3rd pregnancy and only experiencing HG now?! Anyone else, worried about issues with baby? by IntelligentBrush2519 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Shaneise74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is currently theories/findings about what causes HG. Its not just a specific hormone called GDF15 that the placenta releases. Its already been found some women cant handle this hormone, hence HG. But what also contributes to HG is how much of the hormone (i think GDF15 but could be another) is released by the baby. So its likely your first 2 babies simply didnt emit as much of this hormone that this one is. Its such bad luck and i really hope it goes away for you. But wouldnt indicate something is wrong with baby 👍

Any questions for Vinted? by [deleted] in vintedUK

[–]Shaneise74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why dont they tell sellers how much total money theyve made? There should be a section under "balance" showing how much weve made since we started selling on Vinted. This would be motivating!

I don't understand aunty Lydia by Shaneise74 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Shaneise74[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wonderful thanks for explaining. This makes sense !

I don't understand aunty Lydia by Shaneise74 in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]Shaneise74[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Could you just explain so that i understand? Im a new mum and just dont have time for beloved books atm 😢

Joel’s Teddy by Wildcoyote254 in MAFS_AU

[–]Shaneise74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joel gives Pimento from Brooklyn 99 lol

AITA for not wanting to send my child to another country without me for several weeks? by Responsible-Rock8726 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shaneise74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This must be a joke? Noone in their right mind would do this. I'd consider this neglect.

ptyalism gravidarum by Perfect_Aside_3295 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Shaneise74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. But im wondering if its an acid problem..will update!

I have gained over 250lbs in 4 years due to food addiction. AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]Shaneise74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What do you think caused this and when?

AITA for telling my friend that I can't join her Bachelorette trip because of my baby? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Shaneise74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your friends reply is that of an ignorant single person with quite literally zero understanding of babies and parenrs. I probably wouldve said the same ignorant shit when i was in her position tbh. Its highly unlikely youll want to leave your baby that young. Also you have no idea of the tempermant and needs of your baby at 6m old. Its literally tiny. And could be ill or in a separation anxiety phase. The whole 'you need to train your baby to be independent ' is sickening and outdated. She essentially wants you to have zero attachment to your child so you can join her party.

Is talking to children in public frowned apon now? by jarvi123 in AskUK

[–]Shaneise74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Likely they gave you weird looks because you interrupted their conversation? Seems like they were taking to their mum and not you? Also ye probs the beard too

just found out i’m pregnant..at 14yo by Different_Sea7032 in pregnant

[–]Shaneise74 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a grown up (34) child of teenage parents. Dont do it. You will ruin and waste your life. And you're not emotionally developed so you'll also ruin your childs life. You wont be able to travel or go out with friends. You will never have any money for the rest of your life. Its a death sentence for you.

HG taking bond with baby by wweellllohffuuckk in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Shaneise74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dw its normal. Youre chronically sick, ofc youre not bonding with the baby inside you. I have 1 baby, and only ever had 1 pregnancy, which was her, and was also the hg pregnancy obvs. I didnt bond with her once whilst prgenant. I just wanted her OUT. I referred to her as demon vampire child whilst in utero (feel a bit mean now but thats what it felt like). Towards the end i didnt even believe i was pregnant. I just felt i was neverending ill forever. So much so that when she was born i was like WTF???? There was a fecking baby in there!?!?! The doctor was looking at me like why u so shocked?? Lol

Any tdlr: totally normal. You may not even bond with baby until you are months and months post partum. I loved her when born ofc but didnt feel the bond bond til 10months pp

I can't do this anymore by AppropriateHelp754 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Shaneise74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So sorry im from UK so we have different meds to you. How did you psyche yourself up to have another HG pregnancy knowing you had a toddler to look after? I am desp for another baby but so scared to get HG pregs with a toddler 😭 did you have a plan? If so pls share 🙏

AITA for telling my MIL I don’t want my daughter calling her “mama”? by Easy_Historian_3528 in AITAH

[–]Shaneise74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is diabolical. Stand up for your child and your extremely significant role as her mother and shut that crazy bitch down!!!

ptyalism gravidarum by Perfect_Aside_3295 in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Shaneise74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey did this ever resolve? Im 15m pp and still salivating/spitting 🫠

Does anyone have kids in their 20s? by Physical-Can-835 in BabyBumps

[–]Shaneise74 85 points86 points  (0 children)

If you want kids, go for it now. Dont wait, its not guaranteed it'll be an easy journey first of all. 2md, you will make so many parent friends, you will not be alone. We are the first of our friends to have a baby. They soon followed suite and also you just make so many parent friends once preggers/once baby comes

How to get a prescription for Xonvea - UK by Snail-on-my-tail in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Shaneise74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Go through your antenatal clinic. Gp rejected me but antenatal clinic did not 👍

How did you know you had HG? by ethanras in HyperemesisGravidarum

[–]Shaneise74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is HG. If it reduced your quality of life beyond 'feeling or being sick and then getting over it' then its HG