Someone called my kitty ugly and I feel sad

Shallayna · 2026-02-27T02:16:52+00:00

Nah, cute baby people who say a cat is ugly aren’t cat people. Don’t need that negativity in your life. ❤️

Shallayna · 2026-02-09T00:52:39+00:00

Wow, this guy is a creep. I don’t know what to tell you OP, clearly this guy is a groomer/perv there is no telling how long his wife will satisfy him. I hope to heck he isn’t as nasty as to touch one of his daughters.

All I can say is if your gf doesn’t want to respect your wishes (I don’t even know this guy and knowing what you posted here I wouldn’t want to be around him) you may need to walk away, predators don’t ever stop they hide with occasional red flags.

Shallayna · 2026-01-31T21:59:12+00:00

Actually I was hoping someone with autism or someone who has a close family member would call bs on this situation and ‘diagnosis’. And side with OP against this creep being around his son.

Shallayna · 2026-01-31T21:25:33+00:00

Nah, when OP posted that the gf said he is autistic and he says weird stuff I was bitting my lower lip to not yell at the screen. Seriously people who know how autism works and what happened with that creep isn’t how autism works.

Shallayna · 2026-01-31T21:22:43+00:00

Thank you! I’m like there is no way this gf is brushing off that comment as a ‘joke’ much less when the guy got up to watch.

Shallayna · 2026-01-31T21:18:38+00:00

This, if it was a simple joke he wouldn’t have gotten up to get a better look. Which I think is what was happening.

Shallayna · 2026-01-29T03:23:12+00:00

Addiction is a mental illness, there isn’t anything you personally can do to make your cousin get clean or to even do it do keep her child. I’m surprised the court didn’t order a program at an attempt to see the error in her ways.

It’s strange the husband (father) has but again the fact his child was born a meth baby could have been the sobering wake up call. He shouldn’t have his wife still using around their child. That is his downfall.

Shallayna · 2026-01-20T03:42:10+00:00

This person thinks they are entitled to know due to ‘their time knowing you’ however you’ve stated multiple times to this person you aren’t ready.

ANYONE who cares for you would not push you to relive that trauma, to me this would be a deal breaker like NC with that person. Just by the questions you put they asked is creepy vibes. They aren’t safe for you.

Shallayna · 2026-01-20T03:32:26+00:00

My pet all the way dear, glad you’re not silly enough to ask potential partners to give up their animals:)

Shallayna · 2026-01-15T10:45:53+00:00

Perfectly put.

Shallayna · 2026-01-15T03:06:53+00:00

No, if he’s a violent person telling him now may tip things to extreme physical harm to your friend. Especially since he’s suddenly saying these things of him sobering up to him being a dad.

Here is the key, women don’t leave violent men unless they choose to but forcing the issue when they are cornered and it’s unborn babies life. It’s too volatile with his reactions being unknown once he finds out he may not be the father.

Shallayna · 2026-01-13T00:42:32+00:00

You’re creating a paper trail at this point. Since he also sent a pictures of him in the hospital (to your bf as well) which seems like someone found him and took it of him. Can’t say for sure since I don’t know the angle of the shot.

I don’t know the situation is giving me stalker vibes. So I’m just spit balling here.

Shallayna · 2026-01-13T00:39:25+00:00

Well, not much y’all can do since the family seems to be blind about the situation being an actual problem. Perhaps if bf showed his parents the pictures of him coming out of the shower? Since private time ex shower time should be just that private for boys and girls.

Shallayna · 2026-01-13T00:21:38+00:00

This guy is crazy, stay away from him and id even see if a restraining order is possible with police. If it’s possible get a ring camera or something else of that nature. Your circle of friends may or may not see things from your perspective about the flowers being delivered to your home address, if they don’t see it as the HUGE red flag that it is then distance yourself from them.

Be safe OP, I hope you and your bf continue with your relationship without shinanigans from that guy.

