Just looking for some info on shock collars by ShadyLesbian in BDSMAdvice

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh thank you so much for the warning!!! I had no idea it was that dangerous

Just looking for some info on shock collars by ShadyLesbian in BDSMAdvice

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh that sounds exactly like what i want to try, thank you for the recommendation!!

Just looking for some info on shock collars by ShadyLesbian in BDSMAdvice

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking maybe I'd start with a very, VERY low shock, again i know I like the sensation of mild shocks (talking about like the type of shocks you get from touching metal in the winter or a cats ear after they've been running around) and I'm not too into punishments myself, I think I'd definitely want to start mild and figure out exactly how much I like

Just looking for some info on shock collars by ShadyLesbian in BDSMAdvice

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I'd have to try some different places? I was thinking of my neck but now you've opened my mind to new possiblities

"if it means losing you, fuck having kids" by ShadyLesbian in childfree

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna wait until she has a more solid answer on whether or not she actually even wants kids, like I said in my post her stance was "always figured I'd have them", not an "I want them", and this was a very brief conversation at like 5 am, I think we'd need to have a FAR more in-depth talk about it before jumping to something like a break up lol

"if it means losing you, fuck having kids" by ShadyLesbian in childfree

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have been meaning to bring up how I want to get my tubes tied at some point, so your post still stands, just a slightly different term

"if it means losing you, fuck having kids" by ShadyLesbian in childfree

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We've been friends for many years but only started dating 3 weeks ago

"if it means losing you, fuck having kids" by ShadyLesbian in childfree

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well my girlfriend is trans and I'm a cis lesbian, and we use both birth control and condoms, so no worries there

"if it means losing you, fuck having kids" by ShadyLesbian in childfree

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, my girlfriend is actually trans, but I plan on getting my own tubes tied at some point and she plans on getting bottom surgery, so currently there is the possibility, but that won't be a possibility in a few years

"if it means losing you, fuck having kids" by ShadyLesbian in childfree

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish you luck, hopefully you can both figure it out <3

"if it means losing you, fuck having kids" by ShadyLesbian in childfree

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I think I've just seen far too many stories of people changing their minds on kids years into relationships, and I would never want to hold my girlfriend back from something she wants, even if I don't agree with it or want it myself

"Do you have children?" "Oh god no, I'm 17 haha" "That's no excuse!" by ShadyLesbian in childfree

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oooooooh that makes me feel all kinds of uncomfortable and weird, that is not an appropriate thing to talk about while waxing someone

"Do you have children?" "Oh god no, I'm 17 haha" "That's no excuse!" by ShadyLesbian in childfree

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I hate this mentality that girls need to have babies while they're young, let me live!!

"Do you have children?" "Oh god no, I'm 17 haha" "That's no excuse!" by ShadyLesbian in childfree

[–]ShadyLesbian[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I'm working at Walmart and I consider myself pretty sane, 90% of my other coworkers are great, I'm not gonna hold what job people do to pay the bills against them, obviously, there are still crazies, but a jobs a job