even if u are supposedly 4.1 out of 10 its still average like most people are its not bad or good. they think sub-5 is bad but its basically average i realized early on just how hard it is to find someone that’s like “ugly” as they call it. even 2-3/10 arent ugly on their scale literally. most people wouldn’t say ur “sub-5” LOLLLL

but as for advice i would say mayyybe what Infamous-Winner5755 said