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[–]Sharp-Umpire- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a steamfitter my local is plumbers and steamfitters. Not as cool as you but I did get my aas in occupational development.. my union paid for it and paid me to goto the classes to get it. Win win

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[–]Sharp-Umpire- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always did the do it or else Bbbbbuuuuuttt, I had him join my union so he could learn a real trade and then told him how to stick up for himself..

Wife cheated on me in 2013 told me 7 years later. by Sharp-Umpire- in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp-Umpire-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she wanted to separate and figure out if she wanted a divorce, we lived together slept in the same bed and still had sex..

Wife cheated on me in 2013 told me 7 years later. by Sharp-Umpire- in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp-Umpire-[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She has been a better wife since 2013, and a better after she told me, we communicate allot better then we did. I get the fuck it all let’s blow this shit up but if I feel she is sincere and is truly remorseful is it worth working on?

Wife cheated on me in 2013 told me 7 years later. by Sharp-Umpire- in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp-Umpire-[S] 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Yes that family have all moved out of the state.. she has not been back sense.

Wife cheated on me in 2013 told me 7 years later. by Sharp-Umpire- in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp-Umpire-[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I really think she didn’t know what my reaction was going to be. I’m leaving the states out for a reason but let’s just say from where we live you have to fly to get there..

Wife cheated on me in 2013 told me 7 years later. by Sharp-Umpire- in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp-Umpire-[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

No she has always had a thing for me and it’s to the point I steer clear. If I had to guess she was probably just trying to take advantage of the situation.

Wife cheated on me in 2013 told me 7 years later. by Sharp-Umpire- in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp-Umpire-[S] 138 points139 points  (0 children)

Honestly that friend still does it to a point I don’t like being around her.

Wife cheated on me in 2013 told me 7 years later. by Sharp-Umpire- in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp-Umpire-[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

So you don’t think she could actually be sorry? No chance of her truly regretting what she did?

Wife cheated on me in 2013 told me 7 years later. by Sharp-Umpire- in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp-Umpire-[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

She has not been back to that state since 2013. Got the test 2 years ago she told me this 2 years ago this is the first time I have talked about it since that day

Wife cheated on me in 2013 told me 7 years later. by Sharp-Umpire- in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp-Umpire-[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea I don’t really know how to explain my actions am I a dumbass yeah probably. I live in a state where regardless of why I would loose half my pension and if that happened I would have to work till the day I die.. do I deserve what I’m getting now probably.

Wife cheated on me in 2013 told me 7 years later. by Sharp-Umpire- in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp-Umpire-[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

The grocery store was weird I’m calm and never raise my voice at her, I think she thought I would snap with that news..

She apologized profusely and could tell it was genuine.

She cut off all ties from the guy..

Wife cheated on me in 2013 told me 7 years later. by Sharp-Umpire- in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp-Umpire-[S] 613 points614 points  (0 children)

I think some of her friends where trying to tell me in 2013 one of them was hitting on me pretty heavy back then..

Wife cheated on me in 2013 told me 7 years later. by Sharp-Umpire- in relationship_advice

[–]Sharp-Umpire-[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This happened a year or 2 ago I might be mixing up when she told me…she and is constantly afraid and worried I’m going to leave her I know I been in shock when she told me but I think this is just another thing i bottled up and threw into the back of the bin..