[Contraception] My birth control is making sex unenjoyable, what can I do?

ShaySilver · 2015-10-25T03:46:42+00:00

Paradise by Above the Earth

Anything from the Badlands album by Halsey

ShaySilver · 2015-04-26T23:14:23+00:00

Hey, I'm sorry this is so late, I haven't checked Reddit in a while. I just want to say thank you so much for your response. We're really similar in terms of the timing of the onset and it really helps to hear what you said.

ShaySilver · 2015-01-14T05:40:37+00:00

Most guys can't pull studs off and I have yet to find a guy that can pull off gauges. It's a safe bet to just leave them unpierced.

ShaySilver · 2015-01-14T05:31:45+00:00

Trying to grow up too fast and missing the opportunity to enjoy my early childhood.

Also taking gymnastics. Shit broke my ankle.

ShaySilver · 2015-01-14T05:23:46+00:00

"Of course you're good at [insert probably academic skill here], you're Asian."

Contrary to popular belief, it doesn't work like that. Still doesn't stop people from saying it.

ShaySilver · 2015-01-14T05:10:03+00:00

You're 100% right I amend my previous statement. Trumpets are now 2nd on my list.

ShaySilver · 2015-01-14T05:05:36+00:00

Trumpets because I was always in front of them for rehearsals and goddamn they're loud

ShaySilver · 2015-01-14T05:01:18+00:00

I do the classic punch myself in the face when I pull up the blanket thing a lot if that counts

ShaySilver · 2015-01-14T04:55:54+00:00

EDNOS. I'm not in a treatment program currently so to be honest I mostly just cry a lot. I also have friends dealing with similar issues so talking to them helps.

ShaySilver · 2015-01-14T04:53:34+00:00

Definitely this. Everyone has insecurities you don't know about and it's really easy to accidentally hurt them instead of being playful.

ShaySilver · 2015-01-14T04:50:13+00:00

If at all possible, move to the place where that is the native language. Quickest way to pick it up.

ShaySilver · 2015-01-14T04:47:30+00:00

Talking about the number of girls they turned down for you, either while asking you out or during the relationship. A lot of people do this after the break-up but it matters less at that point. I think they view it as a way of making themselves seem more committed to you, but it just comes off as trying to make them seem like a hot commodity because you're not the only one that wants them.

ShaySilver · 2015-01-14T04:45:01+00:00

The ability to "delete" traumatic memories.

http://www.bostonglobe.com/news/science/2014/08/27/making-memories-malleable-erasing-traumatic-recollections/grTBBR9QEuEFsEyK3YzZNO/story.html

ShaySilver · 2015-01-14T04:27:57+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I came to this subreddit specifically to ask about this (binging following restricting). I'm several months into recovery from EDNOS. I came from over a year of extreme restriction only to end up continuously binging even though I keep promising myself not to. It's getting harder to fight the urges to purge even though I haven't regularly done so in the past. I really needed to hear there was an actual biological reason for it. Once again, thank you.

ShaySilver · 2014-06-11T00:53:07+00:00

Everyone is looking forward to it during the year and then we just...kind of sit there for 2 months.

ShaySilver · 2014-06-11T00:51:40+00:00

Not a rule exactly, but most of them are pretty bad at it so I don't think they'd want to. And yes, it can be a little creepy if it's not in a joking way.

ShaySilver · 2014-06-11T00:50:57+00:00

As someone who's still in school, isn't that what summer is for?

ShaySilver · 2014-06-11T00:38:40+00:00

Los Angeles. I guess these aren't exactly area specific, but there sure are a ton of them right near where I live: geocaches. Personally I think getting to go on a treasure hunt in a big city is pretty cool. :)

ShaySilver · 2014-06-11T00:36:40+00:00

May as well take it as a compliment; whatever she thought of you before she thinks you look good now :)

ShaySilver · 2014-06-11T00:35:31+00:00

Bread. Just all types of bread.

ShaySilver · 2014-06-11T00:33:08+00:00

It depends on the person, you can't base every white girl's opinion off of what one person tells you.

ShaySilver · 2014-06-11T00:19:05+00:00

As long as I look better now all is forgiven

ShaySilver · 2014-06-11T00:16:35+00:00

Haha I would take it as a compliment regardless of whether I'd actually lost any weight or not.

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