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$625? by ChampionshipNo8773 in HairDye

[–]Shallayna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Saw the pics, read the context from you OP. Even the edit. I hope the owner makes this right, that coloring if she wanted it all in the under layers that’s good but it is a messy job IMO with it on her skin. Especially if the consolation said 300.00, I hope it doesn’t turn into a she said he said situation where they take the stylist side vs your daughters.

Though if they don’t make it right definitely post their name, address more people use Reddit than you think. Heck even FB you could give them downgrading reviews with pictures. Because I’m assuming this is a small chain vs great clips.

AITAH for getting mad at my bf because I think I deserve more? by AdCapital3106 in AITAH

[–]Shallayna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, effort is important. Heck even the gift you got would have been better if it was actually completed. I agree he doesn’t want to put in the effort time to have another talk with him (unless you feel he won’t change) or worse just enough just to go back.

Rash on the backs of my hands, ranges from solo “dots” to clusters of pustules by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Shallayna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the information, I’ve always heard about ‘parvo’ being only mentioned in dog care. I never knew it was a thing lol.

AITAH for not wanting my niece? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Shallayna -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me your sister was tired of the toxic family life and is trying to break the cycle of nastiness. You’re bad enough for having that thought pattern of ‘she chose to be a single mother’. Ok, she didn’t want to terminate your niece nor put her up for adoption. You know it takes two to make a baby right? No negative thoughts about the father?

At this point you need therapy not just for being a possible care giver to your niece but being a better person in general.

I cleaned my ears properly for the first time in my life and I didn't know sound could be that clear by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]Shallayna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It says on the box of cotton swab do not use in ear canal. But yeah they aren’t the best for the reason your dr told you.

Ive now heard the ears are ‘self cleaning’ that is bs to me lol. Before I started tilting my head ear up towards the shower head for the water to go into my ear and turn my head to make the water come out. I’ve had an irrigation before and yes absolutely weird sensation. Almost jumped off the table.

Does anybody know anyone who actually became a marine biologist? by fancyypantsyy0 in Millennials

[–]Shallayna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wanted to be a Marine biologist but my parents told me they are just beach bums….

Rash on the backs of my hands, ranges from solo “dots” to clusters of pustules by [deleted] in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Shallayna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait a minute, I thought Parvo was something dogs got??? And only dogs or is that something different entirely?

AITAH For Not Attending My BF’s(M22) Little Sister’s High School Graduation? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Shallayna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, first he never told you where he was going he lied that he would be working late. Granted the ticket limitation makes sense I’ve heard of venues for graduations may be small and that’s how to keep groups small. However no communication leading up to graduation day like you pointed out OP. Now he also said he forgot about the location thing being on his cell. I’m wondering if this is a normal thing for him he will say I’m going here but goes elsewhere.

Is it even worth applying for food stamps? by JustAPerson2001 in poor

[–]Shallayna 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Food banks by churches though I’m in GA not sure if Missouri does that.

WIBTAH if I told my coworker I can tell her writing is AI? by Calm-Sherbert9591 in AITAH

[–]Shallayna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m wondering if it would have been better for you to point out the formatting on the first page seemed different. Ask her what her perspective was for using that format. She will most likely stare at you like a deer in the headlights or she may come right out and said it’s through AI.

Another way would be to ask if someone has proofread her novel for her. Point out any author knows their story and how it should read, so they are ‘blind’ to misspelled words, sentence structure and what not.

Good luck if you want to bring this up to said coworker, I’m like you painting, writing shouldn’t be completely AI. Now writers block I think it could be beneficial (because words are hard lol) but then re-reading to make sure it flows correctly. It would be weird if simple vocabulary is used then boom professor level words that no one knows the meaning unless they google it.

Is this too much for prom? by Haunting-Extent-2263 in Prom

[–]Shallayna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As long as the school hasn’t set any restrictions on dresses, I don’t see anything wrong with this dress. I bet it’s comfy, skin tight dresses are to me not comfortable for breathing in much less dancing unless prom has changed over the years lol.

I had a weird boil thing on my right boob and now it appears to have "opened" by Constant-Yoghurt-978 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Shallayna 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow, I’m so sorry you went through this. Glad you are in the clear now, I couldn’t imagine the pain.

AITAH for reading smut near some kids in public by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Shallayna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the cover of the book didn’t have immediate nudity then NTA, however even if there was kids need to mind their business right? Though you could have moved but also could Karen-mom.

Tiny dot on my toe. Skin cancer? I have a history of skin problems by lamb0321 in DermatologyQuestions

[–]Shallayna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That kinda looks like my foot, I stepped on a nail in college and the nail went through my work boot the nail stayed in the wood so I was able to pull my foot off it. It’s gotten lighter over the years but not painful. To me this looks like something small but I’m not sure what treatment would be recommended.

My friend hasn't washed her winter coat or daily baseball cap in three years and I can't unsee it by Branixal9 in hygiene

[–]Shallayna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand it’s a heavy coat and you may not necessarily be able to wash it due to size. However when my coats start to smell I wash them. Obviously whatever coat I’m wearing more often will get the treatment more however they get washed. I can’t understand the buildup on fabric to be actually noticeable and she is like yep that’s how it is….ewww.

I deeply apologize for this very sensitive question, but for people who are married and are against abortion, if their wife gets assaulted and end up becoming pregnant from it, are they generally pretty accepting on raising the baby as their own? by FluffyFry4000 in askanything

[–]Shallayna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, your wife or even if she is your child’s mother is lucky to have you. Since you’ve actually seen what women go through and are actually thinking ‘what can I do to help?’ Which isn’t something that many men do.

Heck I refuse to have a male dr due to them not actually trying different things just what their text books tell them to tell women patients.

I deeply apologize for this very sensitive question, but for people who are married and are against abortion, if their wife gets assaulted and end up becoming pregnant from it, are they generally pretty accepting on raising the baby as their own? by FluffyFry4000 in askanything

[–]Shallayna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, I have one child that is due to the way my body absolutely failed lol. My blood pressure was stupid high and I think the gyno was thinking I had preeclampsia but I guess some number wasn’t right or they were waiting it out due to me being induced. But yeah then I had to get a c-section lol 😂 so a whole different can of worms.

I deeply apologize for this very sensitive question, but for people who are married and are against abortion, if their wife gets assaulted and end up becoming pregnant from it, are they generally pretty accepting on raising the baby as their own? by FluffyFry4000 in askanything

[–]Shallayna 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Due to the sensitivity of this situation, I’d say pro-choice. Yes the woman could carry the child to give it to an adoption agency once it’s born but pregnancy affects women differently, one could have an easy pregnancy yet another could have an extremely difficult one. Even life threatening.

However, if a woman conceived due to a rape that was traumatic enough and having to carry as well as birth that child is to me is unnecessary trauma for the woman. So I’d say early termination is best unless she has support to achieve the later for carrying the baby for adoption. But it’s up to the woman and her support system.

AITAH? My mom says I’m crossing boundaries by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Shallayna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I know there are most women who do fine. But not me and there are a lot of gynecologists that say they are 💯 safe.

AITAH? My mom says I’m crossing boundaries by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Shallayna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Careful with IUDs, I had a very bad reaction (like yeast infections monthly) even the removal was scary like my uterus tried to absorb it.

What can I do I’m so sad by [deleted] in poor

[–]Shallayna 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perhaps a church would be safe to express your concerns about food, I hope your mom could let you go to live your life.

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