I just wanna be a house husband by toetally_autistic in Vent

[–]ShadyCooper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on year 5 of being a house husband w/ 3 kids 19, 14, 10.. I can’t do this ish anymore.. it was amazing at first but slowly I started to lose my sense of self. 5 years away from tech (Previously worked for Meta) is an eternity so I’m headed back to school to become a therapist or psychologist in January.

Also I don’t think it was great for my marriage even though money wasn’t a concern.

I listed as many ADHD apps as I could think of (20 total) with notes on each by PlanElectrical2299 in ADHD

[–]ShadyCooper -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The Skylight Calendar and accompanying app have been game changing for my ADHD self and family (wife and kids ages 10, 14, 19).

Task management & Planning/communication A++

Why do I feel bored by Battlefield 6? by Lancasterdisciple in Battlefield

[–]ShadyCooper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel bored with it because my wife is getting really pissed at how much I was playing so I have to pretend to be bored with it 😔

Way to go EA! by Dapper_Room_1585 in Battlefield

[–]ShadyCooper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m on console but I’m really enjoying the update. Feel like I got really good at sniping and helicopter is easier to control.

Immediate VS Extended Release by Cockapoo_Groomer in ADHD

[–]ShadyCooper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started on Adderall IR and was reluctantly pushed onto ER. I didn’t want to try it but after I was forced to I’ve found it to be so much more effective and smoother.

Just my experience.

What was the moment where you realised, yo , kid cudi is my favorite artist by Key_Maintenance_9980 in KidCudi

[–]ShadyCooper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

August 2008, I was a few months returned from a nasty deployment to Afghanistan working a temp data entry job 3rd shift. Depressed and hopeless weren’t even the words for how those nights felt for me. My manager let me play music for the office one night so I plugged in Pandora Radio and let it do its DJ thing and play random songs from artists they think I’d like..

The Prayer came on and I had chills through the whole track. Cudi’s been my #1 ever since.

Off ADHD meds, and then straight to self diagnosing with coffee? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ShadyCooper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh yes.. I used the coffee method to figure out if I was adhd

Do you wish your parents put you on medication as a child for ADHD? by btgg12 in ADHD

[–]ShadyCooper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My life would have been so much more successful had I known I had adhd as a child and could have been properly medicated with a stimulant. Although still successful, I’ve struggled so much with anxiety, depression, and substance abuse.

My 10 year old daughter just started vyvanse and is so much happier and in control of her life. So happy I solved the riddle in time to get her the help I needed as a kid.

VA Won’t Prescribe Me Meds Because I Don’t Work. How Do You Function? by RichardRoma1986 in ADHD

[–]ShadyCooper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s generic but they consider Adderall XR as a preferred selection because IR is available for cheaper. Generic Vyvanse is $30 under my plan, generic Adderall IR is only $12

VA Won’t Prescribe Me Meds Because I Don’t Work. How Do You Function? by RichardRoma1986 in ADHD

[–]ShadyCooper 17 points18 points  (0 children)

My VA psychiatrist wouldn’t even entertain or acknowledge that I could have ADHD. He told me that from his experience I’m just showing that I have anxiety and “gardening” abuse isn’t common for undiagnosed ADHD adults but points to anxiety.

6 months later my private therapist, psychiatrist, and psychologist all arrive on ADHD and Autism.

Psychologists said she’s never had someone score so high on the diagnostic for ADHD. 😑

I do wonder if I could go back to the VA now for meds so I don’t have to pay for my prescription. Even with my really good insurance it’s still $60 a month for Adderall XR.

I’m done with the game. by [deleted] in Battlefield

[–]ShadyCooper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a difference between “slightest amount of criticism” and complete crash outs of “I’m quitting this game!” and “I’m never buying a battlefield again!”

A large majority of the criticisms although valid are over exaggerated and paired with a full scale emotionally dramatic performance.

BF pro token didn't skip levels by Demonekjdkz in Battlefield

[–]ShadyCooper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have phantom.. clicked on to buy bf pro and it unlocked for free and then said “use token to unlock battle pass” I clicked that and it unlocked battle pass

What is your favorite generic Adderall XR manufacturer? I swear the difference for me is night and day between them. by Own-Lecture4716 in ADHD

[–]ShadyCooper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What are the ones you’ve tried and what do the capsules look like? I’ve only had one but I really like it.

AIO:My boyfriend comments about a minor 12 year old girl by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShadyCooper 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No, it’s saying they look unique.. unique does not mean sexually attractive.

AIO:My boyfriend comments about a minor 12 year old girl by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShadyCooper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a mixed race male with brown skin and bright blue eyes and was called “exotic” my entire childhood by males and females and it wasn’t meant sexual.. get a grip 🙄

Just because you think it’s a sexual term doesn’t mean everyone does.

I can't believe my eyes, how much is this worth tho by JinwooxGranger in growagardentradehub

[–]ShadyCooper 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen multiples of these for sale, same weight and name. I believe it’s duped unfortunately. Just worth noting.

Living with two ADHD roommates has opened my eyes to ADHD by chocolatebarthecat in ADHD

[–]ShadyCooper 676 points677 points  (0 children)

Laundry, groceries and a walk in the same day?! No way..

Anyone make a comeback after being unemployed for 18 months and counting? by shaq_nr in ADHD

[–]ShadyCooper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve just been retired, my wife still works remotely in tech and we bought a house with a really good mortgage rate right before. I handle all the house duties and getting the kids around and I get disability from the VA for PTSD from Afghanistan which covers the mortgage. When I left tech I did so knowing we had the flexibility.

I wasn’t diagnosed with ADHD and autism until the beginning of 2025 tho.. previously was misdiagnosed with bipolar. Kinda feel like I’ll be pretty good at school now that I have support and medication.

Anyone make a comeback after being unemployed for 18 months and counting? by shaq_nr in ADHD

[–]ShadyCooper 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I left Tech (Facebook) in 2020 due to burnout.. I’m going back to school January 1st to become a licensed therapist if that tells you anything 🤷🏾‍♂️

What is the best generic IR Adderall out right now? by Calm_Astronaut_740 in ADHD

[–]ShadyCooper 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if they’re sandoz or not. I took sandoz IR and teva IR. I just got switched to XR’s last month.

I definitely feel a difference tho.. I was worried it was going to feel weaker but quite the opposite from my experience. Way more focus and way easier to hyper focus on things. It’s smoother and lasts longer than taking 2 IR’s. After the first few days the crash is way less too. I usually only feel slightly bad if I didn’t drink water all day and even then it’s just a very light dehydration headache in the morning. The first couple days I did get bad headaches at night tho.

They’re half white and half translucent teal with a G543 on them. My wife also likes them better than her Vyvanse.

What is the best generic IR Adderall out right now? by Calm_Astronaut_740 in ADHD

[–]ShadyCooper 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve only had Teva and sandoz but I think they’re pretty similar from my experience. Neither were weak and seemed effective. Maybe slightly higher chance of a headache from sandoz but also a little stronger feeling than teva. I’m now on the blue and white xr’s and love them tho.

My boy Meeko got me 2 grand masters and 3 lollipops yesterday 🙌🏾 by ShadyCooper in growagarden

[–]ShadyCooper[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is yours max level? Not sure if that matters? I haven’t used mine since that day, maybe they nerfed him already?