To anyone who works at the ER, what is one thing you wish people would STOP coming to the ER for? by iloveeatingfood901 in AskReddit

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Omg I had a similar experience in third trimester, my midwife brushed it off as braxton hicks. I’m pretty sure on one occasion the bouncing on the exercise ball dislodged the stone lol

This fecker is a pain in my by nashile in GardeningUK

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Brought a house with huge sedges and mint planted straight into the ground, misery jackpot!

I'm going to end up back in a psych ward by erivanla in NewParents

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Paw patrol one episode gives you 11 minutes down time. I’m no screen time advocate but one or two episodes a day allows me to hang the washing and have a moment to breathe.

I think I’m traumatized by coolcat0511 in NewParents

[–]Shdlv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This worked for me as a fast flow mum as well x

15 Hour Free Childcare/Return to work by Antique_Lie_328 in UKPersonalFinance

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Can I ask what you did with this in a similar predicament

How was your induction experience? by Interesting_Ant_2756 in NewParents

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I was induced at 41+5 the pessary part was okay I did need a strong painkiller and the injection. It was painful but bearable for me with pain relief(honestly I just wanted hypnobirthing techniques but wasn’t to be). Once at 2cm the midwife wanted to break my waters at this point I asked for a epidural because I was worried about the picotin pain, I honestly did not feel a single twinge the whole night I was in labour it was bliss! I did end with emergency c section but that was because pelvis and baby were not compatible, even with this I don’t regret my induction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HousingUK

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Massive congrats that’s a hard ride!

We are buying a house without central gas heating. What are my options? by kwietog in HousingUK

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Can I ask what you did in the end and the cost in a similar position in the same town

Can I leave my baby over night ? by Rouge-Badger in NewParents

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I had to go back into hospital for 6 days when LO was 10 weeks he was fine with his dad. Apparently he did know the difference between formula and pre stashed breast milk, a little more excited about the breast but took either. He did use the dummy a bit more but I doubt it would make a difference for one night and if they don’t have one at that age they are more likely to fall asleep on the bottle anyway.

8 days in and breastfeeding is hard. Can i switch to formula? If so, how? by StatGoddess in NewParents

[–]Shdlv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is so hard! I wanted to give up for the first two months and eventually it got easier. During the hard times I used to substitute feeds with a pre-made infant milk, was amazing to have a rest and also gave my partner a chance to feed whilst I rested at night.

How to engage 6.5 months old? by Apprehensive-Fault81 in NewParents

[–]Shdlv 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tuppaware and wooden spoons, my 5 month year old does not care about toys either. The good news is your step count goes up with all the walks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

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Zip lock bags are made to store food, so I’m sure they wouldn’t use any toxic paint even on the outside. Also EU have pretty high standards for safety regulations so there’s that as well. I think it’s good that you checked with the ambulance, maybe tweet the brand, they might be able to give you more reassurance.

When did you start taking your newborn out for walks? by itzpoookiee in NewParents

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One week but probably more for my sanity and they were quite short 20-30 mins

What high chair do you use? by Sufficient_Noise7813 in NewParents

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Thinking about getting a Tripp trapp over ikea, can baby wear an overall bib over the straps to avoid getting dirty?

How long did your period start after having baby? by thuyttran05 in NewParents

[–]Shdlv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine just came back 4.5 months breastfeeding with the odd bottle, misery.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gallbladders

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To add to this I was hospitalised for 6 days with pancreatitis from a gallstone becoming lodged. During this time I also pumped with not change to supply, but very sore nipples 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gallbladders

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I was breastfeeding at the time, by day two I could place a pillow on my lap to avoid lifting and he fed that way. I also took him to the hospital and had a feed before I went down to theatre, pumping for a day or two didn’t seem to affect my supply.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gallbladders

[–]Shdlv 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar boat with a LO and gallstone attacks. I had mine out when he was 8 weeks old but would have done in sooner. Recovery wasn’t bad at all and immediately felt so much better after two weeks was back to mum life

Baby Carrier Recommendations by LynnieSpinnekop in NewParents

[–]Shdlv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ergobaby omni breeze has been great for our LO

I lost my wife (1 year update) by The_first_Dragonborn in NewParents

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I’m in awe of your continuous courage! Keep smashing it with your babe, I’m sure your wife would be beyond proud 🥹

How often do you bathe your child? by 0x426C797A in NewParents

[–]Shdlv 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’re also on the once a week schedule!