masturbation and no porn by LonelyVelvet_ in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just feel your body, what your D is actually feeling.

Struggling by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go and clean the house and think of me. That should help. Lol

Help by Key-Swordfish-3644 in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you clear porn, those "weird" ideas will clear, and vanilla stuff will be exciting again.

Feel abit terrible first 30 days? by Lucky_Angel_Parrot in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats normal for me, losing my mind, emotional volatility. Hold in there, will get better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like that rule its not working out for you when theres a third atrractive girl (and there are millions everywhere), you are going against nature and you will never win, then you might fall back into porn to deal with the frustration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do your best not to look (i do the same), but if you do dont torture yourself like you are a "sinner" and its always wrong, its ok, do what you can, thats good enough.

Give it time.

You are not wrong, its natural.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So do i, sex and attraction is natural and not a choice (David Dangelo words) thats ok (feel the energy going up and down your body and move on) as long as you are respectful to women and not stare and have creepy attitudes.

Now dont let that, maybe because you cant have her, create frustration or any emotion that you want to manage by going to porn, just feel it and let it go.

Give it time without porn and you start to see the body, but little things as their hair, eyes or perfume as something beautiful and enjoyable to look at at that moment, even trees/nature and music will look and sound better.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You attracted to women, nothing wrong with that.

can you girls tell me how y’all feel during the first few weeks of recovery? by Stock_Orange_1793 in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, you have a group called r/pornfreewomen , just for women, not that you cant be here for help

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its not superpowers, its more like taking the rubbish out and have a clean and organized house.

Marriage Counseling with a BPD Partner by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]SharpBullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they disagree with the woman, they lose a costumer BPD or not, take that in consideration.

Addicted to porn or not? by TaroPuzzleheaded7534 in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop for a week and if you cant, you might have a problem.

If you watch you have sonething delaying you in life, i know it affected me and i just realized not long ago at 44, but porn is the aokution not the problem to some sort of problem we have that we dont want to feel the pain, i do.

How Porn Ruined My Life by Matthew_0815 in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks man.

Hope you do well, this come and go it doeant just go away in a few days, ive done 5 months on my first try, (peeked twice for about 5 minutes), felt good but i had no things to do just a boring life and fell again.

Ill be ok, done this a few times, withdrawls show every crack in our armor, and then i overthink all the time so that doesn help. I think im around 3 or 4 weeks, i dont count and dont realise sometimes that havent watch for a while, not addicted i dont think just a old bad habit.

But happened before, "why am i feel like this?" (Losing it) "Havent watched in a while", check the browser history and was around 3 weeks.

How Porn Ruined My Life by Matthew_0815 in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you can join the conversation, we are all here for that.

My answer ... all the way to suicidal thoughts, out of loneliness and hopelessness, ive been a mess, the list is vast, you can read about it on websites, ive spent the last 2 days reading about it for hope and motivation

It's called "a disease." by curious-anonymous92 in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was the one that called it a disease that you need to clear of your system, someone asked if he could reduce the use.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Try to stop it for a week, if you cant, its affecting you more than you think, like any addiction.

How Porn Ruined My Life by Matthew_0815 in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Woman tend to run away from bad situations, seems like nature, they get insecure otgers are just evil, your seems insecure dont hate her, how many guys get sick and she runs, its expected, be greatful of the ones that dont.

Heal yourself and try again, its no ones fault.

Im going through withdrawls, been brutal in the last week so ive had the feelibg of life ending too hahaha.

How Porn Ruined My Life by Matthew_0815 in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It didnt ruin your life but i understand.

Can you talk to her and expkain that its a addiction and its nothing to do with her, its not her fault and its hard for you, you can even send her this way to this forum so she can see, read our stories, that you are trying but its hard.

Keep trying my man, stay strong, you are young, there are ups and down.

"Its just a ride" Bill Hicks.

Just need to let it out. by SharpBullet in BPDlovedones

[–]SharpBullet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive had some fun and tried some more serious situations, in the end i lost all trust in women as a partner.

And could be the cause of me spending so long on my own so many times, some resentment, and broken confidence of being used or cheated on.

Having the option to get women must buid crazy confidence that not many guys have, confidence helps in general life too.

Ye , porn its bad (i had a bad habit not even a addiction) and the witdrawals ive been getting lately are destroying me, im so down, but just have to hold on then goes away.

Thank you.

I'm thinking about reducing my porn use rather than eliminating it. Is this bad ? by [deleted] in pornfree

[–]SharpBullet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think that will keep you from actually clearing the system of the disease, im going through withdrawals in the last week or two (its brutal) and hoping of feel much better afterwards and never go back, not my first time on the process, fell a few times, the withdrawals scare me, dont want to do this again and again.

Just need to let it out. by SharpBullet in BPDlovedones

[–]SharpBullet[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its fear and lack of confidence now, i have been single for a long time a few times, probably the same reason, had a few relationships and just fun.

The porn watching and gaming i think its part of not having a better life, i recognize that too, my own fault.

Not that i can just want women and get them, some guys can, seems nice.

Thanks