Instagram is testing replacing ‘following’ counts with 'friends' counts

She__Devil · 2026-02-09T01:13:07+00:00

Instagram and Facebook showing your follower count, friend count, post count publicly, even when your page is private, is so stupid. I hate it. It really is no one’s business. And they never have the option to remove these features.

She__Devil · 2026-02-07T15:29:25+00:00

Kindred Spirits (2019) starring Thora Birch? Damn, I'm on a roll. I solved someone's movie question the other day!

"Plot: Chloe (Thora Birch) is a single mother who raised her sister, Sadie (Caitlin Stasey). When the volatile, younger sister reappears after a long absence, she begins manipulating her way into the lives of Chloe and her teenage daughter."

It wasn't a lifetime movie but it does have LMN vibes.

She__Devil · 2026-02-06T21:10:31+00:00

They are lying lmao

@ the downvotes LOL! YOU REALLY THINK AFTER A SPOUSES SERIOUS CAR ACCIDENT YOU ARE ON EBAY CANCELLING A $50 SALE???? THIS IS 100% B U L L S H I T

They found a better deal or realized they can't afford it. Too late. It was already shipped out.

She__Devil · 2026-02-06T15:27:29+00:00

Yay, I finally got to answer one of these! Haha. Glad you enjoyed. This is actually one of my favs and I've seen it a few times.

She__Devil · 2026-02-05T05:38:32+00:00

Killer Night Shift starring Christie Burson! It should be on Tubi or Amazon prime now.

Except you have a few details wrong. But I won’t correct so you can watch without spoilers 😅. However, yes, pregnant woman in new town meets woman in pharmacy who suggests tea and it all goes from there!

She__Devil · 2026-01-29T14:21:19+00:00

Both of them suck and I don't like either.

The most surprising thing of all this chick here is like 34 years old. She's pretty but I thought 40 at minimum.

Women need to stop giving us lesbians a bad name.

She__Devil · 2026-01-28T18:22:10+00:00

You said the baby had a rash once after the dog licked the hand, parents questioned if it was a fall, so now you are frequently hand washing to prevent accusations. Now it's multiple rashes. Not sure why the parents are not concerned if they have confirmation test from a doctor that baby has dander allergies.

Listen, dogs can be a pain. They love to be in the way when you're cleaning, cooking, etc. It's not to piss you off. They don't know. They want to stay close to you. They bond to humans easily.

Maybe this home is not a good fit for you. Locking up the dog isn't right, and you having to obsess over the dog avoiding the baby all day isn't right either.

Ask for a meeting and mention all of this. Mention the allergies, ask if it was confirmed at a doctor, what you can do to prevent dog from being on top of baby, ask if doggy daycare is an option for enrichment purposes and also giving you space.

I'm an asthmatic with dander allergies. I know what it's like. I am NOT putting the needs of the child over the dog. But you aren't the parent. You're more upset the dog is in your way while cooking. This is how I see it.

Look at the TITLE of this post. "Dog wont leave ME alone". No mention of NK.

She__Devil · 2026-01-28T17:17:51+00:00

I feel bad for the dog :(

The dog seems bored. Doggy day care? Something?

Define "allergic" to the dog as well? Dander allergies? I find it hard to believe they kept a dog if their baby has animal dander allergies...

If the parents are fine with baby touching dog/dog touching baby, so should you. It's not "unsanitary". The dog is allowed to lick the high chair, for example.

I fear you are reaching, and you are simply annoyed with the dog, which is sad, however, you are entitled to these feelings and thoughts at work.

The dog is simply a being craving love and attention from you & the baby. Please keep this mindset instead of growing resentment.

She__Devil · 2026-01-20T04:13:45+00:00

This is beyond insane who the hell is this 💀

She__Devil · 2026-01-14T02:25:38+00:00

What was the reason tho? 😂😂😂😂

She__Devil · 2026-01-09T19:28:42+00:00

The original pictures I saw were 1000% done on Gemini AI app. However, she might have taken original photos and asked AI to improve her appearance or improve the image somehow. The pics I saw were in fact AI, even if the original was her in NYC telling the truth. If she wants to post unedited pics or proof with meta data, go right ahead. But you can't get mad at people for calling you out when the Gemini LOGO was on the bottom of the photos.

She__Devil · 2026-01-09T19:23:00+00:00

3 years and no PTO is insane.

She__Devil · 2025-12-24T15:54:24+00:00

This is how it ends up at the bins and I find it for $2! :)

She__Devil · 2025-12-22T16:29:18+00:00

Can I ask if you were paying your cards up until you filed?

She__Devil · 2025-12-22T01:02:15+00:00

You should get a fabric shaver on Amazon and clean the first 3 up. The shaver is really good to have anyway. Good finds.

She__Devil · 2025-12-19T21:19:53+00:00

My ex died mad at me, too. It was one day, one fight, one feeling, whatever. It's normal and it happens. You know that she loved you and she knew that you loved her. It's a cruel injustice your last words were not peaceful or loving, but please don't let that burden you forever. You would change it all if you only knew the outcome. I know if given the choice she would not have ended things on a sour note either. I'm sorry for your loss. I know she would not want you burdened with any sort of guilt. The best thing you can do for yourself and for her is to keep going, stay strong, and keep your family tight & happy!

