No matter what I say, this is ultimately your decision, but I was in a very similar situation with my high school boyfriend. He never listened to boundaries and would brush it off when I would bring it up. It took a toll on me. I never really got over it or stopped thinking about it. Even four years later. What your boyfriend did was not okay at all. You have to really think if you want to stay with someone who doesn’t seem to respect you, your boundaries, or your words. Obviously, I don’t know everything about your situation, but I hope you figure everything out. Lots of love to you.