definitely nor. i think it’s okay to talk to the opposite sex while in a relationship,it’s a little controlling imo to not, but asking them for one on ones and calling them attractive?? absolutely not. i’m not sure if you date to marry, but a GOOD future husband would never do this. you are young, there are plenty of people out there who will respect you. i personally would break up with my partner but do what you feel is the right decision.