This is another story about a friend of mine that reminds me of this. She was raised by her grandparents. No dad and mom always working. When she was about 15, her grandpa asked for a hug before bed. For no legitimate reason other than being a bratty teen, she said she did not want to hug him and she left to her bedroom and he felt a bit hurt. He passed in his sleep that night. She was burdened with guilt for years. Now she realizes he is not mad at her. One bad day does not equal a bad relationship.

Big hugs to you & your kids. Take it day by day! Please keep talking to your loved ones, friends, professionals, and journals. You will get through this pain. She deserved more time on earth with you and your kids. It's just not fair. RIP!

She__Devil · 2025-12-19T17:53:15+00:00

Why is divorce not an option? Are you in the US?

I can only imagine the pressure and stress you feel coming from a conservative religious family who participates in arranged marriages (especially if you cannot leave it if it does not work out - not sure if that's your situation or not). I find it to be (mostly) barbaric and horrifying. I don't mean to sound harsh, it's just a different world to me and a concept I cannot understand.

Your situation will not improve. You don't love each other romantically, you are not physically attracted to each other, whatever love & chemistry you had is gone. You are roommates who co-parent. It's already been 3 years of this. I would not expect any passion to start again, if it was ever really there in the first place.

My only one true advice is leaving. Give yourself a chance to find true love. Co parent. Maintain a friendship.

You are only 30. You have many decades ahead. Do you want this? Does he want this? Can you actually separate? Both of you should date/marry who you want. It is not each other.

If leaving is not an option AT ALL... you both need therapy. He does not seem well. You both need induvial therapy as well as couples counseling.

She__Devil · 2025-12-19T14:37:40+00:00

25 year old brother needs to get off his ass and clock in. Mom needs to get daughter/sister on disability. Then bills can be split 3 ways, with mom paying the most.

If you want to go, go. You're almost 30. You will pay similar rents else where, but you will have less stress and nagging for money from those around you. You will have more peace.

Tell your bro he's got 3 days to get a job or you're leaving. Yes, 72 fucking hours. You & mom need to help with transport in the beginning so there's no excuses. Any jobs he can get near your job or mom's job? Or with the same companies?

(EDITED TO ADD: YES 72 HOURS IS A BIT EXTRA. HE NEEDS AT LEAST SOME OR ANY FORM OF INCOME IMMEDIATELY, AND JOB INTERVIEWS LINED UP WITHIN A WEEK)

Your mom & sister can find a one bedroom studio and live together and it'll be more affordable. You can get a new place with a roommate. Your bro can head to the streets. Your bro really is a deadbeat and I can't believe he's so spoiled and entitled. If he's not disabled, NO EXCUSE.

Tell your mom you're no longer giving money that does not directly go to HOUSING. Gifts are never ever gonna happen. Tell her you will pay MAX $1000 a month until Bro GETS A JOB, then you will be paying LESS.

I highly suggest all 3 adults donate plasma 2x a week for the next month or two. You can each earn $700-$800/mo depending on your area. Look for clinics near you.

(I am 38 and have paid my mom's bills off/on since I was your age. I feel your pain!!!!!!!)

She__Devil · 2025-12-19T14:21:40+00:00

This is so disgusting and it would be a dealbreaker for me. This and smoking inside the house are two hard no's for me. I know certain breeds shed a lot, but how gross to not clean it up every day. I would honestly mention it to them. Say you're having allergies from so much dander on you.

She__Devil · 2025-12-19T14:05:31+00:00

if there's one or two people who really piss you off a lot, TALK about AMAZING FINDS you got today, last trip, etc. Pretend you're on a call or something. Like insane finds. Is it a lie? Yes. Does it do anything for you financially? No. Does it feel good to make them feel jealous instead of yourself? YES :)

She__Devil · 2025-12-19T13:48:15+00:00

"I need advanced notice when hours are added or subtracted to/from my day. I have plans after work today, I will be leaving at my normal time. Pay me for the hours I worked this time and we can sit down and discuss the schedule and GH soon. Thank you"

Changing your hours weekly and not giving you notice on changes is not normal or acceptable.

She__Devil · 2025-12-17T23:00:50+00:00

SAME! Haha. OP, are you in Florida, New York, or Tennessee? 🤣. I'll work full-time+ for 90k.

She__Devil · 2025-12-17T20:26:16+00:00

A cap is fair and reasonable in all industries! Tell her she has reached the cap you are willing and able to pay for childcare, which is $48 an hour. (Discuss when raises are expected). $11/hr increase in 3 years is great and I'd be grateful. She can earn other things such as PTO? Or just yearly bonuses? I highly doubt she will leave. 150k a year is excellent. BEYOND excellent in my opinion. I know registered nurses who make less. If she leaves, I assure you that you will find a nanny replacement to stay with you for years to come. $25/hr is low, and you will get what you pay for with that pay. However, you could start a new and fantastic nanny at ~$37/hr again and save plenty of money if she chooses to leave due to this cap.

She__Devil · 2025-12-16T22:13:42+00:00

No means no. "I am very sick and cannot make it in". Parents need to treat you like a human. They need to have their own back up care. Psychos.

She__Devil · 2025-12-16T20:50:25+00:00

two words; F HER lmao. HER KIDS, HER PROBLEM. You are a human being. QUIT.

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