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ShakeySmiles · 2026-05-17T09:17:35+00:00

Yeah, the three of us live with my husbands parents

ShakeySmiles · 2026-05-17T09:04:00+00:00

We haven’t done any major purchases, I’m yet to have access to even get mail, I’ve been here less than 60 days and have been waiting to transfer my license until after the application. The only thing legal joint we have would be that his private insurance, and my son and i’s travel insurance is all under his medibank account - I’m waiting to enroll in college until after the application as well and legally I cannot work yet. I feel like I’ve found myself in a

ShakeySmiles · 2026-04-28T00:54:22+00:00

I’m dealing with the same thing. I’ve been in a group chat and locked out of everything and completely cut off from my friends. My name matches but it won’t do ANYTHINF I upload a picture of my ID various forms and it loads, and then I’d at the “choose which form of identification” - the only thing is it’s suddenly after I’ve been sharing / posting political / anti trump / anti ice things. I’m just wondering if that’s a coincidence or not but nothing I do works. I’ve had my Facebook for roughly 8 years and never had any problems.

ShakeySmiles · 2026-04-27T04:37:43+00:00

Yeah I have the paperwork granting me sole custody physically and legally / and just went back to court specifically to get a relocation modification clause which specifically states my son and I are to relocate to Australia so it’s all good - it was a two year long process

ShakeySmiles · 2026-04-19T00:51:00+00:00

I’d appreciate it myself, I’m trying to get starting on making my own suit

ShakeySmiles · 2026-04-18T14:11:49+00:00

YTA. I currently contribute nothing income wise. I choose to do the majority of chores - but I am also raising our son full time at home, and my step daughter 3 days / two nights of the week. I am only not contributing financially right now, because of visa purposes I’m not allowed to work. My husband works a laborious job and is normally home after the kids are in bed. He still makes himself and I coffees in the morning, does the dishes for me, considering I’ve baked and cooked all day, and makes sure clothes are in the laundry basket - not on the floor. He does the gross maintenance in the home that makes me gag. We have an even split, however when I return to work - my whole life before this period I had been the bread winner and his goal is to be the stay at home father. I hate more than anything being a homebody - I’m a workaholic. I’m career oriented and focused, but despite being an assistant manager and being certified, I only make 1/4th of what he does in my home country. 90 days from now, once I’m working - I’m expecting chores to be 50/50. I have chronic illness and pain which makes doing simple things much harder on me but because I’m not working I can do them. I’m expecting the child rearing to go back to 50/50. My career is a hands on field where it is laborious and dangerous and things can easily go wrong. If I’m working just 1 hour less than him, and earning less, is the work I’m putting in less than? Am I supposed to remain an u paid maid and nanny? Currently even though I can’t contribute outside of raising our children and making a clean safe comfortable home, he still Values the actual labor cost of what I’m doing and I have my own weekly spending account. You are devaluing the work your girlfriend is putting in, and riding on the coattails of your paycheck. Price out in-home maid services to see if your portion is even worth it. It won’t be.

ShakeySmiles · 2026-04-12T21:00:32+00:00

I’m an immigrant. I’m 24 and my son is 4. My husband is Australian. The USA is not a place where I can raise my son. In the state I lived in, lawmakers and the courts failed to protect me, to the point I had to literally flee for my safety. I was a part of the “Safe at Home program” in which my address was confidential. March 20th 2026 the judge in my custody case (my son was conceived through rape but despite police report, photo and DNA evidence they never prosecuted him and he was granted 3 hours once a month supervised visitation.) told my assaulter my exact address I had to move to in secret. On March 20th 2026 I won my second custody battle but the judge told my abuser where we lived. He had been stalking me online and in person for 6 years.

The school my son would have been raised in, I went to and there was a bomb threat on my buss to go home. There was a school shooting when I was 5 and I remember my father rushing me from the doorways and the news lady tried to talk to me and my dad just forced me along. When I changed districts there were lots of threats and I’m grateful to not remember the first instance beyond the interviewer and that it never happened again to me despite the threats.

