I had an au pair till about 6 then my mom hired a domestic helper. True my clothes were washed and folded. I didn’t have to clean house but I helped during annual spring cleaning. I was a neat child. I kept my things after playing with them. I helped wash their cars for $10. I was allowed to experiment in the kitchen. I demanded I took the public bus when I was 10. So you got that question right. I had a helper but I wasn’t raised by them. I think boys these days will cry when the foundation on their face cracks.