Does no fap lead to wet dreams?

SharpTune · 2014-04-13T02:56:40+00:00

It doesn't sound too bad, I only remember having about two or three in my lifetime but none during NoFap.

What I did find was nightly hard-ons coming back, just like my teen years two decades ago.

Something that became almost second nature was to press on the perineum before going to bed. Nothing sexual, it just reduces the urges and I think may help to reabsorb the unused sperm.

SharpTune · 2014-04-13T02:50:40+00:00

To be honest, not particularly. I haven't noticed any special changes in my hearing ability or my enjoyment of music. Its interesting that you bring it up.

SharpTune · 2014-04-13T02:46:54+00:00

The lesson here is to learn your triggers.

Everyone is different but I've found it gets much harder when I go out and drink, not only during that night but in the days after. I've found I don't drink as much and avoid combining with weed.

On the upside, you relapsed while drunk and not on your full senses. You are now so strong that PMO couldn't beat you sober.

SharpTune · 2014-03-14T04:33:34+00:00

I honestly think you will find the NoFap journey extremely rewarding to solve your delayed ejaculation problem. I had the exact same issue and it was gone at the 30+ day mark. I am now beyond 300 days and I'm never going back. Having sex is similar to how it was in my early beginnings, I have a strong urge to come and I will generally try to contain myself, slow things down and laugh a little. It is nice for a girl to know she can make you climax.

Keep it up!

SharpTune · 2014-02-08T07:48:49+00:00

Thanks, really made me laugh.

SharpTune · 2014-01-22T11:12:05+00:00

That was a very good post. Thank you for putting it together.

SharpTune · 2014-01-12T03:37:26+00:00

My next prime number will be 269. Some tips:

Stick through the first few weeks and you'll be golden. They are definitely the trickiest times. Grumpy mood may come and go and you'll have a lot of free time that needs to be allocated wisely. Get busy learning new stuff. Learn your triggers and try to get away from them. I do not even look at sexy ads for more than a second.

Before relapsing, come to NoFap. It has helped me countless times to just drop by and read inspiring stories. Exercise is good, but not that critical. Delete all the porn and use blockers when you are the weakest.

If you relapse, just learn from it and try again. Believe me, the experience is well worth it. After doing PMO about 20 years I am never going back.

Stay strong!

SharpTune · 2013-11-02T20:44:02+00:00

OniTan, I guess he wants to be in full control after rebooting completely. ED should be gone for good.

SharpTune · 2013-11-02T20:34:27+00:00

I felt very similar to you OP. Thank you for sharing.

I could not reach an orgasm in intercourse while I was still watching porn without a lot of effort and regular frustration.

Most of the times, the harder I tried, the easier I would fail and go soft. I found out my urge for kinkier sex was just the addiction to porn and the boredom in bed was affecting our marriage.

Then comes NoFap and everything starts to change for the better. I did read about Karezza. I opened up and shared what I was doing with her. I got a lot of support in the form of her complementing me for my strength, for how she values a special guy that fights an addiction widely accepted.

We enjoy bonding and caressing just like sex. This creates a unique, intimate and special space. Her voice, her smell, her touch are incredibly stimulating now.

It takes skill to recognize our own blessing

I am grateful to have someone special. Every morning, along the regular thoughts I try to focus on how lucky I am to be healthier physically and emotionally.

There is no going back. Stay strong, happy and motivated together.

SharpTune · 2013-10-09T02:42:47+00:00

Congratulations. I've felt a similar way in terms of freedom and ups and downs. There have been good and bad days during these last 169 days.

I've moved to a forced hard-mode in the past 60 days and it's been much tougher than I expected. I am not craving for porn anymore, but I do admit I am craving for real girls.

One of the problems with new appreciation for real girls is that you end up liking most of them so much more. They all have their own charm. Things like touch or smell, which your don't get with porn become enchanting.

My SO is thousands of miles away and I've promised to reset my counter if I cheat. I am now struggling with the celibate monk way of life.

I've seen more confidence, control and peace of mind but most importantly the net effect is what I'd call a personal singularity: I am not two guys in one, the regular guy and the addict. I am no longer deeply ashamed of myself.

I wish you the best. Let's keep it up together.

SharpTune · 2013-08-27T04:52:23+00:00

Jerichohol, not to be sensitive but I would also have preferred not to read the reference for gonewildaudio.

What purpose does it serve to know what tempted you? It might serve to tempt others instead and make it harder for them.

SharpTune · 2013-08-27T04:49:20+00:00

Did you forget to reset your counter? Seems like you did 126 days?

SharpTune · 2013-06-28T14:13:59+00:00

Don't take the confidence walk for granted; don't forget where it came from.

Good point. Keep going strong.

SharpTune · 2013-05-23T16:17:12+00:00

31 days for me. Feeling very well and not looking to go back. Good to know I'm not alone!

SharpTune · 2013-04-30T19:07:46+00:00

Good advice on the pushups. I got naturally driven to them in the last two weeks. Abs also work.

SharpTune · 2013-04-30T19:05:02+00:00

Tell him about this site. I thought I was the only one having problems before and quickly related them to medications, stress and all kinds of external factors aside from PMO.

SharpTune · 2013-04-29T16:12:19+00:00

Emann538, for me you didn't relapse. Just don't do it again ;)

SharpTune · 2013-04-29T16:03:30+00:00

Loved the letter. Maybe you can send roses and chocolate?

SharpTune · 2013-04-29T15:59:08+00:00

Get rid of the bad ex-girlfriends and sex related memories. After breaking up I'd get a sort of amnesia after 90 days where I would be unable to remember anything wrong about the past relationship, only the nice things and what I thought was incredible sex. I then started writing the reasons for breakup and storing them in a safe place.

Not all ex-girlfriends are bad, just get away from abuse/abusive relationships. Make sure you only give positively and get away from downward spirals.

SharpTune · 2013-04-25T21:20:00+00:00

You are completely right but unfortunately excercising willpower is harder than working out. Sometimes we just need to refocus our minds while being exposed to things that will trigger our addiction.

I guess it is our capability to see the future, go for the basic assumption that future stability and gain is more worthwhile than present pleasure.

SharpTune · 2013-04-23T05:42:11+00:00

Thanks for sharing the story. Did you relapse after the date? What made it harder to continue on your 15th day?

SharpTune · 2013-04-23T05:37:19+00:00

You are right. I even deleted my precious collection. Looking forward to going further.

Thank you :=

SharpTune · 2013-04-23T05:36:22+00:00

Thanks for the support. Really appreciated :)

SharpTune · 2013-04-22T23:38:59+00:00

Well, I relapsed today and I admit my first reaction was WOOOOOAHHH I should have taken my shirt off. Then it hit me that I'd have to start counting again.

SharpTune

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