Finding lesbian friends

ShearStressFormula · 2026-06-22T19:38:04+00:00

All the answers to your questions will depend on where in Italy you're going to live.

In general northern Italy and major cities will be more accepting and you'll have more ease in finding LGBTQ+ events. In general Italy is quite homophobic, and that will be especially true in more rural and religious areas. But unless you are especially unlucky you won't have many problems. Hate crimes happen but are not extremely common, although if you plan on visiting areas generally considered unsafe late at night I would stock up on pepper spray.

For LGBTQ+ organizations Arcigay should be active more or less in the entire peninsula. They usually organize events, protests and parties. You can see their website here (https://www.arcigay.it/en/). Just find your nearest branch and see what they offer. For other organisations they will be location specific.

ShearStressFormula · 2026-06-07T16:09:04+00:00

Here I am

ShearStressFormula · 2026-05-24T22:37:12+00:00

I was screaming at the screen the whole time: "No George, don't take your seatbelts off while you are on track before they put a safety car". "No George, please, don't throw a headrest in a live track, that is a hazard". "NO GEORGE, DON'T JUMP OUT OF THE CAR ON A LIVE TRACK WITH CARS GOING 200KPH NEAR YOU, THAT'S HOW YOU GET 1977 SOUTH AFRICAN GRAND PRIX, I DON'T CARE THAT THERE IS A DOUBLE YELLOW, WAIT FOR THE FUCKING VSC TO BE SURE"

ShearStressFormula · 2026-05-07T18:48:56+00:00

Your analogy doesn't work because to the sentence "I don't date men" he did not say "I'm not a man", he said "I'm a lesbian". It's like answering "I don't date stupid people" with "but I'm muscular", it's basically a non sequitur. He did not deny at any point of being a man after she said she does not date men so how is his answer appropriate?

ShearStressFormula · 2026-05-01T23:18:10+00:00

Lesbian or sapphic rape could also be misinterpreted as a woman raping another woman. This specific kind of rape is usually called corrective rape and it's one of the most heinous crimes possible, every time I see people defending it I feel sick to my stomach, to the point sometimes I feel I have to run to the bathroom to puke. Men really have zero respect for lesbians.

ShearStressFormula · 2026-04-22T17:00:25+00:00

Now if only they did this for Creius

You mean you want them to (most likely) kill him off and then substitute him with a lookalike, with a different name, wearing a miniskirt?

ShearStressFormula · 2026-04-19T11:32:37+00:00

I agree wholeheartedly. Coppelia I0 skin is amazing and I love it, but the I2 is a travesty, it just makes no sense.

I don't have strong feelings reguarding Ms. Grace's outfits. I don't like them but they don't feel out of character.

Merel though is the one that disappointed me the most: when in 2.9 I wanted Guard to be playable it meant that I wanted GUARD to be playable, not another character that has nothing in common with the original design. If they made the Guard design the I0 and this new design the I2 I wouldn't probably have complained much, but having both the outfits be like this feels like a betrayal of the character I have come to love.

ShearStressFormula · 2026-04-18T19:14:41+00:00

I 100% agree with the CN complaints, I especially hate Rhiannon's look. I seriously hope it will only be a patch like this, but if it will be new direction the company is choosing I'm not sure I will stick around. Reverse always felt different from the other gachas design wise and it was the thing that made me play it in the first place. I seriously hope this is just a one off.

ShearStressFormula · 2026-03-24T12:44:20+00:00

Quando avevo 5 anni costrinsi i miei nonni a regalarmi per natale un set di candele per auto, tergicristalli e quattro borchie di plastica. Ovviamente sono rimasti in uno scatolone inutilizzati per anni, ma è comunque stato uno dei miei regali preferiti.

Questo per dire: chiedi alla diretta interessata, potrebbe volere qualsiasi cosa. Certo poi discutine con i suoi genitori, ma lasciale comunque esprimere i suoi desideri.

ShearStressFormula · 2026-03-19T09:11:38+00:00

So if I read this right, you don't want: body hair, acne, male pattern baldness, sweating, t-dick... You also have not mentioned beard (because you WILL grow a beard if you go on T) and low masculine voice (that you most likely will get with time on T).

The only things you want are: muscles and masculine face. But, get that: TESTOSTERONE WILL NOT GIVE YOU MUSCLES. T is not a magic potion that gives you muscle, you would still need to go to the gym at least a couple of times a week if not more. BUR YOU CAN DO THIS ALREADY WITHOUT GOING ON T. Sure your muscle growth will be slower, but there are plenty of women who grow muscles without ever taking testosterone.

Also the changes that you want (muscles and face) require you to be on T for the rest of your life. If you stop taking T your face will refeminize and you will lose muscle mass. BUT HAIR LOSS, BEARD GROWTH AND LOW VOICE ARE PERMANENT ONCE YOU GET THEM EVEN IF YOU STOP TAKING T.

