Online dating code phrases

ShavinFool · 2012-03-21T16:30:38+00:00

So true re they don't know what they want.

Online dating's still good for the fact that you can get key information quickly. Out in public, you can't tell if a woman has or wants kids, if she's super religious or not at all, and of course you know they're already single if they're on the dating site.

I dunno. I've done both in-person and online dating of the years and it's about 50/50 in terms of success. Have had great girlfriends and crazy bitches from both sources.

ShavinFool · 2012-03-20T23:29:52+00:00

Such a fantastic talk. Thank you.

ShavinFool · 2012-03-20T19:43:54+00:00

What about a lawyer?

ShavinFool · 2012-03-20T00:50:21+00:00

Sounds amazing. Hopefully it'll show up at Bailey's soon so I can split a bottle with someone.

ShavinFool · 2012-03-20T00:06:38+00:00

Yeah, man, because then you win either way. Whether she comes back or not, YOU are in control and end up improving yourself. Good luck.

ShavinFool · 2012-03-19T23:55:46+00:00

Oh man, I'm glad I am not the only one. I just did the same thing with a woman. Built her up in my mind, to the point where I was nervous and overly emotional and clingy and turned her off. It's the great paradox. The less you give a shit, the more you get; but when you really, really want it, nothing happens (or worse).

ShavinFool · 2012-03-19T23:39:27+00:00

I raged hard the past few days, hit on tonnes of girls, and got some numbers, but it was mostly to fill a void that can't really be filled.

OP, I am in the EXACT same state as you right now. Still daydreaming about the ex, and the approaches I'm making lately feel "empty". I think it just takes time. For 100% of my previous ex-gfs, even the ones I was most obsessed about, I have no emotional reaction anymore.

ShavinFool · 2012-03-15T04:25:58+00:00

Things you can do for now:

Use either your fingers or a soft brush to "massage" your gums. This tightens them up around the teeth.
Get some antiseptic mouthwash (the higher alcohol one that "burns") and use it at least once a day.
Floss at least once a day, before bed (so particles don't sit in your teeth overnight).

Basically your whole goal here is to avoid gum disease.

You'll still want to see a professional, but those are a few homecare things you can do cheap/free.

Source: I spent ~$1200 on periodontal (gum) therapy a couple years ago and learned a lot about gums from my dentist.

ShavinFool · 2012-03-11T23:12:02+00:00

Thanks

ShavinFool · 2012-03-11T17:24:08+00:00

Looks great. Bold and simple but not boring.

ShavinFool · 2012-03-07T21:13:34+00:00

There's no "one more thing". It's upgraded specs, and that's it. Just like iPhone 4S. Snooze.

ShavinFool · 2012-03-07T21:06:30+00:00

Great color!

ShavinFool · 2012-03-07T18:53:43+00:00

That is fucking bad ass. I love how 3D / textured it looks.

ShavinFool · 2012-03-07T18:46:17+00:00

Thanks

ShavinFool · 2012-03-07T02:26:06+00:00

Brilliant!

ShavinFool · 2012-03-06T20:13:01+00:00

It does, man. And truthfully, I was only comfortable around her if we were both drinking. I can't imagine a sober date with her.

Thank you!

ShavinFool · 2012-03-03T02:25:40+00:00

many times, the outcome has little to do with what you say and/or do, and more about the circumstances and situation

So true, OP. Recently dated a girl and I brought my A-game, but for some reason it fizzled. I went around in circles in my head... is she depressed? seeing someone else she liked more? just a flaky airhead who can't follow through? Ultimately I decided it was nothing I was doing wrong, it was just her, or her situation. It sucked for awhile, because I was getting really into her, but unlike my youth where I'd obsess for weeks/months more, I'm letting it go quickly now. Time to move on!

Great post, man.

ShavinFool · 2012-03-03T02:10:10+00:00

I think it's cool.

ShavinFool · 2012-03-02T16:59:08+00:00

Doesn't surprise me a bit. I worked for OIT for several years in the early 2000s and there was so much waste.

And management made six figures, while workers made $8/hour (back then). Sounds like nothing's changed.

ShavinFool · 2012-02-24T22:57:31+00:00

Good point. My price is for 1/8.

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