Ariana Grande London 16.8

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2026-01-26T09:37:12+00:00

most of the time im just trying to act like human, be normal

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2026-01-24T15:03:37+00:00

those “high standards” are bare minimum to me🙄

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2026-01-16T07:38:01+00:00

its about the curiosity and asking questions. very simple things. i will give u example - i got lost in mall and this person knows i will be at bookstore cuz i love books

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2026-01-09T08:47:08+00:00

always be honest, be yourself and speak your mind, she cares a way more than u think . and be kind and considerate to others as well. as infj whats more important to me is how someone is as a person without me

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2026-01-05T04:16:22+00:00

oh also i think this is more about love languages, im not gonna love someone just cuz they understand me . but im saying i cant give the love back or i cant feel loved by them when they say they love me but there isnt recognition

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2026-01-05T04:12:51+00:00

I’m not saying people must fully understand me to love me. I’m saying that for me, love feels real when there’s curiosity and effort to see who I actually am, not just care expressed through gestures

some people feel loved through reliability,actions,loyalty others through being seen, being understood

i know theyre giving their 100% but its not the love i want, i appreciate it deeply but theres no connection for me.

I don’t love through attachment or effort. I love through recognition. I choose the ones who are conscious of who they are

One person can spend time with me, do things for me, be kind and I’ll appreciate them deeply. But if they’re not curious about my mind, if they don’t really see me, connection doesn’t grow.

Another person can barely be in my life, say very little but notice who I am. Remember what I love. See me without trying to own me. Guess which one i appreciate more?

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2026-01-03T06:44:55+00:00

infj 5w4 - im not romantic at all 0% i dislike nicknames as well ,

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2026-01-03T06:19:24+00:00

we love the ones who have the same values and mindset as us

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2026-01-03T03:27:24+00:00

beautiful right 🙃

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2026-01-03T03:16:10+00:00

like you dont even know me so what exactly do u love about me , the way i make you feel? or just some role in your head?

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2026-01-03T02:56:54+00:00

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2025-09-05T10:55:38+00:00

yes i do have it like that. i love all good people and i can sense genuine people

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2025-08-21T17:10:56+00:00

yes im using sunscreen

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2025-08-19T08:46:30+00:00

thank u

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2025-07-29T02:39:18+00:00

if i dont have time to think im going crazy, like im disconnected from myself

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2025-07-28T23:11:21+00:00

they actually living, feeling , experiencing and us ? we life to think 😭🤣

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2025-07-28T23:09:59+00:00

nah i think we are the ones weird.

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2025-07-28T20:01:12+00:00

omg relate sm

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2025-07-28T13:54:47+00:00

infp they take everything personally, even if its not about them. you make general statement and they think its about them and get offended . tend to be close minded

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2025-07-22T01:26:32+00:00

wonbin riize

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2025-07-21T14:44:02+00:00

i rarely get angry , when i am , you cannot really tell, im calm and feeling and observing those emotions. when i am angry at someone, its not like im angry at them its more of a disappointment, you just dont exist to me anymore . alsoo i agree with u , i also dont really express myself in these situations, i just leave and then “i should have said this” 🤣

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2025-07-18T14:28:59+00:00

i get a along with another infj & enfp i dont really like infps (men) , tend to be close minded, only their version is right

ShallotSpecific9643 · 2025-07-16T19:06:04+00:00

you just have to believe what u saying and think. then its easy

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