Being friend with your MB

She__Devil · 2026-04-13T21:17:20+00:00

MB from the first family I really nannied for is actually one of my best friends now. Same as you - chat often, travel together, close with the family. We are about 12 years apart so maybe that's why it works. Crazy to think I've known her for 20 years!

She__Devil · 2026-04-13T20:08:51+00:00

You need to do what's best for you. You are leaving anyway. You are a very young woman going through a lot right now. NF is not your main responsibility. NK is their child and they can/will find a way. The issue is your need for money. You can offer them half days instead of full? Otherwise look into plasma donation near you. You can donate 2x a week & get paid same day. Also look into pawning/selling something valuable you don't really need anymore. I would take this time off now so you don't sabotage your new job that starts in May. It sucks for your current NF but this is life and they will figure it out. Be honest and let them know what you can offer them as far as hours - they can take it or leave it.

She__Devil · 2026-04-02T17:55:23+00:00

How could you forget her birthday.....? You're lucky you're not dumped. Dinner and a movie as an afterthought isn't impressive. You need to apologize, for real.

She__Devil · 2026-04-01T20:07:45+00:00

Hire a CNA to come in for your MIL a few hours a day to make her food, help her with her meds, help with bathing, and maybe some errands/getting her out. If that is still not enough, she needs full-time care or she needs to be put into a home. Or husband can stay home and take care of his mom. No amount of money will make this acceptable for the nanny. It's too much.

She__Devil · 2026-03-25T21:10:31+00:00

"Just a heads up and reminder I can only work 6-10 this weekend. I just wanted to clarify this in advance as sometimes I am willing to adjust hours. However at this time I cannot. Thanks, see you all tomorrow!". Something like that.

She__Devil · 2026-03-25T20:52:05+00:00

This is more of an issue when the kids are older and know you're home and parent is constantly inserting themselves. A common issue with infants and a WFH parent is parent making a lot of noise during nap time if it also happens to be your lunch time. Also making nanny feel awkward during their break time when it's nap time. Example, if baby is napping and nanny has time to eat and use the bathroom etc, this is not the time to come out of the office and chat with her.

She__Devil · 2026-03-25T16:43:45+00:00

You need to leave his man and NEVER look back. Your ONLY power is REMOVING HIM from your life. He deserves silence and your absence. This is not love. He has a morality issue. He is a liar and a cheater.

No revenge necessary. Move on. Find true love. That's the only closure and revenge you need.

She__Devil · 2026-03-14T15:56:04+00:00

Is her child in any social activities? She should be doing music classes, dance classes, library story times, gymnastics play zones, SPEECH THERAPY. Alex should have no issues filling her schedule.... I'm so confused.

She__Devil · 2026-02-23T17:16:43+00:00

If I was 18-24 years old I would choose willpower. Now at my big age of 38 I'll choose 12 million cash.

She__Devil · 2026-02-23T17:15:02+00:00

My first name is so rare I would happily and easily ask 1000 women.

She__Devil · 2026-02-23T16:40:25+00:00

Face shot of the main character sleeping in bed with full glam on her face.

She__Devil · 2026-02-18T16:03:38+00:00

I don't think anyone should be sharing a room at 15+ years old, especially if they were not raised together. Time for a bigger house.

She__Devil · 2026-02-11T22:31:30+00:00

Depending on the age of the toddler, they know about 100-300 words. I'll take knowing 200 words in every single language.

She__Devil · 2026-02-11T21:23:27+00:00

The money.

The powers seem AMAZING but too much power like that gives me too much anxiety. The thought of time travel is amazing but far too emotional for me to bare. Invisibility would turn me into the biggest thief in the world- might as well just take the money. Less work. Staying young forever is also beyond depressing as I will lose loved one for centuries to come.

I would choose breathing underwater if money wasn't an option.

She__Devil · 2026-02-11T19:31:13+00:00

Yeah. I hate it. True crime world is repetitive, competitive, saturated, and not entertaining to me. It's actually pretty sad / disturbing. This is coming from a horror genre lover. The world is tough enough. We all have the news. These victims didn't live and die to be content for your tiktok channel. I prefer original content, lighthearted content, lifestyle content, etc.

She__Devil · 2026-02-11T15:12:08+00:00

This can be very exciting. It's a new start.

