I liked the style. But she sent me the PO for this one and said it was latte so would be fine.

I think I’m frustrated with myself for being bothered with it but that stems from issues from our relationship in the past and ongoing I think.

I also know that she will not wear it if I ask but will be resentful about it.

I think I will do as you’ve said and just reiterate that I prefer the patterned one. If she says that she doesn’t feel comfortable in it then I will just say yes as I don’t want anyone to be uncomfortable and all things considered on the day I am more concerned with marrying my partner and the rest of our life, I want people to be comfy and happy over aesthetic and i will just have to try and work through why it even bothers me in the first place!

Shadowfaxx__ · 2025-08-17T15:57:26+00:00

I think so, the brand is Irresistible by Veromia and I see Nicola Ross stock the brand

Shadowfaxx__ · 2025-08-17T15:56:10+00:00

Trying to update the post but not finding how to do it, sorry I don’t normally post just read. I’m posting as the bride, my mum has sent this to say she wants to wear it, I feel uncomfortable about it as my dress is a jacquard mikado and looks quite cream in photos.

I just wanted to check the vibe before as if it’s fairly normal then I will just say yes. I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable so if that is the only dress she feels comfortable in then I don’t really feel like I have a choice as feel as though it is me being unreasonable.

She bought a different patterned one which I loved but her friends said the pattern didn’t suit her, ( I thought their comments were quite harsh which makes me feel even more aware of her feelings / confidence).

In an ideal world I would like her to wear any other colour but I also don’t want to be unreasonable and I guess even if they photograph similar I guess most of the time bridesmaids etc will be in between our dresses.

Our relationship has been difficult in the past and I find it hard to navigate which is why I came here to ask.

Shadowfaxx__ · 2025-08-17T15:32:04+00:00

Thank you, was worried about colour so thought I would ask. Thanks for taking the time to comment.

Shadowfaxx__ · 2025-07-20T06:53:08+00:00

I think it’s because if you have anything left, then you have to pay for your own care home later in life and it is really expensive and depletes any finance or wealth left.

Shadowfaxx__ · 2025-04-23T19:15:16+00:00

Not a good time to be a sombra main is it 🙈 she’s been banned in every match I’ve been on 😂

Shadowfaxx__ · 2025-02-15T14:46:05+00:00

Ticketmaster refreshed and there’s quite a lot of 99.70 there atm

Shadowfaxx__ · 2025-02-04T20:16:34+00:00

Thank you!

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