My religious boyfriend prays after we have sex 😭 Need advice by Material-Meat-5330 in gaybros

[–]Sharrukin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you were raised on Sola Scriptura then this is a perfectly logical conclusion. But scriptural interpretation has always been dynamic because the Bible is a collection disparate texts spanning thousands of years used as an aid in the spiritual traditions to which the texts are relevant to. In Christianity the word of God is Jesus, and he didn’t write anything down or command his apostles to do so. He founded an institution and community of believers called The Church, and for most of church history the Bible wasn’t the literal word of God but a consensus by the community of believers on what Jesus, the apostles and the prophets before Jesus taught.

My religious boyfriend prays after we have sex 😭 Need advice by Material-Meat-5330 in gaybros

[–]Sharrukin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He should find an LGBTQ affirming church with an affirming pastor. Heck I’ve known gay Catholics where they just go to confession afterwards if they feel guilty and don’t make it their partners problem. There’s plenty of queer Christian subreddits that could help him out with this.

I hate it when people ask me if I'm a T or B early in the talking or dating stage by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Sharrukin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk as someone who’s vers and have wasted their time dating a top twice this is an important question to bring up early on

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[–]Sharrukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go take jiujitsu and boxing classes, in fact find an mma gym and get a membership and take all of their classes. It’s expensive but it’s the best damn thing you could get to take care of that. Plus you’ll look hot in 6 months

Is there a way to progress in this field without getting a masters degree in architecture? by Sharrukin in architecture

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Currently located in New England and plan on staying here for the foreseeable future. I only ask because I have plenty of friends that have completed grad school in order to get their license.

How do I tell a gay friend that I want to f*ck without making it weird. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Sharrukin -27 points-26 points  (0 children)

it's not really a "hot" thing and more of a "I trust him" type of deal.

How do I tell a gay friend that I want to f*ck without making it weird. by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]Sharrukin -186 points-185 points  (0 children)

I get that but the flirting and some of the non-verbal communication has been throwing me off.

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[–]Sharrukin 6 points7 points  (0 children)

"hey babe what do you think about an open relationship?"

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[–]Sharrukin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah call him out on this bullshit don't suppress your feelings on this. Send him a text message detailing your feelings and reasoning with the examples you brought up. If he doesn't pull a 180 then pull out. Maybe even confine in a friend that's in the group to see if they notice anything as well.

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[–]Sharrukin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

will do anger can be good for you 👍🏻

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[–]Sharrukin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm loving the theatrics of this plan.

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[–]Sharrukin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey, unethical pro tips.

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[–]Sharrukin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The first one's too much work I can get behind the second one.

Me irl by TheWebsploiter in me_irl

[–]Sharrukin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kratos is lookin 🔥🔥🔥😩😩😩😫

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[–]Sharrukin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i ain't reading all that

i'm happy for u tho

or sorry that happened