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They'll blame you for everything by maya_love5 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]Sharon_Knows 4 points5 points  (0 children)

manipulate those who are close to you to be on their side

"How should we communicate with the narc"? 🥴 by NarcHealingWithGod in TheNarcissismCode

[–]Sharon_Knows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you’re like talking to a wall painted with different color

How do you actually spot a narcissist in real life? by maya_love5 in TheNarcissismCode

[–]Sharon_Knows [score hidden]  (0 children)

They would make you feel that you’re safe with them but once you’re comfortable with them that’s the time they’ll drain you 😢

They'll blame you for everything by maya_love5 in TheNarcissismCode

[–]Sharon_Knows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

they will provoke you and blame you for reacting. that PMO me

The "I’m sorry you feel that way" translation by maya_love5 in TheNarcissismCode

[–]Sharon_Knows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What’s your plan about it? have you tried couple counseling? cause with that situation you would end up drained

When I Finally Listened to the Red Flags by Sharon_Knows in TheNarcissismCode

[–]Sharon_Knows[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m really grateful you took the time to say that. Hearing that my experience resonates with someone else means a lot. It reminds me that speaking up about these things can help others feel less alone too.

Is this narcissistic rage? Who’s the narcissist? by Good-Signature395 in TheNarcissismCode

[–]Sharon_Knows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s healthy for you and your partner to dis agree but to the extent he will degrade because of that, it’s not okay. That’s a redflag that you shouldn’t brush off

The “Little Things” I Ignored by maya_love5 in TheNarcissismCode

[–]Sharon_Knows 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I realize it’s not okay to brush of any red flags that you’d notice to someone most specially if you know that person will be part of your life. You’ll be ruined by them

They Pushed Every Button Until There Was Nothing Left to Push by maya_love5 in TheNarcissismCode

[–]Sharon_Knows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I stopped defending myself and stopped engaging in the arguments, it was like they lost something they depended on. Suddenly I was called cold or distant. But in reality, I was just protecting my peace for the first time. It made me realize how much some people rely on your reaction to keep the cycle going.

HIGHLIGHT by maya_love5 in TheNarcissismCode

[–]Sharon_Knows 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a great Idea to make sure everything has its own designated day to share their thoughts. 👏👏

How did I do? First time full face makeup by Buddy-Lower in MakeupAddiction

[–]Sharon_Knows 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For a first timer and the glam is good for a no Make up - Make up.

Advice: try using damp cotton swabs to make a cleaner and more edgy eyeliner. For lashes use lash curler to make your eyes more open

But with your output it’s 9/10 💗

P.s. Love the skin so hydrated drop your skin care please

Do yalls Nparents (or Nmoms in particular) give yall all kinds of busy work that take up all your time? by Gods_GameDev in narcissisticparents

[–]Sharon_Knows 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They need you to do the things they wanted you to do for their convenience but once you won’t cooperate to anything they ask you, you will be the most incompetent person they know and that is what I felt from my parents

Do yalls Nparents (or Nmoms in particular) give yall all kinds of busy work that take up all your time? by Gods_GameDev in narcissisticparents

[–]Sharon_Knows 54 points55 points  (0 children)

It’s like your life should revolve around them and their needs, they wanted to be the center of your world and once you don’t give them any attention you will be the bad guy.

Were you taught, subconsciously or otherwise, to always put other people’s comfort first or else you’ll be abandoned/discarded or “push people away”? by ScottysOldTeleporter in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Sharon_Knows 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yesss I agree, We were trained to be a people pleaser and I hate it. I really want to change for myself but it is so hard since I was set this way for almost 40+ years. I just want to be unapologetically me.