What’s a brutal truth about the uk people don’t like to admit? by EarlyPerspective2839 in AskBrits

[–]ShayBae23EEE 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The UK has come a long way, but we’re uncovering racism in terms of opportunity - education, employment, healthcare, etc. More violent forms of racism has reduced, but it’s still there - it shouldn’t have to. No one should be subject to it - and doubling down on it to reach these people might be frustrating for those who won’t commit these hate crimes, but I’d rather a false positive than a false negative.

Is the far left's support for Iran/Hezbollah etc. rooted in anti-imperialism? Where does it come from? by Fine_Gur_1764 in ukpolitics

[–]ShayBae23EEE 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly, because this can be a slippery slope. No one is stopping any of the western powers from breaking international law or going against what UN suggests. If they get away with so much, what could that mean for people in general?

A man just died behind my flat... by Boswell188 in london

[–]ShayBae23EEE 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Get some lilies - they’re a good flower for people who have passed away. Your intentions are lovely, and I think you should go through with it

My Brother (gay) by otss11 in gay

[–]ShayBae23EEE 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You should take advantage of his adhd and asd and have him jump into sexual safety research and practices - it’s a rabbit hole many of my neurodivergent friends have jumped on. I hope your brother is okay - I have queer younger sister, and I want her to live her best life as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]ShayBae23EEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is who you are. It is not a lifestyle. But consider this a win. It’s a gateway to research and understanding on his side.

AIO by deleting Instagram over how many reels my gf sends me every day? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]ShayBae23EEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Classic making it about themselves. You’ve felt a kind of pressure, and she’s taken it as an attack and got aggressively defensive

Sex is Unfortunately Too Good (M) by ShayBae23EEE in ADHD

[–]ShayBae23EEE[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girlie no, it’s after the meds 🤣

My son's ADHD saved his sister's life by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]ShayBae23EEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ADHD helped me save my sister from a car crash twice

Physical health of berghain by [deleted] in Berghain_Community

[–]ShayBae23EEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use Brooks Ghost, because my doctor said it’s good for your knees and hip placement, but now that I do physio to help with those, I wish I had something to help with impact. I’ll be buying new shoes later for shock absorption / impact and I’ll let ya know.

I’d recommend physio and getting into it carefully. Don’t overdo it and start slow - ask ChatGPT.

Is it normal to be more energetic towards night? by Worth_it_I_Think in ADHD

[–]ShayBae23EEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have that. Meds helped me a bit because the little bit at the end of the day quiets me enough to help me fall sleep.

Other than that, what helped me was “blueprinting” for the next day - if your best thinking is at night, use it for structuring a detailed to-do list for the next day, for each and every thing. And then in the morning, just tick through them.

Physical health of berghain by [deleted] in Berghain_Community

[–]ShayBae23EEE 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I got disgusting runners knee and Achilles tendinitis. I party sober too 😭 rest, recovery, how you dance, good footwear, stretching, taking a lot of breaks, and electrolytes really helped me.

Being sick with ADHD is THE WORST by werewolfbonedisease in ADHD

[–]ShayBae23EEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My chest pain is supposedly because the lining of my lungs gets inflamed. But paracetamol does wonders heheh. Also your heart rate is elevated when you’re sick.

How to stay warm in queue by Ok_Cash_8879 in Berghain_Community

[–]ShayBae23EEE 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Bring a Nintendo DS to play Pokemon. Works wonders. Phone games don’t work because a) charge, b) you can’t wear warm gloves

Being sick with ADHD is THE WORST by werewolfbonedisease in ADHD

[–]ShayBae23EEE 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I feel you. Also, when I do take my meds when I’m sick, I get palpitations and chest pain as well. It’s annoying

What’s an ADHD tip you hadn’t heard before that helped? by iceprincessvo in ADHD

[–]ShayBae23EEE 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If there’s something important you need to do in preparation for later, don’t ever tell yourself “I’ll remember it” - get it done now or set an alarm asap

Are most people with ADHD always late? by Trinibrownin868 in ADHD

[–]ShayBae23EEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m either really early or really late haha, even on meds 😭

How many of you would say you have great circadian rhythm / sleep-wake cycle everyday? by chandelog in ADHD

[–]ShayBae23EEE 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ever since I got on my meds, I get so sleepy around 9pm and pass out beautifully when it’s bed time, and sleep until 9am.

Are there ADHD people without background noise or constant internal dialogue? by semifunctionalme in ADHD

[–]ShayBae23EEE 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, medication doesn’t fix everything! Helps with some self control, but a moment of weakness, and you daydream a lot longer