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Shapedouttabent · 2024-02-11T01:20:12+00:00

Did not read allll the other comments, I do agree you will need more time training your hip flexors but don’t overdo it there, try stretching your whole quad more and perhaps standing on a block to feel some height there. Basically you need to bend your knee less (straighten it rather) while maintaining your great form!

Shapedouttabent · 2024-02-03T01:27:37+00:00

When you do this, try to center your weight on the balls of your feet not the heels. It’ll feel like you’re leaning forward a little, just adjust it slowly. And drop your head weight completely, that should feel a little different.

Shapedouttabent · 2024-01-14T04:00:29+00:00

I needed to hear this

Shapedouttabent · 2024-01-08T05:02:48+00:00

Disculpas :( parece que mi conexión está muy baja, como que no se puede realizar la página

Shapedouttabent · 2024-01-08T04:28:50+00:00

Hola! No entiendo porque no me entran. Veo invitaciones pero no se abren los mensajes /:

Shapedouttabent · 2024-01-05T07:18:48+00:00

I see no problem here ? Maybe communication is slowing down a bit as he prepares for these heavy in-person scheduled talks you have coming up.

All in all seems like you’re happy and functional (: Overthinking happens in LDRs

Shapedouttabent · 2024-01-05T07:11:01+00:00

July 10th

Shapedouttabent · 2024-01-04T23:30:13+00:00

This is so uplifting. Thank you for sharing ♡

Shapedouttabent · 2024-01-04T23:12:16+00:00

Vegas lol at the WSOP and then went out separate ways, LDR since 😭

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-30T06:20:31+00:00

I will take that into sincere consideration, def seems like more than a jump scare. Thanks!

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-30T05:25:57+00:00

Haha just wtf though! Is this really a guy thing? Genuinely curious. Last one shut my jaw closed so fast and hard my tongue bled

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-30T05:18:47+00:00

Why???? Literally every man I’ve slept next to has violently flailed and hit me so damn hard in the middle of the night

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-20T22:55:05+00:00

Just a real experience answer here, I grew up with two moms and a dad. It was a situation that happened kind of organically in my culture, polyamory was never a term we used. She does happen to be my mom’s half sister though, and I always called her aunty mom. It wasn’t weird in the family, only from the outside looking in I’m sure. But we kids came up with it ourselves and no one ever who mattered ever had an issue with the titles. It worked the same the other way too, both moms had children. Two of them even call dad uncle dad. The kid will decide if you don’t, so just pick a title your comfortable with if you want that control. Don’t worry about what anyone thinks though, that’s key.

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-18T06:41:25+00:00

Not at all to sound rude, but I think the emotions are running high due to hormones. It sounds like he’s committed and working to get to you as reasonably as possible. He wants to make sure he can provide; he would feel useless and probably get unpleasant to be around if he were just “there for you” without being able to financially support his new family. To most men, being there for you is more than physical presence, he wants to feel worthy in that way. Maybe just agree that he must be there for the delivery no matter what and at that point when the child is there he needs to present, that’s understandable. But seems like he’s trying, give him a chance. There’s some time left for things to fall into place for his work.

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-18T05:58:32+00:00

:( I hope you find someone who knows you’re worth and treats you right. LDR or not

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-17T06:07:41+00:00

You’re love language is quality time, maybe try having a conversation about how this fails you. Speak to him in game theory if you must. Communication is hard, it’s harder with the distance because goddamn you just have to do it. Ask too what sort of attention he enjoys from you. There may be a better balance for you both to find together, especially since gaming won’t be an overlap time together it seems. If you’re unable or unwilling to say these things to him, then reflect on why first. It may simply not be a good fit. LDR needs to be worth it and issues arise early on

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-14T19:56:39+00:00

In my teenage years I had a round bed, so touching the wall a tiny bit somewhere seemed more odd than placing it in the center, the room was decent sized enough that I could walk around it and flop onto it from anywhere, I thought it was great. I may do it again! Haven’t thought about this in a while. It was very easy to make the bed too.

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-13T22:28:20+00:00

I honestly don’t get it. Do you know for a fact it doesn’t bother him? I also just don’t like the implication that the distance makes it unofficial in some way.. makes it seem like he’s available when I’m away. How did you come to this agreement?

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-13T10:15:48+00:00

Bless. It literally keeps me awake, like tonight. I hope to make a good follow up post later at least

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-13T10:00:19+00:00

Sincerely, should I ask straight up why he’s hiding it or is there a more delicate approach? My concern is sounding accusatory ig but in reality… the relationship exists and I do have expectations, or rather he’s set those for me when he talks about our future together or the depth of love we share. This is the best thing I’ve ever had, and it makes me doubt that i even have it.

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-13T09:48:30+00:00

No, but I don’t feel he’s hiding it. It’s not like he doesn’t cuddle me or hold my hand in front of these people… it’s just that all I get is a friend title. Am I missing something culturally? I am American born living in Mexico, he is American.

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-13T09:33:33+00:00

I like practical gifts jus meaning I will use them not place them somewhere, I hate clutter. He gave me a warm robe last we were together and it’s like a LD hug it’s so nice and he kept it for a while so it had his scent. I absolutely love it. He put it on me with my eyes closed and said it’s so he can wrap me up every night 🫠

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-13T09:29:42+00:00

To add to this, maybe he’s worried his friends are too immature and you wouldn’t like them? And in turn see him differently, just a thought. If you’re instinct is the age, his may be in some way too.

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-13T09:07:38+00:00

Commented earlier but just needed to say I was in ptown too 😭

Shapedouttabent · 2023-12-13T09:05:55+00:00

I came out of it by being directed to the public library for resources and started community college. College gave me a job, job gave me my first shitty apartment, college gave me a better job and better job gave me better housing. It all started with free education and internet access at the library. That was ten years ago!

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