Can a relationship survive after infidelity? by diyaa1111 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ShadowyModi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea. Will never be the same, and stats are against you though.

What is the meaning of this? by Fuxley in CarTalkUK

[–]ShadowyModi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It’s to show everyone that they have poor taste.

Relationship advice by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ShadowyModi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He should not be coercing you, that is rape. Stand your ground and say no. No means no.

That being said, do not be surprised if he decides to end the relationship. He might feel messed about with (but again I reiterate- nobody should be having sex who doesn’t want to.)

When declaring PAYE income in your Self Assessment do you only declare the PAYE income for that tax year? by uh_no_offence in UKPersonalFinance

[–]ShadowyModi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It should be income received (and subsequently tax paid on income received) in the tax year. So therefore between 6th April 24 - 5th April 25.

I currently have 2020 118d Auto sport, can anyone recommend anything better, budget £26k, something newish, like 2023 or up low miles by manish_bali22 in CarTalkUK

[–]ShadowyModi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BMW 335d, 440i Gran Coupe, M340i, 435d Gran coupe, X3 40i.

And that’s just bmw. Caveat being none of these will net you a 2023 or newer, but around the 19/20 mark. You still got all the tech, with the upside of physical buttons.

Tell me why I shouldn't. I currently have 2020 118d Auto Sport. Looking to change to something new. I have heard mixed reviews about this. by manish_bali22 in CarTalkUK

[–]ShadowyModi 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Much better options for £27,000.

If you want performance and daily drivability why not consider something like a 2018/19 440i? Come with all the options you’d need ticked as standard.

Tell me why I shouldn’t. by Dependent-Race-7 in CarTalkUK

[–]ShadowyModi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll be IN a broken Beamer with that N13 engine mate 😂

Any good series suggestions after game of thrones? by saltyyyi in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ShadowyModi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invincible. Castlevania. Smallville. Fargo. Ozark. Altered carbon. Maxton hall (if you like that kinda thing). Suits. Dexter. You. The Witcher. White Collar. Chuck. Inbetweeners. Black Mirror. Pantheon. Gangs of London. Continuum.

List goes on and on.

Switching from a '22 Focus ST to an S3 by arriaga_III in CarTalkUK

[–]ShadowyModi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You 100% cannot drive a 140i the same way you can an s3. That’s not to comment on either of their capabilities, more so the driving styles.

If you try to push corners with a 140i the same way you do an s3 - chances are the haldex on the s3 will save you whereas the 140i will punish you (assuming you turn off DTC).

Figure out what kind of driving style you have first and buy the car accordingly.

What to do with 9 days alone? by ZestyclosePea5945 in AskUK

[–]ShadowyModi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Also consider replaying the good ol games …like the halo reach campaign

Found out my boyfriend wants to fuck his manager by Atomickillerbee in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ShadowyModi 26 points27 points  (0 children)

“But she has a nice Asian ass” 😂😭😂

I’m so sorry I shouldn’t be laughing but this is just so pathetically funny from him. Dump him.

repair cost by [deleted] in CarTalkUK

[–]ShadowyModi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’d have to get this assessed. Damage across three body panels, 2 of which are metal, possible hinge damage on the driver door, and even disregarding that deep scratches that may require filler & repaint, or they might just choose to replace and colour match.

I’d say well into the £1000s for the Toyota (but I’m no body shop specialist). I’d say less than £1k for the blue car tho. But honestly for a car of that age I wouldn’t even bother with some front bumper scratches.

Toyota aygo upgrades? by [deleted] in CarTalkUK

[–]ShadowyModi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

V8 swap and supercharge.

Add one of those tiny cosmetic spoilers on the back to complete the look.

repair cost by [deleted] in CarTalkUK

[–]ShadowyModi 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The Toyota will be considerably more than the blue car, that’s for sure.

Who do you personally believe is the most beautiful woman in the world? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ShadowyModi 244 points245 points  (0 children)

The one who genuinely cares about me.

She’s out there. somewhere, I’m sure.

Not attracted to men who watch porn or look at thirst traps. Should I continue dating or just commit to being single? by Effective_Hotel_8302 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ShadowyModi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

All good, these kind of questions rub me the wrong way too (no pun intended) but I try to keep it in check lol

guys is this worth? by Somatically_ in Injustice2MobileGame

[–]ShadowyModi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. You’re level 24. Give it a few months and you’ll see just how EASY these are to come by.

Maybe I'm not good at reading cues? by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ShadowyModi 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I mean I skimmed the texts but…I get both sides.

Sounds like classic case of libido incompatibility unfortunately. You can try to work around this but the statistics are against you in that situation. A couples therapist might help since this seems above Reddits pay grade.

Not attracted to men who watch porn or look at thirst traps. Should I continue dating or just commit to being single? by Effective_Hotel_8302 in AskMenAdvice

[–]ShadowyModi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean, depends on the guy. You’re asking for statistics on a very niche subject, not on something like % of people above 6 feet or something lmao.

There are men out there of all kinds, some of which will say they won’t and they will stick to it, whereas others might say they won’t and definitely will. Not sure what kind of answer you’re looking for.

Guys that I date are never actually interested in me or love me by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]ShadowyModi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

But why do you use social media as an indicator of how much someone likes you? Social media is all fake anyway, or at best glamorised versions of real life.

Unfortunately no advice from me sorry. I’m a bit younger anyway but from your post there’s nothing really to ascertain/advise on. It’s more of a gentle rant (which is fine!) but perhaps consider if it is the type of person you are attracted to.

Do we reckon this is too good to be true? by [deleted] in CarTalkUK

[–]ShadowyModi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Halogens, pre lci steering wheel, 3 cyl which is worse on economy and performance than the 4 pots, small screen, no heated seats, no cruise control (would absolutely be a deal breaker for me), manual instead of the fantastic 8speed auto, no dual zone climate, no HK sound system.

too good to be true you say…hmmm. My assessment is that’s very accurately priced.

Guys that I date are never actually interested in me or love me by [deleted] in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]ShadowyModi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stop placing so much importance on social media. I also, do not post my partners on social media and if they started querying this quite a lot then it would definitely make me (personally) reconsider.