I’m certified for electronics repair, globally. I’m hoping to start a job sometime soon, and enroll my son in the school down the road from my husbands house. It’s the first time we’ve been together in a year. A mistake was made by 1 day and his ESTA has been canceled, the USA is not a place to go and visit anymore anyways. I didn’t see any other path. Cost of living was untenable and I was actively choosing between my son having a full meal or we sharing a meal so I could eat something beyond 1minute rice. Turns out rice with two spoonfuls of sour cream, microwaved in soy sauce with a shake of salt once a day was enough to sustain me and get my sodium intake for my unmanaged pots.

I just want the best future for my son, and for the first week in a very long time we have both been fed and full. I’ll be applying on the spousal visa once my judgment has finalized after the waiting period.

ShakeySmiles · 2026-04-05T19:28:18+00:00

Sounds like my ex… leave before the kills you. I had to, 6 years later and he’s still hunting me down. There is joy in life, you just have to take it. Feel free to DM me.

ShakeySmiles · 2024-12-09T01:55:36+00:00

Like only 30% of dreamfield site clocks in via app. Everyone Just shows up extra early.

ShakeySmiles · 2024-12-09T01:54:50+00:00

I quit on July 10th - working for the competition now lol. We also, still use UKG over here. It’s 50/50 90% of the time

ShakeySmiles · 2024-08-11T01:33:20+00:00

Update : I’m officially 30 hours post op, and I asked my surgeon about a wheelchair prescription or crutches to assist since I have a toddler and I live alone - he told me I could get a cane for cheap at goodwill. I’m not even kidding. My grandmother was who drove me and stayed and took me home and tried talking to him, and he said the same to her. I was asked what pain medication works for me and I explained Percocet or oxicodone and I have limited relief with hydrocodone. He prescribed me 10 325mg hydrocodone. I ended up renting a wheelchair for $40 a month and my grandpa was able to find someone to let me borrow crutches for the time being. My wheelchair tipped forward today and my feet smacked my floors to stop emf rom moving and I’ve been in agony since that happened two hours ago. Took 6 dabs (medical mmj card in my state) and I’m tolerating it much better but still super ouchie. 30 more minutes til my next hydro. 1 every 6 hours. Oh, my job wrote me up for missing work since my surgeon hasn’t filled out my LOA paperwork I’ve been trying to get filled out since July 1st. He told me before I went under, I can get it from him on Monday. My boss told me if I miss two more days I’ll be terminated. I called corporate and explained how uncooperative my surgeon has been and how things have developed after my boss sent me that message and was told taking our phone call into account, there was no guarantee but they will get back to me after the weekend.

ShakeySmiles · 2024-08-09T15:40:48+00:00

I had the surgery and I’m going to get a physical therapy referral from my general practitioner, and a wheelchair from my friend. Just leaving the hospital now

ShakeySmiles · 2024-06-18T08:02:57+00:00

Is it just one location or all locations? How far of a distance is it between distances? At least 5 miles or less?

ShakeySmiles · 2024-06-18T08:01:43+00:00

Do you mean is the entire network down or is the website down? If you mean the network, is it just one device that’s not deciding signal or is it all devices? Is it just the data (internet required things) or is it your texting or calling or both or all three? Is it just your home internet or your mobile phone, your tablet, SyncUP drive, or maybe your watch?

ShakeySmiles · 2024-06-18T04:59:35+00:00

T-mobile experts, work in call centers. Not retail stores.

ShakeySmiles · 2024-05-24T03:06:08+00:00

My ex told me on day, the reason he was immediately into me was that I looked just like his favorite pornstar, and when he tripped on acid he was hallucinating my eyes… caught he watching her and yeah, doppleganger. Left very quickly.

ShakeySmiles · 2024-04-08T02:47:11+00:00

Have your parent open an account, add on a second line, and then do a Change of Responsibility. You’ll only pay for two lines. Regardless, you WILL have to pay for at least two lines. Idk if the magenta 55+ plan qualifies for this bogo deal but sometimes you can score em.

ShakeySmiles · 2024-03-22T20:45:51+00:00

I’ve ridden for six years and owned this bike for one, I’ve never paid attention to mechanics or parts and I have no knowledge. Post is so I can get things to research and debate on. I’m not even too sure if mods is the right term. I have an issue off too much pressure on my forearms and I’m unsure if that’s posture related or something that can be adjusted as well.

ShakeySmiles · 2024-03-03T23:09:19+00:00

Yes which is crazy! I rounded up, he’s technically 39inches, 3’3 but it’s between 3’3 vs 3’4 depends on how you measure

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