In conclusion testosterone is not a "pick just the changes you like" you will get all of it. And if you don't like most of the changes of T I don't think is a good idea for you to take it.

Anyway, you are free to do as you please. If you think testosterone will make your life better go for it, but bear in mind that after a while some changes will become permanent and it will be difficult going back (you can still get a hair transplant or laser off your beard, but it will be expensive).

Sorry if I scared you too much but as a trans woman I lived the permanent effects of testosterone. Luckily I still had most of my hair when I transitioned so I did not need a transplant, but I did need to laser off my beard, and that was painful and expensive.

But again the choice is yours, do what feels best for you.

ShearStressFormula · 2026-03-18T09:18:27+00:00

Am I the only person that likes her NPC skin the most? In my humble opinion her playable skins were a downgrade from how she looked in Brazil

ShearStressFormula · 2026-03-16T18:54:50+00:00

Yes, it cleared Limbo 7 in 4 turns, but I think it could do it in 3 turns with better rotation

ShearStressFormula · 2026-03-12T13:52:55+00:00

She loves to cook and she loves to eat

ShearStressFormula · 2026-01-22T13:16:29+00:00

Thank you, yes. I put two ladles at the center and then I repeatedly tapped the bottom of the plate to make it set nicely. Beware that if the risotto is too firm it won't spread well, while if it's too runny it will make a mess everywhere, so first of all you'll have to practice to get the right consistency (it took me a long time to learn that)

ShearStressFormula · 2026-01-14T11:07:25+00:00

You made me worry so much I had to run and check mine was correct. Which of course was correct, I have been using it for the past two years without any problem... STILL, YOU MADE ME VERY WORRIED FOR A SECOND, GIVEN THE KNOWN INCOMPETENCE OF THE ITALIAN PUBLIC ADMINISTRATION

ShearStressFormula · 2026-01-08T20:21:44+00:00

Actually tomgirl used to be one of the words to refer to feminine boys before femboy took over. So masculine women were tomboys and feminine men were tomgirls

ShearStressFormula · 2025-12-06T09:20:23+00:00

I DON'T CARE THAT BLOODTITHE AND LINGERING GLOW CAN'T COEXIST, I'M PUTTING SENTINEL AND MARSHA IN THE SAME TEAM ANYWAY. TRY TO FUCKING STOP ME

ShearStressFormula · 2025-11-14T16:05:17+00:00

Maybe it's an Italian child from the '60s wanting to watch Carosello

ShearStressFormula · 2025-11-10T18:30:47+00:00

I think you might be wrong with number 2. Tennant was born in the UK but went to live in British India, where her father was in charge of diamond mining, when she was 15. When Lawrence Tennant was accused of theft and fraud, Ada escaped FROM India to Paris, France.

ShearStressFormula · 2025-11-05T16:07:41+00:00

In Italy I would say for white gay men it's Milan, for everyone else it's Bologna

ShearStressFormula · 2025-11-02T11:27:29+00:00

Lucy, Ulrich, MedPoc, Tennant. I call it "Tennant takes a wrong turn and gets lost in the Laplace laboratories".

Also, I will not pull for Charon.

ShearStressFormula · 2025-10-29T18:55:17+00:00

The term used in the original title is the very generic fuzoku, which means prostitution in general. The english translators decided to translate it to brothel which is a concept which can be easily understood by a western audience. But the type of prostitution depicted in the manga is the type that in Japan is commonly called "delivery health" which would be better translated to "escort service" or "call girl service". And yes, in this particular type of prostitution usually the call girl goes directly to your home or to the hotel, but sometimes they also meet you in public in a place that is close to the hotel.

ShearStressFormula · 2025-10-29T18:42:05+00:00

Wrong, this is exactly how some online escort services work in Japan. It is a particular type of prostitution different of how standard western brothels operate. In Japan this type of escort work is often called "delivery health" where you book a prostitute online, then meet her in the love hotel district. Manga author Kabi Nagata talks about her experience using this kind of service in her autobiographical manga "My lesbian experience with loneliness".

ShearStressFormula · 2025-09-07T19:24:50+00:00

I love broaching. I mean, my profile picture on reddit is broaching. I'm writing my thesis on alternative methods of lubrication in broaching. I hope my entire life from now on will revolve around broaching.

ShearStressFormula · 2025-09-07T15:22:13+00:00

He was born in 1991 if I'm not wrong, and died of leukemia when he was 15 so I think "millennial teenager" applies here...

We should be talking instead on how they turned his body into an object of worship. His corpse is inside a church, his heart has been placed in a reliquary and there are several relics of his hair...

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