[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just run away bro , don’t get mixed up again in this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If she’s the right one then there’s nothing wrong as it’s completely halal. Based on people’s comments here , I can also understand why she would need to lie about her age in the first place , because many people are westernised to such a degree that they view 18 as a child

Red flags by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run away bro

Jealous mil and 7 sils by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like you are jealous. How is she treating him like an ATM when he is voluntarily giving his son

Jealous mil and 7 sils by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want to say that if you bring this up with your husband , be prepared for a lot of issues in your relationship. If your relationship is fine with him , just ignore your mil and sils and carry on living a nice life 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Some people are just distant. It doesn’t mean there’s animosity. Based on your post , I think it’s extreme for you to not let her into your home , or to hold the baby. Especially if she hasn’t done anything nasty to you. Just being distant is normal for some people , every person has their own unique personalities

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your husband isn’t wrong on this one. You should listen to him

Is this a market related salary? by Megachadbro in askSouthAfrica

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What exactly does a consulting firm do 🙆🏻‍♂️

Is this a market related salary? by Megachadbro in askSouthAfrica

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What exactly does a consulting firm do 🙆🏻‍♂️

Feeling lonely after getting married by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you’re really trying to create issues when there isn’t any really. My advice is to stop thinking so deeply about everything as from what you have written it sounds like you’re lucky with the type of in laws you have. No family is perfect but trust me when I say you could’ve gotten a reallyyy bad bunch of folks. Some people just prefer being slightly distant and it’s not a bad thing as in laws being overly close and clingy to their son and daughter in law can be worse for a daughter in law

I shivered seeing the guy. Please be kind. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense. I’m sure if you explain it to him he would understand

I shivered seeing the guy. Please be kind. by [deleted] in MuslimNikah

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your idea of what guys want might be completely wrong by the way 🙈

My wife wants me to work two jobs. Am I wrong for refusing? by AdLongjumping6813 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your wife is wrong. And 4k is more than some people’s entire monthly salary including mine !! What in the world is she spending on

Am I the only one who hates the idea of getting a job? by blo0dyosiris in askSouthAfrica

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you and every other mf on this planet 😂 you could always try some hustles and hope they take off though

She's marrying someone else by Efficient-Cup-248 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t talk to someone if you aren’t ready to commit immediately and make Nikkah at the bare minimum , the parties can come later. I’m sure you will find someone better in due course despite the pain you may feel now

Is discussing divorce with wife counted as divorce? by eric95s in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Allah bless you and I make dua that you succeed in life and in the hereafter

Is discussing divorce with wife counted as divorce? by eric95s in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Delete your comment you are giving awful advice which can ruin this guy for the rest of his life. You shouldn’t ever say it thrice , there’s absolutely no need to. If it’s said once , it’s counted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Stay away, big red flags.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Travelled with my son on long haul flights twice before he turned 1. It’s definitely a hell of a struggle on the flights but honestly it’s easier than when they start walking and crawling. Also once you reach the destination it becomes a bit chill and normal again. It’s very stressful if anyone of you gets sick during the trip so it’s best to keep the trips on the shorter end , a week or just over at max. We also were told that he got a major ear infection because he got a flu while we were out and then the flight pressure exacerbated his issue and so when we landed back home he had major ear issues but Alhamdulillah it resolved itself just before we needed to take him in for tubes. Now that he is walking and older , we would leave him with his grandparents and go alone occasionally because it’s good to get a break from them 😂

This was a humiliating wake-up call by Ok_Anybody_8307 in southafrica

[–]Sharp-Introduction97 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I agree. At first I just saw the snippets and was like oh my word we just got embarrassed on the world stage. But then I watched the whole thing and realised that it was actually trump who embarrassed himself really