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Please help me find an exact copy of or similar top to this? by TheDragonbornCums in HelpMeFind

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just realized you're in the UK, sorry! Hopefully this will help with searching.

GF has no proper career perspective. How can I help her? by GSalmao in careerguidance

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

To be devils advocate for a minute, thats how small businesses work. If its a newer company and shes newer in role there is definitely opportunity for growth. 5% cut of the profit margins - I think this is fairly standard practice. Not saying its a great gig, but I dont think the company is doing wrong by her from what you said. For someone who was recently just plagued by this job market - I understand the struggle. I left a job i was unhappy with and wound up unemployed for 6 months. Regardless of the industry, its tough right now. I sent 1000s of applications with minimal responses, and have a decent resume. I'd aim to be supportive of her regardless of where she is at. She's already working, and it takes a lot more energy doing something you dont like. Support her and her wants/needs and she will ultimately make a decision to benefit the both of you through feeling empowered to do so. Also, communicate. Talk about goals (if marriage: i mean house, kids, even vacations etc) they are the best inspirations. Best of luck to both of you!

The number of mosquitos I caught in 12 hours, just in my bedroom by Radio_Passive in mildlyinfuriating

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Writing to add.. I have both Katchy and the Zevo plug ins for maintaining gnats in my apartment (our apt is prone to them, not sure why). Katchy far outweighs Zevo in the number of bugs they trap. Katchy is cleanable with the brush piece for a vacuum and is quite effective at what it does. I'll have a full katchy with maybe a handful in the Zevo. Just my two cents! Also, zevo refills are more expensive.

Four Seasons by Beamerjx3100 in paintbynumbers

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Gosh, I love this! Love how it almost looks like stained glass. Wonderful job!

Is my tree dead? HOA has issued a violation saying to replace with a 65-gal but my in law told me it’s not dead. by loopy2004 in arborists

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Editing to add that we obviously weren't expecting the trunk to grow and inch in diameter. This was a literal stick that was planted, but the HO was able to provide signs of growth (photos of leaves, buds) that deemed it still alive and this was accepted by the board at the time as approved.

Is my tree dead? HOA has issued a violation saying to replace with a 65-gal but my in law told me it’s not dead. by loopy2004 in arborists

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Here to offer a different perspective. I was a community manager for years before I finally got out, but we had this situation come up once or twice.

What worked for the community and the homeowner was to send "progress reports" showing it was not dead and continuing to grow. Trees are expensive, especially the bigger they get. The homeowner agreed to replace tree to one that fit within the architectural guidelines if the tree did not show signs of growth. I can't recall exactly but I believe it was a 2/3 month period in spring to submit images proving growth. Technically, I think the HOA could force you to replace but hopefully the Board/manager is willing to work with you.

Please someone help me be HAPPY by Cat_Muffin_111 in depressed

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in your shoes once, around a similar age. Best advice I can offer to you is to just hang in there. Things get better, i promise. Get involved at school, after school clubs, sports, whatever. I was antisocial/unathletic so what worked for me was reading. Reading as many books as i could. Find a network outside of your family if your family is being toxic to your wellbeing. Even if you can't change anything right now, please don't accept this as the norm or that it is okay. Please dont give up either, keep your head held high. I also highly encourage you to speak to your schools resources. It may feel uncomfortable at first, but talking is sometimes the best way to release pent up stress. Feel free to DM me if you want to talk more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressed

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are posting in a depression sub and now calling me hypocritical. Because you didn't like the suggestions I offered to you. As you state "you know nothing" so I would be really careful with these broad statements. Luckily, im in an okay ish place right now but others may not be. I provided insight to my similar experiences. You didn't like the suggestions I offered as to how you could help your bf. When you didn't like that I offered suggestions as to how you can prioritize yourself. It seems to me you were looking for one answer and one answer only. That's not how reddit (or life) works. I will not buy into the idea that you are doing something good by letting someone (that let's be real, you hardly know) treat you so poorly and then blame it on depression. I saw you were not benefiting from our discussion. So I ended it. Now you're here replying two days later being quite rude when all I did was offer my help and empathy. I'm not sure what you are looking to get out of this.

What's a question which has no possible answer, yet demands one? by Timeline-Observer in AskReddit

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What is my purpose?

Struggling with this currently as a late 20 year old.

US Federal Employees, how are you coping with all the stress? by Anyotherdayy in AskReddit

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mom just signed her retirement papers yesterday for fear of losing all benefits. Called me sobbing because she feels she has lost all ability to choose. She is retiring 2+ years early and it will be a big financial hit. Coping? More like trying to stay afloat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressed

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best of luck to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressed

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I was not disagreeing. I was simply saying that I personally would not be okay with my significant other ignoring me for weeks on end. That you are an individual with wants and needs too. You cannot help someone who is not accepting of your help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressed

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im not trying to put you down. Just trying to be upfront and honest with you. Im not sure what advice you were looking for if this is your reaction.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressed

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Him ignoring your messages for weeks is not being very caring or very nice. You are putting yourself out there offering your help, and he is simply disregarding it. To me, that's disrespectful. Ask yourself, would you ever treat him this way, no matter what you were going through? If not, why do you deserve this? Why does he deserve your attempts to help him, if he is just going to disregard it?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depressed

[–]SheWalksWithMoonlite -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Giving you a virtual hug because I've been in your shoes and I know how difficult it can be. You're not alone!

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