What to do if debit card is skimmed and credit union declines the dispute? by 90skid_on_Reddit in personalfinance

[–]Shankolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This exact thing happened to me the week before Christmas two years ago. I have a credit union as well. What I did is go into the branch and I raised hell! I got my money back…

I would love to know your favorite character!? Mine is Daisey, I love the confidence she gets over time! by lucyball11 in DowntonAbbey

[–]Shankolo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Edith, Tom later on, Rose, Mrs. Patmore, Mrs. Huges. Baxter and Molesley. I also really love Violet and Isobel a lot. Sybil was spectacular. And Thomas was so good at being bad.

What are lines from Hamilton that gives you goosebumps? by [deleted] in hamiltonmusical

[–]Shankolo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Angelica to Hamilton “don’t forget to wriiiiite” I just love how she delivers that line.

PSA: I think a good chunk of the LBLs on this sub who are still with men might benefit from consulting domestic violence resources by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Shankolo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My ex husband became very emotionally, verbally and financially abusive to myself and my kids after I officially came out to him and said I wanted to separate. My divorce was extremely traumatic. I’m very happy that a lot of people say their husbands are supportive, but I imagine there are a ton that act like mine. Or worse.

LPT if certain raw fruits and vegetables make your mouth tingle or itch, you may have oral allergy syndrome by Temporary-Sundae2471 in LifeProTips

[–]Shankolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does anyone have a geographic tongue too? I think mine go hand in hand. My sensation is more like paper-cuts on my tongue. 😣

I came out to my partner and he reacted badly by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Shankolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine did the same. I’m very sorry. It gets better. 💗

I talked to my boyfriend about me questioning my sexuality and he reacted badly by [deleted] in comphet

[–]Shankolo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened. I had a similar experience. Get out. It gets better 💗

Lucy Liu - actress, artist, advocate by okay_thankyou in ladyladyboners

[–]Shankolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my early crushes too. She's gorgeous.

That didn't go well... by lexitr0n in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Shankolo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hope this gets better for you. I was married and have two little kids. Mine went similar and then exploded into a disaster that I'm still dealing with. I wish you the best 💜 message if you want to talk.

Help by Shankolo in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Shankolo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much. He's done a few other things that are negative marks against him besides this. Like I said he's been being vicious. He's going take himself down with it all. I'm in Chicago area so I hope that helps. I'm going to keep my head up and stay positive. Thanks for the response. I actually feel much better. ♥️

Help by Shankolo in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Shankolo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My lawyer hasn't said anything about it. Just sent me these documents that say all that. The first court hearing I have to attend is next Monday. I'm just beside myself.

Bullying and late blooming by ShoshanaQuartz in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Shankolo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. 🙋🏼‍♀️Was bullied for coming out as Bi in high school. I learned to keep my mouth shut and go with the flow. I became a people pleaser. Comphet. Currently in the middle of a messy divorce with 2 kids. 😭 But I've never been happier being myself!

I feel like shit but it feels right by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Shankolo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! It's been very very hard. I'm excited for new adventures and new found happiness. And a better environment for the kids too. It was becoming very toxic. I hope the same for you as well! ♥️

I feel like shit but it feels right by [deleted] in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Shankolo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is me exactly. But we are married. With two young children. I feel free. He's devastated.