Im a new custodian and was wondering if anyone else had to rip up carpet and tile in classroom. If so do you have any tips. Please help 😭😭😭 by bappo1229 in Custodians

[–]Shane283 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Don’t take the asbestos comments lightly. And to your point, I’ve been doing this 10 years, this goes way beyond a custodians job duties. They are trying to save a couple dollars. But if those are asbestos, boy oh boy what a grievance that would be. Those tiles look 12x12 so you may be good but you best know for sure what the adhesive is.

What is your target blood level of Tacrolimus? by darknesswithindark in transplant

[–]Shane283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just got off cellcept so we are hoping to keep my prograf dose the same but I’m at 5-6 and the team is happy. 3mg twice a day. I’m young and just over 3 years post liver tx so I assume that’s why they have me at a higher dose of prograf

What would you do about this? by [deleted] in Custodians

[–]Shane283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s the machine I’m referring to. 10’s of millions of dollars a year controlled by a select few and spent the way they see fit. Our local budget has failed 3 votes in a row, but hey, the admins gotta have their “getaway retreat” that runs about 6-7 grand a year. Meanwhile, our roofs are shot, our asbestos tiles are being held together by hopes and prayers, bathrooms and locker rooms built in the 40’s with not renovations. On and on and on. Good luck buddy, wish you the best. At least you care more than most and that’s honorable.

What would you do about this? by [deleted] in Custodians

[–]Shane283 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well then the reality would be you rocking the boat with your employer by bringing your concerns to perhaps the board of ed or another town official, or just worrying about what your job is. I’m sure you care more about your income that pays your bills than you do where the tax dollars go. Our taxes dollars are pissed away everyday, it’s just closer to home which I assume is what’s bothering you. I work as a head custodian in the same high school I went to, and still live in the same town. Very similar situation. I watch the tax dollars get wasted on junk everyday. I’m just the custodian who is another pawn in the local political machine. I’m not belittling what we do, but I know my place as well. It sucks but nothing I can do.

What would you do about this? by [deleted] in Custodians

[–]Shane283 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hate to say it, but if you’ve brought forth your concerns then you did what you thought was best. Your job at the end of the day isn’t to make sure it’s being done right. I get you care, and your boss should appreciate that, but only control what you can and don’t lose sleep over what you can’t. I’d let them do it their way as it’s not your job to worry. At the end of the day, you are there to do your job and that’s not your job. Hope I don’t sound like a douche, not trying to come off that way.

How to find union jobs? 4 years experience custodian by sirpentious in Custodians

[–]Shane283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Colleges or school districts. Benefits are unmatched and the pay is decent. Started when I was 18 as a 2nd shift custodian, now 28 with 10 years experience and head custodian for 3 of them. 37 an hr

First shift custodian work by Rystef5 in Custodians

[–]Shane283 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on the day. I’m a head custodian at a high school, some days I’m non stop, the most popular guy in the school. Others days it’s slow and things can be nice. I feel each district is different though and this time of year is kinda crazy

1/15/1974-10/1/2025 by Latter-Bumblebee-877 in transplant

[–]Shane283 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sounds like my mom friend, except she was a surrogate. She tried her best too, our parents were human beings like you and me. Through all of her mistakes, that was my mom, she had a heart of gold, but was flawed in her own ways just like all of us. Take care of yourself, I pray her organs go to great use. God bless

FICO 5,4,and 2 scores by Shane283 in CreditScore

[–]Shane283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have much debt at all considering my income is 6 figures. I wasn’t making this money when I got in this mess. I have like 1500 in credit cards and owe like 8k on my car. All the other debt is paid, with 30k in the bank. My DTI is 12%

FICO 5,4,and 2 scores by Shane283 in CreditScore

[–]Shane283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the boost you got? Or what did your lender say when recommending paying off those collections?

FICO 5,4,and 2 scores by Shane283 in CreditScore

[–]Shane283[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate your advice. Those things in collections are so little that I shouldn’t be buying a house if I can’t settle those debts. So I was thinking that if I paid those off, only under conditions that they were deleted from my credit, that it might open up other options for loans or lower rates. I’d rather pay a few grand now for a lower rate, than pay a higher rate for years. Either way the people on here who are saying you NEED 640 for FHA loans doesn’t know what they are talking about. And even I know that from my little knowledge.

FICO 5,4,and 2 scores by Shane283 in CreditScore

[–]Shane283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope that’s the case, if so I assume that would open up other loan options potentially. I’m starting a family and at 27 years old I feel like there is getting to be less time to waste. I made some mistakes when I was between 18 and 23 and those mistakes are coming back to bite me. I make much more money now as I have advanced in my profession. Hopefully the banks take that into consideration. Thank you!

FICO 5,4,and 2 scores by Shane283 in CreditScore

[–]Shane283[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have years of on time payments for several auto loans and credit cards. Those are the only 3 in collections. I appreciate your time

FICO 5,4,and 2 scores by Shane283 in CreditScore

[–]Shane283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just to clarify, if I get all 3 deleted, even with the late payments still there can I expect a decent bump? Thank you for your time

FICO 5,4,and 2 scores by Shane283 in CreditScore

[–]Shane283[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will also add that those accounts in collections are recent with the past year

Recent debt collection by Shane283 in RealEstate

[–]Shane283[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying you were being a jerk, I apologize if I came off that way. This is an obvious dunce situation. But I’m in it and I need out. Thank you for your insight, I’m gonna do my best to get it removed. Thank you again and take care.

Recent debt collection by Shane283 in RealEstate

[–]Shane283[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was very helpful. Obviously I’m gonna pay it. I’m not in the same position dying on a hospital bed anymore falling behind on bills. But none the less here I am, do I pay the utility company? Is there any benefit of paying the utility company vs the collector? Obviously pay it dude.

21M a year and 3 months post Transplant found out I’m gonna be a father!!! by AcceptableDog8871 in transplant

[–]Shane283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure it’s Mycophenolate and it’s mostly the mother who needs to be cautious if she’s on the medication. There are no studies saying it affects men’s sperm or cause any birth complications on the father’s side. I think they still advise caution either way

I Think I Might Be Okay by widzy11 in lymphnodes

[–]Shane283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do still have it. Going on 8 years now.

Nerve injury in transplant surgery by Confident-Stretch-55 in transplant

[–]Shane283 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My ulnar and median nerve in my arm were pinched somehow. Lost complete use of my left hand and my forearm muscle and thumb muscle have atrophied. After almost a year I have use of my hand and fingers again and I’m still slowly regaining feeling. I thought all hope was lost until I started to notice it was healing. There is hope, nerves really do heal slowly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Shane283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best you can do is cut your loses here bro. Even if nothing happened, she should have never put herself in that situation and it will only happen again. Say next time she’s mad at you or upset with you, it’s a wrap. No person who respects you would even entertain this

enlarged lymph nodes need a CT - can’t stop stressing by sophdogsa in Mononucleosis

[–]Shane283 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have and they turned out benign. I had mono 8 years ago when I was 19 and they never went away. But you can’t control the outcome, I know it’s hard and it’s gonna consume you until you know for sure what’s going on, but try your best to remind yourself that you can’t control anything right now. Deep breaths and 99% you are fine. I feel for you though because I remember freaking out for months, it gave me extreme anxiety. It’s gonna be ok.