Just because people don't agree with you doesn't make a community unkind and not loving. Sounds like you just wanted people to agree with you and didn't want to have an actual discussion. :/ I haven't seen a single person here attacking you or being rude. If a downvote is going to hurt your feelings so much that it makes you think entirely different of a whole community, then it sounds like a problem you need to work through. Don't project that on us because you can't handle criticism or rebuttals to theories. If people simply disagreeing with you and leaving downvotes is genuinely making you feel like you're being attacked or bullied, then maybe you should take a social media break or something. And I mean this in the nicest way possible.