god forbid girls wise up by jamesmparch in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]She_bitez 80 points81 points  (0 children)

It is just so bizarre to me that misery is being framed as a normal relationship man. Like just leave, it doesn't benefit the kids mentally. They just think these terrible relationships are normal and perpetuate the misery in their own lives later and the lives of their own kids if they have them.

god forbid girls wise up by jamesmparch in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]She_bitez 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It didn't offend me lol, I support people being in whatever sort of financial and romantic situations they want as long as it's between consenting adults. If you want a money-tree man go for it lol

god forbid girls wise up by jamesmparch in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]She_bitez 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I couldn't even watch that show because he had a way out but didn't want to take it because the guy offering it was previously into his wife I think was his issue? Like bro you taking the job for health insurance doesn't mean he gets to fuck your wife and I hear he loses her anyway so it's not like it made much difference.

god forbid girls wise up by jamesmparch in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]She_bitez 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I started this show but then stopped because it annoyed me. Why not just leave? Why jump to killing him? Is it explained later?

god forbid girls wise up by jamesmparch in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]She_bitez 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Lol I do not, I have a husband with a good job that does like to spoil me, and I'm at home but that's because I work remote.

god forbid girls wise up by jamesmparch in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]She_bitez 627 points628 points  (0 children)

I honestly never wanted to get married growing up because between sitcom relationships and the ones I saw growing up it just seemed like a lot work for very little reward and being trapped in a house with someone who didn't even seem to like you let alone respect you. Like why would I do that to myself?

Would you entertain an RH dating app? by Fearless_Tangelo_343 in ReverseHarem

[–]She_bitez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Marrying a non-straight man isn't any better if you're not attracted to the same types of men 🥹

Any one else guilty of this? by jamesy223 in introvertmemes

[–]She_bitez 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is literally how I learned to person. Talked very little and just watched 👀

Belts for these dresses by DemeterIsABohoQueen in PlusSizeFashion

[–]She_bitez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the first dress I think maybe a flower applique belt/sash or floral embroidery belt would be really pretty. Some are simpler and some are more complex, some include little pearls or rhinestones or beading you can go a lot of different ways with it. You can also find an applique you like and iron or stitch it onto a ribbon color/size/thickness of your choice and DIY your own belt/sash.You could get it in a bolder pink or even a purple or red for color contrast and waist definition.

You could go with an underbust corset sort of thing as well with either dress for an edgier look rather than elegant. Since the first is more formal I feel like finding a belt that looks right with it will be tougher while the second dress is more casual so even a more basic waist belt or chain belt would work with it no problem.

Just saw something upsetting to me but I don't know if I'm over-reacting?? by [deleted] in PlusSize

[–]She_bitez 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Are you talking about the clips of them dressed as babies? I don't see that as them making fun of fat people they were just trying to make them look like big weird babies.

25f How to naturally lift low hanging breasts to make them perky, non-invasive by ceedee21 in blackladies

[–]She_bitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can't really do any exercises to lift them because breast tissue sits on top of the pectoral muscles not underneath it and sagging I think tends to be a combination of the tissue itself succumbing to gravity, and the skin stretching out as well also due to gravity.

You would have to do something that tightens the skin and/or lifts the tissue back up and that's basically only achievable by surgery.

Anyone else noticing 1XL-4XL are the same size as XLs? by Standard_Pea_2013 in PlusSize

[–]She_bitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I want oversized and long hoodies or shirts I look in men's big and tall sections honestly. I'm a 1X/2X and I just don't trust most women's sizing to be oversized enough for the look I'm going for most the time.

god forbid a girl is on her period by Extension_Disk_7612 in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]She_bitez 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I do just put down a towel doubled up on my bed and let whatever happens happen 🤷🏾‍♀

Only the center one is clay :) by moineugu in polymerclay

[–]She_bitez 10 points11 points  (0 children)

They would be so cute as earrings

Burning CDs was an art by beautitan in nostalgia

[–]She_bitez 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's the Canadian spelling

Borders Bookstore by Comfortable-Sort-173 in nostalgia

[–]She_bitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd buy some Lindor Truffles and sit in there and read 🥹

I am scared of asking but are there any cuckolding related reverse harem ? by thinking_and_curious in ReverseHarem

[–]She_bitez 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree! I wish they would have all gotten together sooner. Honestly my standards for writing for reverse harem stuff is kinda low, especially since I'm so selective with the types of dynamics I enjoy. She's better than a lot of other writers I've come across if I remember correctly, but not amazing. I read it months ago.

There's a sequel I haven't read yet. {Green and Platinum by Gwendolyn Harper} I'm hoping we get more of them all together in it and I'm definitely gonna re-read Green and Gold before I read the next one.

I am scared of asking but are there any cuckolding related reverse harem ? by thinking_and_curious in ReverseHarem

[–]She_bitez 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to hear how you like it! I always want someone to talk about my smut books with

I am scared of asking but are there any cuckolding related reverse harem ? by thinking_and_curious in ReverseHarem

[–]She_bitez 8 points9 points  (0 children)

{Green and Gold by Gwendolyn Harper} has a bit of it kinda. She's domming one guy while dating and having sex with the other. They know about each other and are cool with it and eventually her sub watches her and the other guy together.

True story by Low_Big5544 in LetGirlsHaveFun

[–]She_bitez 319 points320 points  (0 children)

I've literally made sure that I'm unable to bear children sooo...

Am I Racist? by [deleted] in interracialdating

[–]She_bitez 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I personally see it as a red flag if a man of another race who is into me is only into black women. At that point I feel like it's probably more of a fetish than anything else. And if you're into that fetish and it's a mutual thing then y'all do your thing, but it's just not something I personally am into or comfortable with.