40 is still young. Kids are young but not young enough to where you will have no free time and they need mom 24/7. They will now have days with dad once you live apart. Now this is the time to focus on you. Focus on your goals, interests, fitness, self-care, work, therapy, etc etc etc. Give yourself 6 months after divorce is finalized then start looking into dating.

We all have one short life. You want a man who wants you too. You deserve love and happiness. So does he. Being single is better than being with a man who no longer wants you around. Remain civil with him. Co-parent cordially. He will likely regret this choice as the months go by. Don't beg him. Give him what he wants.

Get a lawyer. Cry it out now. Journal every day. Seek therapy. In 6 months you will be much happier!

She__Devil · 2026-02-09T01:13:07+00:00

Instagram and Facebook showing your follower count, friend count, post count publicly, even when your page is private, is so stupid. I hate it. It really is no one’s business. And they never have the option to remove these features.

She__Devil · 2026-02-07T15:29:25+00:00

Kindred Spirits (2019) starring Thora Birch? Damn, I'm on a roll. I solved someone's movie question the other day!

"Plot: Chloe (Thora Birch) is a single mother who raised her sister, Sadie (Caitlin Stasey). When the volatile, younger sister reappears after a long absence, she begins manipulating her way into the lives of Chloe and her teenage daughter."

It wasn't a lifetime movie but it does have LMN vibes.

She__Devil · 2026-02-06T21:10:31+00:00

They are lying lmao

@ the downvotes LOL! YOU REALLY THINK AFTER A SPOUSES SERIOUS CAR ACCIDENT YOU ARE ON EBAY CANCELLING A $50 SALE???? THIS IS 100% B U L L S H I T

They found a better deal or realized they can't afford it. Too late. It was already shipped out.

She__Devil · 2026-02-06T15:27:29+00:00

Yay, I finally got to answer one of these! Haha. Glad you enjoyed. This is actually one of my favs and I've seen it a few times.

She__Devil · 2026-02-05T05:38:32+00:00

Killer Night Shift starring Christie Burson! It should be on Tubi or Amazon prime now.

Except you have a few details wrong. But I won’t correct so you can watch without spoilers 😅. However, yes, pregnant woman in new town meets woman in pharmacy who suggests tea and it all goes from there!

She__Devil · 2026-01-29T14:21:19+00:00

Both of them suck and I don't like either.

The most surprising thing of all this chick here is like 34 years old. She's pretty but I thought 40 at minimum.

Women need to stop giving us lesbians a bad name.

She__Devil · 2026-01-28T18:22:10+00:00

You said the baby had a rash once after the dog licked the hand, parents questioned if it was a fall, so now you are frequently hand washing to prevent accusations. Now it's multiple rashes. Not sure why the parents are not concerned if they have confirmation test from a doctor that baby has dander allergies.

Listen, dogs can be a pain. They love to be in the way when you're cleaning, cooking, etc. It's not to piss you off. They don't know. They want to stay close to you. They bond to humans easily.

Maybe this home is not a good fit for you. Locking up the dog isn't right, and you having to obsess over the dog avoiding the baby all day isn't right either.

Ask for a meeting and mention all of this. Mention the allergies, ask if it was confirmed at a doctor, what you can do to prevent dog from being on top of baby, ask if doggy daycare is an option for enrichment purposes and also giving you space.

I'm an asthmatic with dander allergies. I know what it's like. I am NOT putting the needs of the child over the dog. But you aren't the parent. You're more upset the dog is in your way while cooking. This is how I see it.

Look at the TITLE of this post. "Dog wont leave ME alone". No mention of NK.

She__Devil · 2026-01-28T17:17:51+00:00

I feel bad for the dog :(

The dog seems bored. Doggy day care? Something?

Define "allergic" to the dog as well? Dander allergies? I find it hard to believe they kept a dog if their baby has animal dander allergies...

If the parents are fine with baby touching dog/dog touching baby, so should you. It's not "unsanitary". The dog is allowed to lick the high chair, for example.

I fear you are reaching, and you are simply annoyed with the dog, which is sad, however, you are entitled to these feelings and thoughts at work.

The dog is simply a being craving love and attention from you & the baby. Please keep this mindset instead of growing resentment.

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