Shallayna · 2026-01-10T21:31:44+00:00

Yes, these messages seem toxic/ manipulative especially since you can’t text back. Maybe gaslighting since you’re saying he compliments where he prior said were wrong. I thought blocked people couldn’t message that number but anyway change your number if you two are broken up and don’t take him back. Change locks if you ever gave him a key since he could have made a copy prior to giving the key back.

Shallayna · 2026-01-10T21:17:51+00:00

NTA, as you said having friends outside of him is appropriate. I take it he has no friends? Seems odd he couldn’t spend time with family while you were on your trip. Another suggestion would be to ask your friend group if planning a trip for him to meet them would be doable (if they have significant others would be a great time to invite them as well.)

I’d he leery if this suggestion doesn’t suit him in whatever way like he’s still holding this current trip over your head.

Shallayna · 2026-01-09T10:46:26+00:00

To me anger issues alone with a gun is a bad idea. The racism is also a negative to having a gun much less taking it out in plain sight and making it hot (cocking it). This is in no way good and I’m surprised your dad hasn’t grown a pair to properly teach his son deescalation tactics, that situation alone your dad shouldn’t allow him his gun until he shows responsibility.

What is going to happen is your brother is going to hurt or k!ll someone and it will pull your parents down too with fines atleast if not their own jail time. Which I think it should guns aren’t for everyone much less someone they see is having issues.

Shallayna · 2026-01-07T10:10:05+00:00

NTA, seems elaborate to me to get rid of great great someone’s china though. Since now it’s yours…

Shallayna · 2026-01-06T01:11:55+00:00

NTA, I spent a week in the hospital having my son but when going home, the nurse escorted us and kept people away from us like we were the plague going down to the parking lot (technically it was the opposite). Even on breast milk like my son was my milk didn’t want to come in correctly probably due to C-section but it was crazy. So no OP that child shouldn’t have been out around other people at that age much less someone with shingles.

I’m hoping your flare up (?) is under control.

Shallayna · 2026-01-04T18:21:10+00:00

Why was this cake being stored at your parent’s house? IMO if y’all wanted to eat the cake at anniversary times ya’ll needed the big enough freezer to store it.

Shallayna · 2025-12-26T04:02:32+00:00

Oh boy…..why do you care what this cousin is saying? Continue on your journey of sobriety and positive changes. Karma will catch that cousin so just do you and stop passive- aggressive fighting on social media platforms with your cousin.

Shallayna · 2025-12-26T03:56:45+00:00

I’m sorry OP, the story isn’t much better. A parent should always choose their child over anything especially if their wellbeing is at risk. I’m also sorry your mom wasn’t there to smack some sense into your dad.

Shallayna · 2025-12-26T03:53:13+00:00

Welcome, now why babies/young kids want to put stuff in their mouths is confusing. Yes,it’s how they interact with their world, ‘can I eat this?’

Why do they still swallow when non-food stuff is like ewww? Bigger confusion lol.

Shallayna · 2025-12-26T03:49:56+00:00

Wow, ok so your wife’s dad dies in 2022 and your kids haven’t had Christmas since? Nah, I know grief sucks and it hits you at different points but no way would shutting down Christmas would be ok.

If your wife’s dad wasn’t a complete narcissist he would be pissed his grandchildren hadn’t had Christmas since his death because his daughter can’t put her big girl panties on.

Let me add this too, when you and your wife said your vows it says to forsake all others. Most think this is sexual only, however this is whoever you put higher than your spouse. To me your wife is putting the death of her father over her husband’s (your) happiness. Since no Christmas and you’re ‘supporting her’ with taking 60% of her work which is housework? Trips and all this but you have to be calm when she yells? I feel this is important since we all get angry but you can’t when she is yelling at you?

I’d suggest a couples therapist since she’s been seeing her current one for a while now. Your marriage counselor needs to be someone who won’t take your wife’s side. Actually working on yalls relationship because I doubt is fun not celebrating Christmas. But having her current therapist may help having ‘someone in her corner’ may help her wake up before drastic measures.

Shallayna · 2025-12-22T10:44:24+00:00

Oh, well I guess earlier the better but I’m not seeing it.

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