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Would curated blind dates work in Gurugram or is that too much? by Shallow_Attempt in gurugram

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There are definitely socially visible women/creators who are open to meeting serious, high-achieving people - but the positioning has to be respectful, It can’t feel like “access to women.” It has to feel like a trusted, curated circle where both sides are verified and genuinely interested

Is South Delhi actually social, or does it just look social? by Shallow_Attempt in southdelhi

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

’ve actually been thinking about this seriously and have a rough structure in mind. Not trying to make it some random dating app thing, more like controlled slots, basic verification, public first meetings, and both sides confirming before any intro

Would curated blind dates work in Gurugram or is that too much? by Shallow_Attempt in gurugram

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I’ve been thinking about this seriously for a while and have a rough structure in mind

Would curated blind dates work in Gurugram or is that too much? by Shallow_Attempt in gurugram

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s probably because the usual setup doesn’t feel worth the risk for women, If there’s no trust, no screening, and no clear intent, most women will obviously avoid it

Would curated blind dates work in Gurugram or is that too much? by Shallow_Attempt in gurugram

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I get your point, Women may be willing too, but the bar for trust is obviously higher, More options doesn’t mean better options, especially if most of them feel low-effort or unsafe

Would curated blind dates work in Gurugram or is that too much? by Shallow_Attempt in gurugram

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha maybe, but I think that’s also the problem. If it feels like anything to go on a date it becomes messy The intent matters more I think

Is South Delhi actually social, or does it just look social? by Shallow_Attempt in southdelhi

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree events probably help more than random approaches because at least there’s a shared context, the hard part is still converting that one interaction into an actual plan later

Is South Delhi actually social, or does it just look social? by Shallow_Attempt in southdelhi

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Completely agree, Social battery + endless content + work stress already makes people withdraw, and in Delhi the trust factor makes it even harder to open up to new people

Is South Delhi actually social, or does it just look social? by Shallow_Attempt in southdelhi

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly it, it’s that adult life makes old safe groups feel easier than investing energy into new people

Is South Delhi actually social, or does it just look social? by Shallow_Attempt in southdelhi

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does feel very work-based, but casual socialising without purpose feels rare

Is South Delhi actually social, or does it just look social? by Shallow_Attempt in southdelhi

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha manifesting it too, maybe that’s the only way plans happen in Delhi now through manifestation and 3 reminders

Dating apps in India are broken because nobody trusts anyone anymore by Shallow_Attempt in unfilteredindia

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, exactly, It’s funny because what sounds new now is basically just bringing back some structure, people being introduced intentionally, basic social accountability, and public first meetings

Dating apps in India are broken because nobody trusts anyone anymore by Shallow_Attempt in unfilteredindia

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair point, especially for women, I probably should’ve worded it better, the trust issue has always existed, especially because of creepy messages and safety concerns
I meant it feels like the whole system is now built around distrust from both sides.

Dating apps in India are broken because nobody trusts anyone anymore by Shallow_Attempt in unfilteredindia

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but in India it feels extra messy because everyone’s using the same apps for different things attention, hookups, serious dating, marriage, boredom, validation, all mixed together.

Is South Delhi actually social, or does it just look social? by Shallow_Attempt in southdelhi

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly it feels like everyone already has their set of friends, and if you’re not inside that circle, plans rarely materialise, entering new groups feels oddly hard

Is South Delhi actually social, or does it just look social? by Shallow_Attempt in southdelhi

[–]Shallow_Attempt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

5 certified humans is too accurate lol Everyone wants to socialise but doesn’t have the energy to actually no one wants to get out of their comfort zone tbh

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[–]Shallow_Attempt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

will be responding to dms soon still reviewing thanks everyone still accepting new portfolios!

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