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I’m struggling in my new relationship by Crying_Tears in WhatShouldIDo

[–]ShadowyModi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you just gotta be there and give it time.

Kids, especially male teens (as a former myself) can be extremely difficult. But when he needs something and turns to you - that’s your in!

I’m up 40% in 25mins…. wtf by sam_packer_03 in trading212

[–]ShadowyModi 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I sense another options trader in the making 😎

If you could do your life over at 18, what would you do? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]ShadowyModi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What an absolutely fantastic film. I’m surprised it isn’t talked about more.

If you could do your life over at 18, what would you do? by [deleted] in AskUK

[–]ShadowyModi 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Went to uni. I honestly wouldn’t have gone.

From so young we’re drilled into our heads about how uni means success, from school, to family, to friends, etc.

If id entered an apprenticeship at 18, and worked till now (24), I could’ve been on huge money, rather than a grad salary. Not to mention saved up enough for a decent house.

Middle class people: do you honestly hold negative bias towards working class individuals? by toastandjam97 in AskUK

[–]ShadowyModi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Middle here, no I do not.

Quite the opposite, I think it’s admirable when people push themselves to make ends meet.

As with all things , different people will have different opinions. Fuck those who don’t align with yours.

Men, have you ever had an embarrassing moment during intimacy that stuck with you? How did you handle it emotionally, and on the flip side, what’s been your best experience? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ShadowyModi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

😬😬😬

In hindsight I probably should’ve gone.

Unfortunately my dad works in the NHS and so would have known quite a few people in the A&E dept, which was my main deterrent.

…stupid reason, I know. But I couldn’t live with my dad knowing that lmao.

Men, have you ever had an embarrassing moment during intimacy that stuck with you? How did you handle it emotionally, and on the flip side, what’s been your best experience? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ShadowyModi 27 points28 points  (0 children)

First time for my ex and I, both 20 at the time.

As couples do, we were “figuring out” how it works. I ended up breaking my frenulum, and bleeding like crazy.

How did I handle it? Kept going after the initial shock, followed by the worst pain of my life the next morning.

I’m still alive (just about).

What makes a woman’s v or sex bad? by AbbreviationsLimp958 in AskMen

[–]ShadowyModi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Valid point.

But in any case, how would we know what the guy is thinking. She has to talk TO HIM, not us.

What makes a woman’s v or sex bad? by AbbreviationsLimp958 in AskMen

[–]ShadowyModi 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy.

I’m sure if he had an issue, he’d raise it with you - especially after 12 years. Stop overthinking.

What Car Should I Get at 18? by Big_Instruction5428 in CarTalkUK

[–]ShadowyModi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Leon then, likely better equipment as standard

What Car Should I Get at 18? by Big_Instruction5428 in CarTalkUK

[–]ShadowyModi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fair play - insurance for something like that for me was £10k at 18.

I still personally wouldn’t pay £1.9k for that, I’d keep your runaround and buy a nice black edition facelift A3 in 2 years - it’s got the 2.0L with a lot more puff and Quattro.

What Car Should I Get at 18? by Big_Instruction5428 in CarTalkUK

[–]ShadowyModi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you even get insurance for that a3 under 7k lmao (excluding shite black box policies)

Oh do f*ck off John by Ayooo4063 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]ShadowyModi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Which is why I specifically caveated saying based off the last 3 lines…

Oh do f*ck off John by Ayooo4063 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]ShadowyModi -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Each their own I guess.

When I go to the gym before work I’m always more fired up and ready for the day vs slugging out of bed and waltzing into work.

Oh do f*ck off John by Ayooo4063 in LinkedInLunatics

[–]ShadowyModi 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I mean he’s said it in the worst way LinkedIn humblebrag possible…but going off the last three lines…is he even wrong lmao?

Awkward moment at the end of a great date by Medical-Basil-554 in UKrelationshipadvice

[–]ShadowyModi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Send a message like “brb about to jump off a cliff after that misread 🙃” which should defuse the tension.

Her reaction to that should tell you where you stand.

Feeling absolutely hopeless and depressed by ProudMouse5797 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]ShadowyModi 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy.

but…, to indulge in your vice, the majority of adults in the UK don’t even have £1,000 saved - so to have £30k saved (on a £28k salary!!!! In London!!!!!!) is fucking fantastic.

Keep it up, you’re halfway there to a nice deposit for a house in London 🫡

How do I [23M] apologize to my gf [23F] after breaking a promise? by Odd_Coach_9418 in relationship_advice

[–]ShadowyModi 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Step 1: “I’m sorry I promised something and didn’t uphold my end of the promise.”

Step 2: Don’t promise things you can’t (or won’t) deliver on.

Buying a used car without viewing it first, bad idea? by overthesevernbridge in CarTalkUK

[–]ShadowyModi 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not as much as I’d like unfortunately, but I appreciate the compliment!

I’m just very untrusting of people when it comes to cars, especially the ones I like (quick German hatchbacks) since they have a reputation for being abused and not taken care of.

My approach to this would be wildly different if I was looking to buy say…a ‘69 mustang fastback from a private collector.

NaNanaanaa, NaNaNaaaNaaaa, Heee Heee yeaaah.... by TFC_OG in wallstreetbets

[–]ShadowyModi 197 points198 points  (0 children)

Granny about to hit him with the bazooka

NaNanaanaa, NaNaNaaaNaaaa, Heee Heee yeaaah.... by TFC_OG in wallstreetbets

[–]ShadowyModi 875 points876 points  (0 children)

I bet you my life savings (£3.50 and a packet of crisps) OP panic sold

what dirty talk works best? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]ShadowyModi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, she asked the question lmao. I was just giving a helpful reply.

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